# Is this grade school teaching method by design? Or something else? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 3, 2026, 10:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-this-grade-school-teaching-method-by-design-or-something-else/1034379 "2026-11-03T22:20:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2026, 10:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-this-grade-school-teaching-method-by-design-or-something-else/1034379/1 "2026-11-03T22:20:25Z")
There are probably lots of words you could do this with. But I was thinking about the words “then” and “than”. I know when and how to use each word. But if you were to ask me to articulate it for you, I don’t think I could. I just know it when I see it or hear it or write it. It just got me to thinking how did the teachers who instilled this knowledge in me do it? ---
**Author:** ![F.U.Shakespeare](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/aca169/32.png) [@F.U.Shakespeare](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/F.U.Shakespeare)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2026, 10:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-this-grade-school-teaching-method-by-design-or-something-else/1034379/2 "2026-11-03T22:29:26Z")
“Than” is mostly used to compare things: _Miami is warmer than Boston_. “Then” usually describes a sequence of events: _We unpacked, then we went out to dinner_. ---
**Author:** ![Dorjan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dorjan/32/12440_2.png) [@Dorjan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dorjan)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2026, 10:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-this-grade-school-teaching-method-by-design-or-something-else/1034379/3 "2026-11-03T22:40:42Z")
> [@Grrr](#): > > I know when and how to use each word. But if you were to ask me to articulate it for you, I don’t think I could. > > I just know it when I see it or hear it or write it. You learn proper usage mostly by being well-read. This is why reading matters so much; learning grammar rules only gets you so far, especially in a language where every rule has twice as many exceptions. ---
**Author:** ![Chronos](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chronos/32/134_2.png) [@Chronos](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chronos)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2026, 10:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-this-grade-school-teaching-method-by-design-or-something-else/1034379/4 "2026-11-03T22:51:03Z")
> [@Dorjan](#): > > You learn proper usage mostly by being well-read. Yup. And your grade-school classmates who don’t read as much probably get those words mixed up pretty often. ---
**Author:** ![bengangmo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/50afbb/32.png) [@bengangmo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bengangmo)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2026, 11:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-this-grade-school-teaching-method-by-design-or-something-else/1034379/6 "2026-11-03T23:06:58Z")
Explain and drill Explain the difference, have 10 examples where the student has to cross out one or the other option then the student has to create 3 examples of each of their own - depending on the ability of the class this could be either totally free choice, or they are given sets of clauses that they need to approprately join, (maybe by adding more than just then/than to make a “good” sentence. ETA - given that I made an error that I have corrected maybe they could also spot and correct the mistake in a sentence or story as well And a second edit - this is the sort of exercise that AI is particularly good for, this sort of worksheet can be created in a few minutes (although it does need to be proofed) instead of making the teacher crack brain ---
**Author:** ![Atamasama](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/atamasama/32/12961_2.png) [@Atamasama](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Atamasama)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2026, 11:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-this-grade-school-teaching-method-by-design-or-something-else/1034379/7 "2026-11-03T23:07:34Z")
The vast majority of what I know about the English language comes from reading it, hearing it, and using it. Context can be a great teacher. I can’t tell you how many times I see something written and think to myself that something isn’t right without being able to properly articulate what is wrong at first, and certainly not being able to cite a formal “rule” about it. It becomes something instinctual after you have enough familiarity with the language. And yeah, reading a lot helps in this immensely. ---
**Author:** ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2026, 11:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-this-grade-school-teaching-method-by-design-or-something-else/1034379/8 "2026-11-03T23:12:27Z")
Yes I do that too. ---
**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2026, 8:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-this-grade-school-teaching-method-by-design-or-something-else/1034379/9 "2026-11-04T20:17:17Z")
> [@Dorjan](#): > > You learn proper usage mostly by being well-read. This is why reading matters so much; learning grammar rules only gets you so far, especially in a language where every rule has twice as many exceptions. I can’t even remember being taught formal grammar. What I remember is reading voraciously. So if something is grammatically incorrect, it hits me a certain way, and I know it’s wrong, even if I don’t know why. There are a few exceptions where I can’t seem to learn them even when I’ve been taught the rule. Who/whom is a cluster, you and me/you and I, which vs. that… I have zero confidence in those. And it’s not grammatical but any word with double consonants in some places but not in other places really messes me up. ---
**Author:** ![Q.Q.Switcheroo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/q.q.switcheroo/32/5713_2.png) [@Q.Q.Switcheroo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Q.Q.Switcheroo)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2026, 8:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-this-grade-school-teaching-method-by-design-or-something-else/1034379/10 "2026-11-04T20:25:37Z")
I can still remember the exact moment I learned the distinction: while reading David Schwartz’s _How Much Is a Million_ at age 7, I encountered the word “than” and ran off to excitedly tell my parents I’d found a spelling error in the book. Imagine my surprise…. ---
**Author:** ![Inigo\_Montoya](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inigo_montoya/32/124_2.png) [@Inigo\_Montoya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inigo_Montoya)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2026, 8:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-this-grade-school-teaching-method-by-design-or-something-else/1034379/11 "2026-11-09T20:40:00Z")
I was taught their/they’re/there; when to use “I” vs “me” as in “Joe and I went…” and “Give it to Joe and me”; effect vs affect. I received the lessons several times between grade school and graduation, and had it all down as second nature a few years before I started reading grownup material. My head explodes a little bit whenever someone uses “I” as the object of a preposition.