# Jason Kelce takes offense to homophobic slur about his brother

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**Category:** The Game Room\
**Created:** [November 2, 2024, 8:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592 "2024-11-02T20:08:22Z")\
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**Author:** ![griffin1977](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/977dab/32.png) [@griffin1977](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/griffin1977)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 2:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/41 "2024-11-03T02:04:57Z")

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> [@F.U.Shakespeare](#):
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> most cunning gay communist was J. Edgar Hoover.

Wait, he was a communist?

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**Author:** ![Odesio](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/odesio/32/20003_2.png) [@Odesio](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Odesio)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 2:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/42 "2024-11-03T02:09:55Z")

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> [@Stratocaster](#):
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> Mind you, I’m not condoning it (tee hee!). It was horrible, and I’m deeply ashamed of Kelce! Yeah! Anyway, the idiot should be thankful it was his phone that was disintegrated.

In recent years, I’ve come to appreciate the words, “Fuck around and find out.” Part of me wants to say I don’t condone this action, but the truth is I kind of do. It doesn’t bother me in the least he got his phone smashed. He’s just lucky finding out wasn’t so painful.

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**Author:** ![flurb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/51bf81/32.png) [@flurb](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/flurb)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 2:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/43 "2024-11-03T02:12:59Z")

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To quote a sage of our times, “Social media made y’all way too comfortable with disrespecting people and not getting punched in the face for it.” – Mike Tyson.

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**Author:** ![Horatius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/horatius/32/3572_2.png) [@Horatius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Horatius)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 2:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/44 "2024-11-03T02:17:49Z")

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> [@Odesio](#):
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> In recent years, I’ve come to appreciate the words, “Fuck around and find out.” Part of me wants to say I don’t condone this action, but the truth is I kind of do.

I’d bet good money the guy was videoing the whole thing, in hopes of getting a reaction that would go viral.

I’d support a law in which people like that aren’t allowed to sue anyone over the reaction they get from such behavior. You want a reaction? You got one, punk.

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**Author:** ![Little\_Nemo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/little_nemo/32/3120_2.png) [@Little\_Nemo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Nemo)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 2:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/45 "2024-11-03T02:24:09Z")

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> [@F.U.Shakespeare](#):
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> Trump has bigger tits than Taylor.
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> Someone should look into that.

Not it.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 2:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/46 "2024-11-03T02:49:16Z")

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I kinda puked in my mouth a little…

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**Author:** ![Smapti](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/smapti/32/17938_2.png) [@Smapti](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smapti)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 5:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/47 "2024-11-03T05:54:26Z")

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Some people say that you don’t care, but you’ve got nicer legs than Hitler and bigger tits than Cher…

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**Author:** ![Robot\_Arm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/robot_arm/32/18280_2.png) [@Robot\_Arm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Robot_Arm)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 7:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/48 "2024-11-03T07:34:56Z")

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> [@needscoffee](#):
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> Sadly, he’s probably going to have to make some sort of public apology to the shithead.

“I’m very sorry I broke that shithead’s phone. The shithead yelled a shithead insult at me, but that’s no excuse for breaking the shithead’s phone. I’d really like to settle this as adults should. If the shithead would reach out to me so we can find a time to meet face-to-shithead, talk this out, so I can call him a shithead to his face.”

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**Author:** ![eschrodinger](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eschrodinger/32/122_2.png) [@eschrodinger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eschrodinger)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 8:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/49 "2024-11-03T08:57:34Z")

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> [@griffin1977](#):
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> having a male NFL player date a female country star 😕

She hasn’t been a country star since about 2010.

But it does remind me of more of why the right attacks her, besides I guess generic misogyny. White supremacists loved her back then, and started talking about her as an “Aryan goddess.”

Then she made very clear that she was disgusted by that. So ex-country star who switched to pop, is openly disgusted by neonazis who wanted to worship her, is strong and independent, and is incredibly rich and has millions of followers.

That’s how you get from “Aryan goddess” to “actually it’s a man.” (I’m framing it the way they do–often using “it” to refer to trans people, and referring to trans women as men. Ugh.)

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**Author:** ![Joey\_P](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/919ad9/32.png) [@Joey\_P](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Joey_P)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 12:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/50 "2024-11-03T12:11:56Z")

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> [@Odesio](#):
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> Part of me wants to say I don’t condone this action, but the truth is I kind of do. It doesn’t bother me in the least he got his phone smashed. He’s just lucky finding out wasn’t so painful.

In the words of Chris Rock:  
[![](https://www.memecreator.org/static/images/memes/5590150.jpg) ](https://www.memecreator.org/static/images/memes/5590150.jpg)

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**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 1:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/51 "2024-11-03T13:38:40Z")

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These guys and their interaction sounds so stupid. Neither Kelce identifies as gay but to insinuate a straight dude is gay is some sort of grandiose insult?

Or was it the faggot remark that set him off, perhaps he took offense on behalf of his gay brethren, assuming he has gay friends/acquaintance’s who would resent that slur? Nah, Kelce was set off by his brother’s masculinity being questioned and belittled. I guess that response was warranted in the toxic environment he was in at the time. If he ignored them all what would that look like?

It would look like some punks called his brother queer and he let them get away with it. Is that a big fucking deal?

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**Author:** ![Northern\_Piper](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/northern_piper/32/5304_2.png) [@Northern\_Piper](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Northern_Piper)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 2:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/52 "2024-11-03T14:21:16Z")

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> [@eschrodinger](#):
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> What everyone so far has missed is that Taylor Swift is a frequent target of “transvestigators” who promote a conspiracy theory that many (many!) famous, powerful women are actually trans women.

I think I first saw this with comments about Michelle Obama.

Wikipedia article: [Transvestigation - Wikipedia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transvestigation)

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**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 2:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/53 "2024-11-03T14:27:21Z")

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from what I saw/read (I believe in a Barstool Sports post, so take that for what it may be), the guy was following Kelce around for a while, recording himself trying to get a rise out of Kelce… the “slur” was the comment that pushed him over the edge and led to smashing the cell phone (thus, rendering the video useless).

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**Author:** ![not\_what\_you\_d\_expect](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/not_what_you_d_expect/32/3246_2.png) [@not\_what\_you\_d\_expect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/not_what_you_d_expect)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 2:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/54 "2024-11-03T14:34:37Z")

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Maybe he’s pissed at the insult aimed at his future sister in law being called a man.

I’m not upset at the stupid punk getting his phone destroyed and I’m really glad Jason didn’t hit him. Jason can buy him a new phone in exchange for an apology. I don’t like seeing this online anonymous troll behavior going real life without consequences.

A person has the right to walk down a street without having insults about his family and friends being hurled at them.

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**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 2:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/55 "2024-11-03T14:40:15Z")

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> [@phungi](#):
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> (thus, rendering the video useless).

May well be on the cloud or livestreamed. (Though we’d probably have seen it by now, especially if it was the latter.)

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**Author:** ![chela](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chela/32/21582_2.png) [@chela](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chela)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 3:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/56 "2024-11-03T15:01:08Z")

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> [@not\_what\_you\_d\_expect](#):
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> Maybe he’s pissed at the insult aimed at his future sister in law being called a man.

That whole insult was gobbledygook, word salad of malicious intent. If he’s a faggot she’s a fag hag? He’s gonna let that chip on his shoulder keep growing by daring miscreant maggots to knock it off.

The punk got off easy and maybe it will squelch future hecklers though I doubt it. Kelce needs to grows a thicker skin from the jibes and insults from mouthy pissant brats.

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**Author:** ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 3:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/57 "2024-11-03T15:26:06Z")

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It does rather remind me of that video clip in which Buzz Aldrin punched the moon hoax denier. Lifted him off of his feet and put him on the ground.

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**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 3:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/58 "2024-11-03T15:36:30Z")

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Right, and a gorgeous, talented, and fabulously wealthy one at that?

I guess the “manly” thing to do here is date a ugly man who’s tubby and has no accomplishments?

> [@Northern\_Piper](#):
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> Wikipedia article: [Transvestigation - Wikipedia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transvestigation)

That is about the dumbest thing I ever heard of. Margot Robbie? Seriously? She’s about as feminine as women get, and way up their in the beauty category as well.

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**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 3:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/59 "2024-11-03T15:48:49Z")

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> [@chela](#):
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> If he’s a faggot she’s a fag hag?

Then they’re not dating. A fag hag is (very generally) a woman that’s friends with a gay man. Think Grace (to Will) and Karen (to Jack) on Will and Grace. Calling him a faggot, based on who he’s dating, implies he’s dating a man.

Are you think of a beard? A woman that’s dating a closeted gay man in order to help him remain in the closet?

> [@Baker](#):
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> It does rather remind me of that video clip in which Buzz Aldrin punched the moon hoax denier

He went from punching people that think he’s lying about being on the moon to endorsing their leader.  
Actually, now that I’m looking at wiki, he’s been endorsing republicans since at least 2004 and was even one of Trump’s guests at the 2019 State of The Union address.  
ETA: I wonder if Amy Poehler knew that when he was on Parks and Rec.

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**Post date:** [November 3, 2024, 4:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jason-kelce-takes-offense-to-homophobic-slur-about-his-brother/1009592/60 "2024-11-03T16:05:09Z")

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> [@Joey\_P](#):
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> ETA: I wonder if Amy Poehler knew that when he was on Parks and Rec.

Wasn’t that just a woman claiming to be Buzz Aldrin?

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