Just for the record, ADD/ADHD is not a “new” disease (look it is as much a disease or mental health concern that bi-polar or depression is) as it has been called “minimal brain dysfunction” back into the early 1960s if my memory is correct.
While on ritalin or it’s equiv, methalphenydate ( think that’s correct) is effective, every person is different on what is effective. Some do better on Adderal and some with simple behavior modification.
It’s “new” to some because many didn’t become aware of it until the mid 1990s when teachers and general physicians were introduced to it by the media.
Again, this is a disorder or disease that has been recognized in psychiatric circles for decades. With our instant information society with cable and now the internet, it’s more likely that people will “think” they have an ADD/ADHD child or adult but through thorough examination (psychological testing and a good physical) it can be the difference between a person that succeeds or a person that self medicates and wastes his/her life seeking a fix for what they don’t know what is wrong.
It’s often a case of: If he’d apply himself, he’d get great grades but he gets ds and fs. She’s so bright but she stares off into space a lot of the time. He never finishes anything, except these particular projects. She really acts out when she is asked to do what her classmates are asked and willing to do.
It’s not just one or two of those examples that should help a parent think about the possibility but a combo of many of these kinds of things. There could also be other issues going on like a very unhappy home life but if your household is relatively normal then there’s something going on. It may or may not be ADD/ADHD but those kinds of things are important to look at.
Heck, had my parents caught mine when I was in first or second grade, I highly suspect that you all would know a completely different techchick. My job, my home life, my social life, etc…I started self medicating at 12 years old. Luckily, parents today have more information but need to be more concerned with a quick diagnosis and a quick fix when there may be other things going on.
As for the meds. I tend to have a less voilatile (sp) temper when on them. I don’t notice it but my family and friends do. I can communicate far better when on my meds. It helps regulate my sleep patterns. I can work more evenly without having things distract me to the point of not doing what I should be. I don’t drink nearly as much when I drink. I don’t smoke as much when I am on them. Overall, I am a normal being.
I haven’t been on ritalin since 1998. I ran into a roadblock with a doctor and since then haven’t been the same. He wanted me to see a psych AGAIN, despite the fact he had my psych records from a well known psych in Denver and my doc down here…jerk. So I am soured on docs and live my life as best I can with some bad outcomes at times without my meds.
If you all had known me when I was on my ritalin, you would have seen a completely different woman. I look back through some of the stuff I have written in the years and I am not the me I want to be.
Now I am just whining. Sorry.