**Foxy **(and I) aren’t talking about legal and illegal. We understand that it’s illegal. We’re (both, I think, but please correct me if I’m wrong, Foxy) simply stating (briefly, and without support, as we’re in IMHO and not Great Debates) that we don’t agree with the law and find it wrong.
Legal/Illegal do not equal Right/Wrong
Obviously, both MouseMaven and her potential employers should work within the law as it exists now, and **Foxy **hasn’t disputed that. But that doesn’t mean we all can’t have opinions about whether or not that law is a fair, just and good thing for employers and job-seekers. Like Dangerosa’s excellent post, **Foxy **is simply telling what her perspective and reaction would be as an employer - she’d be bitter and pissed off. Being bitter and pissed off isn’t illegal, and it’s totally understandable, from her point of view.
Plain language, why it’s wrong, even if legal for a pregnant woman to not disclose her pregnancy? Because it puts an almost certain hardship on the part of the employer, causing them to invest time and money in training someone who knew they were only working there temporarily yet applied for a not-temporary position. In a work environment like Foxy’s, it damages interpersonal relationships and lowers overall employee morale (and productivity) when someone brought in as “family” has been deceitful and selfish and leaves soon after arriving. It is not the same thing as the general risk an employer takes with any new hire, because this risk is known and specific, and FAR higher than the risk that any random new hire will have an accident and be put on medical leave.
And yes, “selfish” is what I meant. Look at all the answers in here about why **MM **shouldn’t tell: because she needs to look out for herself, not her employer. That’s the very definition of selfish. While I have no problem with people looking out for themselves and their unborn child, as an employer I’d only want to hire people willing to look out for me, my business and my other employees as well. I’d do what’s legal and play the “don’t ask, don’t tell” game to protect myself and my company, but I’d FEEL bitter and I’d even complain about it on a message board, just like Foxy.
Ethically, any similar known situation which would likely result in your leaving a permanent position in less than a year should likewise be revealed - the aforementioned back surgery, moving out of town, etc. Only with this information in place can an employer make an informed decision. And yeah, that’s probably going to go against the applicant. So what? I’m not legally or ethically bound to give you a job any more than you’re legally or ethically bound to work for me. We are not guaranteed employment in this country.
Actually, I thought of another option, which is in fact seeking work through a temp agency. It won’t be in your field of specialty (which IIRC, you’re not degreed in anyway, so might be hard to find work in that field until you go back to school) but it can get you through this time without being ethically shady and legally correct.