# Is your bed made?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [June 19, 2025, 1:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828 "2025-06-19T01:13:24Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![SurrenderDorothy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/surrenderdorothy/32/1221_2.png) [@SurrenderDorothy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SurrenderDorothy)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/1 "2025-06-19T01:13:24Z")

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Right this minute, is your bed made?

Is it normally made? Do you make it or does someone else?

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**Author:** ![SuntanLotion](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/suntanlotion/32/16165_2.png) [@SuntanLotion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SuntanLotion)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/2 "2025-06-19T01:23:01Z")

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Always made. I sleep on top of the comforter, sometimes putting a blanket on me.

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**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/3 "2025-06-19T01:23:31Z")

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Yup, either my wife or I make it every morning.

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**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/4 "2025-06-19T01:25:17Z")

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Nope, it gets made on Sunday when I change the sheets.

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**Author:** ![chela](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chela/32/21582_2.png) [@chela](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chela)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/5 "2025-06-19T01:25:52Z")

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Sheets are pulled back airing out, after I spritz the linens this evening I remake it tuck it in plump the pillows and dive in diagonally across my QLM.

What about you?

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**Author:** ![Ellecram](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ellecram/32/18948_2.png) [@Ellecram](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ellecram)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/6 "2025-06-19T01:26:00Z")

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I got in the habit of making my bed every morning in US Navy boot camp. That particular habit never left me. It’s the first thing I usually do.

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**Author:** ![pulykamell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pulykamell/32/3166_2.png) [@pulykamell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pulykamell)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/7 "2025-06-19T01:27:59Z")

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Nope. The bed is pretty much never made. Never saw the point.

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**Author:** ![Tamerlane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tamerlane/32/7602_2.png) [@Tamerlane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tamerlane)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/8 "2025-06-19T01:28:18Z")

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Not exactly. Very roughly squared up is it’s usual state (comforter, sheets, plus thin fleece blanket as a topper to contain cat hair to an easily washed item). I will fully make it up only when doing a full sheet change which I do every mumble days. Occasionally when I’m feeling a wee bit more slovenly, it doesn’t even get the very rough squared up treatment

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**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/9 "2025-06-19T01:29:41Z")

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I almost never bother to make my bed.

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**Author:** ![puzzlegal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/puzzlegal/32/3827_2.png) [@puzzlegal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/puzzlegal)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/10 "2025-06-19T01:29:51Z")

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Nope. When i wash the sheets, i make the bed. That’s pretty much the only time i make the bed. If I’m going to use the bed as a clean surface for sorting laundry or packing, I’ll smooth out the covers, but i won’t actually tuck anything in, or even smooth out my husband’s side

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**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/11 "2025-06-19T01:34:00Z")

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Yes. Nearly always. Made before breakfast as a rule.

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**Author:** ![Jaycat.again](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jaycat.again/32/11525_2.png) [@Jaycat.again](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jaycat.again)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/12 "2025-06-19T01:36:04Z")

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Yes, and now I have to lie in it.

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**Author:** ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/21906_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/13 "2025-06-19T01:37:58Z")

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Sorta made. We pull the sheet and cover(s) mostly smooth when we get up.

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**Author:** ![dolphinboy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dolphinboy/32/330_2.png) [@dolphinboy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dolphinboy)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/14 "2025-06-19T01:38:52Z")

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Yes, it’s always made except when I am in it sleeping. I’ve been making my bed every day for over 60 years. Some habits are hard to break.

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**Author:** ![mnemosyne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c4cdca/32.png) [@mnemosyne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mnemosyne)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/15 "2025-06-19T01:42:11Z")

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Nope, though because I use a weighted blanket, my side kind of looks a bit like it’s turned down for the night as I just flip one corner over to get up. My husband’s side is much more rumpled.

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**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/16 "2025-06-19T01:48:33Z")

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Yes, made. I didn’t used to, but then discovered I sleep much better in a bed that’s straight. So I worked to develop the habit and never lost it.

It takes about 45 seconds to do. Worth it.

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**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/17 "2025-06-19T01:49:29Z")

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Nope and I stopped using sheets years ago. Just use multiple blankets and a comforter. Sleep between blankets, the amount depends on the weather.

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**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 1:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/18 "2025-06-19T01:53:19Z")

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> [@pulykamell](#):
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> Nope. The bed is pretty much never made. Never saw the point.

Ditto…I’m part chimp I think which I guess is actually true and my bed is a **nest** of silk pillows and light covers.  
I particularly hate going into hotels with tight sheets that confine my feet 🤬

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**Author:** ![Spiderman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spiderman/32/230_2.png) [@Spiderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spiderman)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 2:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/19 "2025-06-19T02:17:14Z")

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An unmade bed is inviting, I can go upstairs & get right in; don’t need to remove decorative pillow or take off comforters.

& hotel operators, I do not want to sleep in an envelope, sealed up on three sides; before I get in I have to untuck everything so that my feet can move.

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**Author:** ![Tamerlane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tamerlane/32/7602_2.png) [@Tamerlane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tamerlane)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 2:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/is-your-bed-made/1019828/20 "2025-06-19T02:21:00Z")

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> [@Spiderman](#):
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> & hotel operators, I do not want to sleep in an envelope, sealed up on three sides; before I get in I have to untuck everything so that my feet can move.

I get that, but I once had a good friend who insisted on making the bed very tightly every day because she felt the constriction was comforting when she was going to sleep. Kind of a similar concept to swaddling an infant. I’ve never liked it, but I get it.

Hotels can’t really win on this one, so they go the neater route for presentation’s sake.

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