# I've never hated anyone.... till now **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [April 27, 2001, 5:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-never-hated-anyone-till-now/63500 "2001-04-27T05:21:28Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Amazing\_Tiki\_God](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/779978/32.png) [@Amazing\_Tiki\_God](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Amazing_Tiki_God)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2001, 4:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-never-hated-anyone-till-now/63500/21 "2001-04-28T04:30:35Z")
Now that I’ve had some time to chill I’m not so pissed. But why? Fuck me man do I give off the gay vibe? I mean my girlfriends last two roommates thought I was at least bi. I mean nothing against ya’ll 😃 it’s just my door doesn’t swing that way. Anyways I guess I’m gonna have to start being me more, watch Nascar races, and be mean to females… just teasing. I’m still ticked though. (Now I have to find the right thread to give my 500th post to) ---
**Author:** ![MrVisible](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/46a35a/32.png) [@MrVisible](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrVisible)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2001, 5:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-never-hated-anyone-till-now/63500/22 "2001-04-28T05:17:47Z")
Tiki, don’t go down that path. Don’t start believing that there’s anything about you that provoked the harrassment. It was a creep looking to creep someone out. In no way was this your fault. Did you talk to the counselor about the incident? Did they make any recommendations? ---
**Author:** ![eirroc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f1d935/32.png) [@eirroc](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eirroc)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2001, 1:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-never-hated-anyone-till-now/63500/23 "2001-04-29T13:35:23Z")
> [@](#): > > _originally posted by Magdalene_ > \*\*eirroc, and anyone else who walks into a ladies’ bathroom and finds a creepy man inside: > > TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS. DO NOT GO INTO A STALL WHERE YOU COULD BE TRAPPED. LEAVE THE BATHROOM, TELL SOMEONE, DON’T GO IN THERE. \*\* You are of course completely right **Magdalene**. I stupidly and naively thought the guy had made a genuine mistake, but shoulden’t have gone in, in either circumstance, and never, ever will again. (it still grosses me out thinking about it urgghh) **Mrinvisible** is right **Tikki** , it’s no way your fault, no vibes from you just bad luck. For women, I think one of the worst parts when something happens is that they nearly always think it’s something they said/did ect, and that’s so easy to do and not so easy to convince themselves IT’S NEVER THEIR FAULT. Same goes for you. ---
**Author:** ![RickJay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/bb73d2/32.png) [@RickJay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RickJay)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2001, 1:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-never-hated-anyone-till-now/63500/24 "2001-04-29T13:47:34Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by The Mighty Tiki God \* > **So I go call the University police…** “University police.” That’s cute. If they won’t do anything, fuck them. It’s time to call the real police. Maybe the state or city cops, being actual professionals, will do something or at least exert some pressure. Sexual assault, criminal harassment, and stalking are not matters for university administrations or “university police.” They are criminal matters and schools should not be involved in their investigation or prosecution except to clear the way for the professionals. And remember; when you are fucked by the administration, The Media Is Your Friend. I don’t know about your school, but at my school sexual assault was practically the lifeblood of the student government and the student paper, and at times seemed to be the only issue they lived for. If the administration or campus ssecurity at my school (Queen’s University. Go Golden Gaels!) had ignored a complaint like yours, it quite literally would have caused mass demonstrations. Go to them and tell them what happened. Embarrass the “university police.” People are remarkably quick to change their ways when they are publicly humiliated. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ive-never-hated-anyone-till-now/63500.md?page=1)