# It's all fun and giggles until somebody dies (An abortion rant)

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [July 25, 2012, 4:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350 "2012-07-25T16:36:57Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![curlcoat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ea5d25/32.png) [@curlcoat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/curlcoat)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2012, 9:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/21 "2012-07-25T21:03:09Z")

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> [@thirdwarning](#):
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> Everybody got it but you.

Great reading ability there skippy - try again.

> [@The\_Man\_In\_Black](#):
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> Learn to read and stop bitching. I just scanned the thread, and I understood his meaning with out trouble. Maybe some day you will be smart enough to understand fucking words.

Same for you.

Both of you - it’s far easier to make a decision on something after you’ve read someones explanation of it. Interesting how it was close to 50/50 on how to interpret “a treatment that will kill the fetus, which has just as much right to life as the girl”, and all “I knew what he was saying all along, you are an idiot” after the elaboration.

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**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2012, 9:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/22 "2012-07-25T21:15:58Z")

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> [@curlcoat](#):
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> …The point of the OP seemed to be that the laws only apply to the poor…

You misunderstood the OP even worse than you misunderstood me. If your brain cells function properly, you can tell that the point of the OP is the the law (in this case the constitutional amendment) is _bad_. It is equally bad for the rich and poor who are in the Dominican Republic. The rich have an advantage in that they have the option to leave the country. The bad law does not constrain them in other countries _where the law does not apply_.

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**Author:** ![elbows](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b3f665/32.png) [@elbows](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elbows)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2012, 9:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/23 "2012-07-25T21:17:43Z")

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> [@](#):
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> I doubt I need to apologize but if he didn’t mean what that post seemed to say, I do apologize for the misunderstanding.

Thanks for this, I enjoyed it very much!

It’s one of the very best ‘non apology’ apologies I’ve seen. A beauty. Be proud!

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2012, 9:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/24 "2012-07-25T21:19:39Z")

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> [@curlcoat](#):
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> Just because someone doesn’t agree with everything that you believe in doesn’t make them stupid.

Actually, I think you’re stupid even when you’re taking a position with which I agree. In fact, if you weren’t so profoundly stupid, you might notice that this thread is just such an example.

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**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2012, 9:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/25 "2012-07-25T21:35:08Z")

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> [@curlcoat](#):
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> You said the fetus has as much right to live as the girl. That makes you an idiot.

> [@curlcoat](#):
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> Just because someone doesn’t agree with everything that you believe in doesn’t make them stupid. Someday you’ll be smart enough to understand that.

Maybe you should listen to your own thoughts. Someday you may be smart enough to do so.

Just to be clear to how stupid she actually is the posts above are 9 and 18 from this very thread and are only 12 minutes apart.

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**Author:** ![Inigo\_Montoya](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inigo_montoya/32/124_2.png) [@Inigo\_Montoya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inigo_Montoya)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2012, 9:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/26 "2012-07-25T21:43:31Z")

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> [@Shodan](#):
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> So you worship the devil?
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> I _knew_ it!
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> Regards,  
> Shodan

Blah! I wish I didn’t know people who would have done that with all sincerity.

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**Author:** ![curlcoat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ea5d25/32.png) [@curlcoat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/curlcoat)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2012, 10:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/27 "2012-07-25T22:53:04Z")

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> [@Boyo\_Jim](#):
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> You misunderstood the OP even worse than you misunderstood me. If your brain cells function properly, you can tell that the point of the OP is the the law (in this case the constitutional amendment) is _bad_. It is equally bad for the rich and poor who are in the Dominican Republic. The rich have an advantage in that they have the option to leave the country. The bad law does not constrain them in other countries _where the law does not apply_.

Well lets see. You just got done pointing out the same things about the OP that I did, abet in a much longer winded fashion. So, which part of it did I misunderstand? Or have you _gasp!_ misunderstood something I wrote?

BTW, I cannot believe you would go look for & post in an old thread which hadn’t had a post in over a month, just because I what?, hurt your feelings by misunderstanding something you wrote? You really are pathetic.

(And the irony is, in that thread the last couple of posts were about me being an attention seeker. Yeah, right…)

> [@Drunky\_Smurf](#):
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> Maybe you should listen to your own thoughts. Someday you may be smart enough to do so.

Eh, you sort of have a point - I was echoing **Boyo** when I said idiot, I guess I should have put more thought into it. What I said to **Miller** still applies tho, the man is a jerk.

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**Author:** ![WolfpackJeep](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wolfpackjeep/32/2921_2.png) [@WolfpackJeep](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WolfpackJeep)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2012, 10:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/28 "2012-07-25T22:57:46Z")

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Geez, this thread took a weird turn! I thought **Boyo Jim’s** death panel remark made his position clear.

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**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2012, 11:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/29 "2012-07-25T23:05:20Z")

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I revived your Pit thread because those two posts of your a few minutes apart were hilarious, and I thought they were worth sharing.

And you said the law only applies to the poor, which is nonsense. It apples to everyone, but rich people can go out of the country _where the law doesn’t apply to anyone_. If a poor Dominican woman can manage to get out of the country, she too doesn’t need to obey the law, because it’s not the law where she is. Do you understand the difference?

I also think that you calling **Miller** a jerk is hilarious, as **Miller** is the only poster in the whole thread who even slightly supported your interpretation of what I said.

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**Author:** ![curlcoat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ea5d25/32.png) [@curlcoat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/curlcoat)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2012, 11:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/30 "2012-07-25T23:14:21Z")

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> [@Boyo\_Jim](#):
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> I revived your Pit thread because those two posts of your a few minutes apart were hilarious, and I thought they were worth sharing.

But you made a point of doing it elsewhere, rather than in this thread as **Drunky Smurf** did. And if you think it’s hilarious that I made the mistake of using the same term than you did, oh well. Shrug.

> [@](#):
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> And you said the law only applies to the poor, which is nonsense. It apples to everyone, but rich people can go out of the country _where the law doesn’t apply to anyone_. If a poor Dominican woman can manage to get out of the country, she too doesn’t need to obey the law, because it’s not the law where she is. Do you understand the difference?

OK, I guess I’m done with you since you are making a real effort to either pretend to misunderstand or just be a jerk. It should be obvious that when I said that the law only applies to the poor, I meant what that means in common usage today - that the rich are able to buy their way out of things they don’t want to do or laws they don’t want to follow.

> [@](#):
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> I also think that you calling **Miller** a jerk is hilarious, as **Miller** is the only poster in the whole thread who even slightly supported your interpretation of what I said.

Goes to show I’m honest and don’t like or dislike someone based on their beliefs or interpretations. **Miller** has in the past acted just as you are now, so if you have nothing better to do than try to pick a fight, I’m out.

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**Author:** ![Condescending\_Robot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a183cd/32.png) [@Condescending\_Robot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Condescending_Robot)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2012, 11:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/31 "2012-07-25T23:50:55Z")

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> [@Mighty\_Girl](#):
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> Now a [young girl’s life](http://edition.cnn.com/video/?/video/world/2012/07/25/romo-argentina-abortion-case.cnn) (link to BBC video) will be sacrificed on the altar of moronic beliefs from stone age peasants.

You give too much pedigree to the anti-abortion lunacy. No one believed abortion was in any sense equivalent to murder until well into the nineteenth century.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2012, 12:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/32 "2012-07-26T00:18:36Z")

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Well, I’ll give you all credit for one thing - this wasn’t your typical anti-abortion thread. 😃

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**Author:** ![Mighty\_Girl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7bcc69/32.png) [@Mighty\_Girl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mighty_Girl)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2012, 2:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/33 "2012-07-26T02:35:02Z")

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> [@Condescending\_Robot](#):
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> You give too much pedigree to the anti-abortion lunacy. No one believed abortion was in any sense equivalent to murder until well into the nineteenth century.

So what you are saying is that it wasn’t God Almighty who forbid abortion, with his own words. We have been lied to.

**Curlcoat** , everybody understood what **Boyo Jim** said. Perhaps it’s time to you take a break and go have some lemonade or something.

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**Author:** ![Bricker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/977dab/32.png) [@Bricker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bricker)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2012, 3:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/34 "2012-07-26T03:38:47Z")

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I’m pro-life, strongly… and I think the chemo should have been administered. Moreover, the Catholic Church’s doctrine allows for it. The intent of the chemotherapy is to save the girl’s life. The death of the baby, if it happened, would be an unintended double effect.

Goes without saying, but as long as I’m here: Boyo Jim’s point was crystal clear.

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**Author:** ![Mighty\_Girl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7bcc69/32.png) [@Mighty\_Girl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mighty_Girl)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2012, 5:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/35 "2012-07-26T05:42:23Z")

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And “Cardinal Armani” agrees with you:

> [@](#):
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> [Cardinal favors pregnant teenager over her baby](http://www.dr1.com)  
> Cardinal Nicolas Lopez Rodriguez, who is responsible for the change in the Constitution so that it now bans abortion regardless that the health of the mother be at risk, went public to favor that physicians give priority to save the life of the teenager who suffers from cancer and would need chemotherapy. The chemotherapy would be lethal to the health of the 10-week old fetus. “Her situation can be saved, but we do not agree to making the abortion directly,” he said as reported in Listin Diario. “The most that can be done is try to save the 16-year old girl, and if as a consequence the creature dies, then we have not directly killed the creature,” he said after mass at the Cathedral yesterday. Art. 37 of the 2010 Constitution established: “The right to life is inviolable from conception to death.”
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> As reported in Listin Diario, physicians at the Semma hospital where the girl is being treated began the chemotherapy yesterday.

According to some other news source (sorry, not available online) chemo is very likely to produce a defective fetus. And carrying a pregnancy in her weakened state is dangerous for her too.

So, “que sera, sera” is really not the best answer for the situation.

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**Author:** ![Mighty\_Girl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7bcc69/32.png) [@Mighty\_Girl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mighty_Girl)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2012, 5:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/36 "2012-07-26T05:50:15Z")

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I forgot to mention that chemo is not guarantee that an spontaneous abortion will occur.

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**Author:** ![Waenara](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/50afbb/32.png) [@Waenara](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Waenara)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2012, 6:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/37 "2012-07-26T06:01:19Z")

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> [@Mighty\_Girl](#):
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> I forgot to mention that chemo is not guarantee that an spontaneous abortion will occur.

Yeah. Pardon me if I think it’s profoundly screwed up that Catholic doctrine won’t let her get an abortion and then chemotherapy, but they’ll “let” her get chemo even though who knows what horrible effects it might have on the fetus. It could cause a spontaneous abortion immediately. It could lead to massive deformities and an abortion or fetal demise later in the pregnancy. Or it could lead to huge birth defects and ongoing pain and disability.

If someone is fine with the “double effect” of chemo causing a miscarriage, then they should have the courage to state that they’re ok with having an abortion in order to undergo chemo. It is the exact same result, and pretending otherwise is silly.

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**Author:** ![Bozuit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/edb3f5/32.png) [@Bozuit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bozuit)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2012, 10:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/38 "2012-07-26T10:56:39Z")

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Not Catholic enough to avoid fornication, too Catholic for a condom, not Catholic enough to refuse a potential abortion… this girl needs to make up her mind.

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**Author:** ![not\_what\_you\_d\_expect](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/not_what_you_d_expect/32/3246_2.png) [@not\_what\_you\_d\_expect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/not_what_you_d_expect)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2012, 12:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/39 "2012-07-26T12:24:48Z")

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She’s not going to have time to make up her mind.

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**Author:** ![kanicbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/5f8ce5/32.png) [@kanicbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kanicbird)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2012, 12:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/its-all-fun-and-giggles-until-somebody-dies-an-abortion-rant/629350/40 "2012-07-26T12:53:51Z")

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> [@curlcoat](#):
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> Just because you believe that doesn’t make it a fact.

It is accepted as a fact since it is in the constitution as such. What do you do when something false or unprovable is accepted as fact and legally encoded as such?

My own belief is that the cycle of life does not ‘begin’ but is continuous as the parents come together their life grows in the what we call the new life. Though with that said and my belief that the ‘baby/fetus’ is human life, I still find that a woman can decide if that life gets to develop using her body.

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