# James Otto Sweet Heart and Damning Suicides to Hell

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [February 19, 2013, 3:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764 "2013-02-19T03:08:47Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![James\_Otto\_Sweet\_Heart](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ac8455/32.png) [@James\_Otto\_Sweet\_Heart](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/James_Otto_Sweet_Heart)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2013, 11:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1861 "2013-03-25T23:51:37Z")

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^^^ Not to be insulting but I find all of that rather hard to grasp when I have seen certain words all over this forum more than our fingers and toes put together could ever count.  
God bless you always!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂  
Holly

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**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 1:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1862 "2013-03-26T01:47:20Z")

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Lots and lots of cookies!! 😃

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**Author:** ![EMCEE\_98](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b5ac83/32.png) [@EMCEE\_98](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EMCEE_98)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 2:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1863 "2013-03-26T02:37:54Z")

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I love peanut butter chocolate chip cookies. They are my fave. I love the homemade variety, but really started to like them back in high school out of the vending machine. They were “Grandma’s” brand, I believe. I can never find both peanut butter and chocolate chip together anymore. It’s either Grandma’s Peanut Butter, or Grandma’s Chocolate Chip Cookies. Very odd. I wonder if they were discontinued. Those were some delicious vending machine cookies.

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 5:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1864 "2013-03-26T05:24:39Z")

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> [@James\_Otto\_Sweet\_Heart](#):
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> ^^^ Not to be insulting but I find all of that rather hard to grasp when I have seen certain words all over this forum more than our fingers and toes put together could ever count.  
> God bless you always!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂  
> Holly

It’s a long, stupid story. You don’t want to know.  
I have some Girl Scout cookies sitting downstairs in my basement freezer, only I gave up peanut butter for Lent, and there’s no way I’m giving in. I made it this long, and I can wait another week.

_sigh_

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**Author:** ![R3d\_Anonymous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/aeb1de/32.png) [@R3d\_Anonymous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/R3d_Anonymous)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 11:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1865 "2013-03-26T11:01:17Z")

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> [@faithfool](#):
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> Lots and lots of cookies!! 😃

How about some brownies for a chance? 😃

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**Author:** ![drewtwo99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d07c76/32.png) [@drewtwo99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drewtwo99)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 11:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1866 "2013-03-26T11:08:43Z")

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What’s all this talk of cookies? I wanted lasagna. Where’s Skald???

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**Author:** ![Azeotrope](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/0ea827/32.png) [@Azeotrope](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Azeotrope)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 12:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1867 "2013-03-26T12:51:03Z")

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I’m fresh out of lasagna, but I’ve got some meatballs in the freezer. I put cubes of mozzarella cheese inside them so it gets nice and gooey as they cook.

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**Author:** ![James\_Otto\_Sweet\_Heart](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ac8455/32.png) [@James\_Otto\_Sweet\_Heart](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/James_Otto_Sweet_Heart)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 1:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1868 "2013-03-26T13:14:44Z")

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There is one thing that I saw said in this chat here sometime ago that I never did address and I’d like to address it now. I don’t remember who said this, but someone said in this chat that there is a time and place to talk about the belief that I shared that got **this** chat going in the first place. Well that being said has led me to this question: When **is** the time and place then, especially if suicide is **not** going to be brought up **until** someone has taken their life?  
God bless you always!!!  
Holly

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**Author:** ![Jack\_Batty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jack_batty/32/3201_2.png) [@Jack\_Batty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jack_Batty)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 1:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1869 "2013-03-26T13:18:22Z")

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Nobody gives a shit what you’d like to address.

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**Author:** ![James\_Otto\_Sweet\_Heart](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ac8455/32.png) [@James\_Otto\_Sweet\_Heart](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/James_Otto_Sweet_Heart)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 1:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1870 "2013-03-26T13:22:34Z")

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^^^ Since when do you speak for everyone here? And if you definitely do not give a flying flip, why are you even here then?  
God bless you always!!!  
Holly  
P.S. I wanted to add this to my previous message, but I ran out of editing time, so here it is in this message from me.

To jump on me for sharing my belief **online** is pretty childish anyways when people have rights to share their beliefs online. Where would you rather a person share them? At the funeral of a person who took their life or a public message forum? Which do you think is the lesser of the two?

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**Author:** ![saje](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/saje/32/3631_2.png) [@saje](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/saje)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 1:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1871 "2013-03-26T13:38:45Z")

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Yawn.

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**Author:** ![Jack\_Batty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jack_batty/32/3201_2.png) [@Jack\_Batty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jack_Batty)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 1:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1872 "2013-03-26T13:49:06Z")

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> [@James\_Otto\_Sweet\_Heart](#):
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> ^^^ Since when do you speak for everyone here?

Since the day you registered. My term is up as soon as you go away.

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**Author:** ![R3d\_Anonymous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/aeb1de/32.png) [@R3d\_Anonymous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/R3d_Anonymous)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 1:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1873 "2013-03-26T13:49:30Z")

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Alright, **James Otto Sweet Heart** , thank you, but no one cares anymore. What is done is done. Just, don’t do it again.

And **faithfool** , I think we need more sweets, over _here_. 😉

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**Author:** ![Ace309](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ace309/32/1050_2.png) [@Ace309](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ace309)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 2:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1874 "2013-03-26T14:31:06Z")

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> [@James\_Otto\_Sweet\_Heart](#):
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> ^^^ Since when do you speak for everyone here? And if you definitely do not give a flying flip, why are you even here then?  
> God bless you always!!!  
> Holly  
> P.S. I wanted to add this to my previous message, but I ran out of editing time, so here it is in this message from me.
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> To jump on me for sharing my belief **online** is pretty childish anyways when people have rights to share their beliefs online. Where would you rather a person share them? At the funeral of a person who took their life or a public message forum? Which do you think is the lesser of the two?

So far, nobody has given a shit what you’d like to address.

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**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 4:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1875 "2013-03-26T16:23:29Z")

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**Jack Batty** and **Ace309** , please check your PMs! 🙂

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**Author:** ![James\_Otto\_Sweet\_Heart](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ac8455/32.png) [@James\_Otto\_Sweet\_Heart](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/James_Otto_Sweet_Heart)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 5:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1876 "2013-03-26T17:03:30Z")

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> [@Jack\_Batty](#):
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> Since the day you registered. My term is up as soon as you go away.

Until a person in charge of this forum actually backs up this statement of yours, enjoy that fantasy of yours as much as a person like you can. 🙂 🙂 🙂

> [@Ace309](#):
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> So far, nobody has given a shit what you’d like to address.

Why not? Because y’all can’t deny that what I asked y’all earlier today has made sense?

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> Alright, **James Otto Sweet Heart** , thank you, but no one cares anymore. What is done is done. Just, don’t do it again.

Until my chops are busted over something else that I choose to stand for, no one cares. And don’t do what again exactly? Don’t send this chat to the top of the page again or share what it is that I believe again?  
God bless you three always!!!  
Holly  
P.S. No matter which one, if I have anything to add to the subject of this chat, I have every right to say what is on my mind about it.

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**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 5:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1877 "2013-03-26T17:12:50Z")

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And here’s another call out to anyone I’ve missed, or anyone who’d like to post in this thread to say the same damn thing over and over again that’s already been addressed ad nauseum somewhere over almost 40 pages, shoot me a PM. There’s only one answer available to us here and I’m appealing to the ones who have any capability of providing that.

So, purty pleeeeeeease, give me a shout. Obviously, cookies are provided. 🙂

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**Author:** ![James\_Otto\_Sweet\_Heart](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ac8455/32.png) [@James\_Otto\_Sweet\_Heart](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/James_Otto_Sweet_Heart)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 5:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1878 "2013-03-26T17:17:16Z")

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What I asked earlier still has yet to be answered. If there is a time and a place for a person to share what they believe concerning the subject of suicide, when **is** the time and place then, especially if suicide is **not** going to be brought up **until** someone has taken their life? Also where would you rather a person share their beliefs about suicide? At the funeral of a person who took their life or a public message forum? Which do you think is the lesser of the two?  
God bless you always!!!  
Holly

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**Author:** ![saje](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/saje/32/3631_2.png) [@saje](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/saje)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 5:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1879 "2013-03-26T17:25:11Z")

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Chocolate, whipped cream, and booze - how can you lose?!

> **[Chocolate Pots de Crème with Gran Marnier](https://tastefoodblog.com/2011/01/09/chocolate-pots-de-creme-with-gran-marnier-recipe/)**
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> Pots de Crème are an entertainer’s best friend. They may be prepared up to 2 days in advance and are very easy to make. With just a little finesse, and some high quality chocolate, you can be…

Chocolate Pots de Crème with Gran Marnier

This recipe requires refrigeration before serving for at least 6 hours. For best results, prepare at least one day before serving. Makes 6 large or 12 small servings.

1 3/4 cups heavy cream  
3/4 cup whole milk  
6 ounces high quality dark chocolate (70-72%), finely chopped  
6 egg yolks  
1/3 cup granulated sugar  
1 teaspoon vanilla extract  
1 tablespoon Gran Marnier or Cointreau (optional)

Gran Marnier Whipped Cream  
Candied orange peel and/or raspberries for garnish

Preheat oven to 325 F. (170 C.) Combine cream and milk in a saucepan and bring to a simmer over medium heat. Remove and add chocolate, whisking until melted and thoroughly incorporated. Whisk eggs, sugar and vanilla together in a large bowl. Slowly add chocolate to the eggs, whisking constantly. Mix in Gran Marnier if using. Strain through a fine-meshed sieve into another bowl. Blot foam from the top of the chocolate with a paper towel or skim with a spoon.  
Pour chocolate into demi-tasse cups or 3/4 cup ramekins. Cover each cup with foil. Place cups in a large baking pan. Pour boiling water into the pan until it reaches half-way up the side of the cups. Bake until the chocolate is set but still wobbles in the middle, about 40 – 50 minutes depending on the size of the cups. Remove and transfer cups to a wire rack; cool. Cover and refrigerate pots de crème at least 6 hours (or overnight). Bring to room temperature before serving.  
Serve with Gran Marnier Whipped Cream. Garnish with candied orange peel or raspberries.

Gran Marnier Whipped Cream:  
Before serving, beat 1/2 cup heavy cream in bowl of an electric mixer until soft peaks form. Whisk in 2 tablespoons sifted confectioners’ sugar and 2 teaspoons Gran Marnier and beat until stiff peaks form, taking care not to overbeat.

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**Author:** ![saje](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/saje/32/3631_2.png) [@saje](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/saje)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/james-otto-sweet-heart-and-damning-suicides-to-hell/650764/1880 "2013-03-26T17:27:03Z")

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Though it bugs the hell outta me that Grand Marnier is misspelled!

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