# I've had enough **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [June 18, 2005, 4:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787 "2005-06-18T04:19:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Queen\_Bruin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/e274bd/32.png) [@Queen\_Bruin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Queen_Bruin)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2005, 4:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787/21 "2005-06-21T04:46:51Z")
> [@SHAKES](#): > > Second, Why is the GF a dirty slut? :dubious: I’m hopping you just typed that out of anger. She’s dirty 'cause she having sex with a man of dubious hygiene. Loud sex isn’t sluttish, but not restraining herself in such a situation is certainly tactless. ---
**Author:** ![RandMcnally](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b782af/32.png) [@RandMcnally](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RandMcnally)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2005, 5:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787/22 "2005-06-21T05:15:43Z")
> [@fushj00mang](#): > > PS: Tripler, sir, 3P051. I’m getting out in four months, and am only one year from finishing my undergrad in chemistry. Hoping to come back as 32E1K. I love explosives. Sorry for the hijack, but what do those numbers mean? I know what they mean, but I don’t know what they translate to. -Randmcnally 1A731 (gunner) ---
**Author:** ![Liberal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/848f3c/32.png) [@Liberal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Liberal)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2005, 10:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787/23 "2005-06-21T10:46:39Z")
[http://www.specialtactics.com/catms.shtml](http://www.specialtactics.com/catms.shtml) ---
**Author:** ![fushj00mang](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d26b3c/32.png) [@fushj00mang](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fushj00mang)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2005, 8:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787/24 "2005-06-29T20:59:01Z")
Followup: Thanks again to everybody who’s given me advice on this. The letter was delivered, he signed for it, and came home screaming up a storm. I told him if he didn’t like it, he knew where the door was. After a few hours, we talked it out. Since then, I have not had any sleep interruptions, the place hasn’t been this clean since movein, and I’ve picked up $63. All in all, life is good. Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![Jackmannii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackmannii/32/311_2.png) [@Jackmannii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jackmannii)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2005, 9:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787/25 "2005-06-29T21:01:55Z")
Hah, I clicked on **I’ve had enough** at exactly 5:15. Out of my brain? I’m not schizophrenic, I’m bloody quadrophenic! ---
**Author:** ![fushj00mang](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d26b3c/32.png) [@fushj00mang](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fushj00mang)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2005, 9:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787/26 "2005-06-29T21:03:30Z")
Shakes: Just realized that I left a hanging question. Why is Sara a dirty slut? Simply put, she killed the relationship I had before I shipped. Diane and I (this was back in March of '04) were already on the skids and Sara pops up with “Hey, before he shipped we fucked.” I get “Dear Johned.” She’s a slut. 'Nuff said. ---
**Author:** ![gigi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a587f6/32.png) [@gigi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gigi)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2005, 9:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787/27 "2005-06-29T21:18:18Z")
> [@SHAKES](#): > > First off, in most states you just can’t kick some one out on a monents notice. You have to go to court and have him evicted. (or notice to vacate) if you’re lucky this can take three weeks. Usually it take 4 - 6 weeks before you can get a court date. Then after the court date he’ll have two weeks to vacate. Yeah, I was going to say, putting his name on the lease was the first mistake. ---
**Author:** ![Odinoneeye](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/97f17d/32.png) [@Odinoneeye](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Odinoneeye)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2005, 10:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787/28 "2005-06-29T22:47:33Z")
While I personally have never had to deal with this 9well unless you count my ex-wife) I have a story that can illustrate just how random roomates are. I had some friends in college who were a dating couple. They decided to move in together for the next school year. The place they wanted was too expensive for the two of them so they wanted a third roommate. The woman was a waitress and knew this other woman from work. They invited her over, got to know her, and they all got along great. So they moved in together the next year. She was the classic bad roomate, never paid rent, never cleaned, the best part was that she would occasionally disappear for days. AFter about 3 months, she disappeared for about a week and her mother showed up at the door asking for her security deposit. Considering she hadn’t paid her share of the rent in three months, they refused. Anyway, they desperately needed a new roommate. A new waitress had started working with her and needed a place right away. So without much prescreening they let her in. She was a model roomate. Worked out great. ---
**Author:** ![Meaty\_Beaty\_Big\_and\_Bouncy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c57346/32.png) [@Meaty\_Beaty\_Big\_and\_Bouncy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Meaty_Beaty_Big_and_Bouncy)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2005, 2:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787/29 "2005-06-30T02:23:13Z")
> [@Jackmannii](#): > > Hah, I clicked on **I’ve had enough** at exactly 5:15. > Out of my brain? I’m not schizophrenic, I’m bloody quadrophenic! Nice 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2005, 3:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787/30 "2005-06-30T03:02:34Z")
> [@fushj00mang](#): > > Shakes: > > Just realized that I left a hanging question. Why is Sara a dirty slut? Simply put, she killed the relationship I had before I shipped. Diane and I (this was back in March of '04) were already on the skids and Sara pops up with “Hey, before he shipped we fucked.” I get “Dear Johned.” She’s a slut. 'Nuff said. Sorry, I’m not following here. You think Sara is a slut because she told your girlfriend who you were already having problems with that you cheated on your girlfriend, Diane, with her (Sara) before you shipped out? That would make you a cheater if that’s what you mean, not Sara a slut. Well, she can still be a slut for other reasons, but that one’s not doing it. Unless she lied about you guys having sex, which makes her a bad person, but still not a slut. ---
**Author:** ![fushj00mang](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d26b3c/32.png) [@fushj00mang](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fushj00mang)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2005, 5:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787/31 "2005-06-30T05:29:37Z")
featherlou, Sorry 'bout that. Sara and I have never, ever, EVER, **EVER** had ‘relations.’ By social or Clinton definitions. You are correct that in this one instance, ‘bad person’ makes more sense, but there is other business which I will not discuss here which changes ‘bad person’ into ‘slut.’ I should have been clearer. Sorry. ---
**Author:** ![Muad\_Dib](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/35a633/32.png) [@Muad\_Dib](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Muad_Dib)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2005, 5:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787/32 "2005-06-30T05:49:43Z")
> [@phouka](#): > > Pitch him out! Throw him out! WAAAAAY OUT! > > Sorry, just thought you needed a little cheering. 😉 Ditto. ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2005, 2:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787/33 "2005-06-30T14:02:08Z")
> [@fushj00mang](#): > > featherlou, > > Sorry 'bout that. Sara and I have never, ever, EVER, **EVER** had ‘relations.’ By social or Clinton definitions. You are correct that in this one instance, ‘bad person’ makes more sense, but there is other business which I will not discuss here which changes ‘bad person’ into ‘slut.’ I should have been clearer. Sorry. No problem - I totally respect your not going into details. I just wasn’t getting the picture from the things listed. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-had-enough/308787.md?page=1)