# JohnClay, you are acting like an idiot.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [August 9, 2016, 1:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214 "2016-08-09T01:51:16Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![cochrane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cochrane/32/10441_2.png) [@cochrane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cochrane)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 6:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/21 "2016-08-09T06:20:46Z")

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> [@Roderick\_Femm](#):
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> Thanks everyone for bringing this idiotic argument over into the Pit. One thread wasn’t enough for you, I guess.

Not when we have to restrain ourselves in Great Debates. Now that we’re in the Pit, we have more freedom to tell him what we really think.

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**Author:** ![JohnClay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c37758/32.png) [@JohnClay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnClay)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 6:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/22 "2016-08-09T06:22:40Z")

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> [@John\_Mace](#):
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> What could possibly go wrong with that?

At a shooting gallery in the city the handgun was attached to wires so you couldn’t point it away from the target. And in the gun club they only let you put in 5 rounds and they watch you really carefully. I guess they’d grab me if I tried to aim away from the targets…

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**Author:** ![JohnClay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c37758/32.png) [@JohnClay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnClay)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 6:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/23 "2016-08-09T06:24:15Z")

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BTW my sisters and many of their friends think I’m not just mentally ill, I’m also demon possessed. While I was in the hospital one time, the former boyfriend of my sister wrote in a letter that I am possessed by an “intellectual” demon.

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**Author:** ![JohnClay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c37758/32.png) [@JohnClay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnClay)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 6:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/24 "2016-08-09T06:31:23Z")

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BTW here’s the letter:

> [@](#):
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> Dear [my name],
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> [sister’s name] & I have decided to write you this short letter to let you know you are always in our prayers & we genuinely care for you. I hope through this letter you will get a better understanding of trials you are going through and how to overcome them.
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> Firstly, I would like you to better understand your current condition. Satan, the God of this world has deceived many people into believing lies in an attempt to keep them in bondage and ultimately take them into Hell with him. This letter will outline some truths for you so that with God’s help, you can set yourself free of all sickness and mental related issues.
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> Through sin, man has opened doors for demonic influence in his mind & body. We are all sinners and susceptible to demonic influence. However, through the grace of God, we can be made righteous and close these doors to the enemy. The first step to deliverance is to accept Jesus as your Lord & savior and believe he died on the cross to free you from the hold of sin & to heal your mind & body. In your case there have been open doors which allowed demons to come into your life & constantly influence your mind. So even as you read this letter you will sense opposition to these words, it is demons influencing your mind to reject the truth, which will set you free.
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> After you accept Jesus as your Lord & Savior, you simply have to get rid of these demons affecting your mind and you will be healed from bipolar & any other mental condition. The good news is that there is nothing actually wrong with you physically or mentally. Your condition is totally demonic related and you have the choice to return to your previous state before demons invaded your life. God has far more power than the demons and has cast them out of our lives. When Jesus died on the cross for us & rose again, he defeated Satan & set us free from all sin, sickness, bondage & disease.
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> So you can better understand these demons, I will mention a couple in your life so you can identify their influence in your mind. One spirit is an Intellectual spirit. This spirit encourages you to research & attempt to find scientific explanations to God, creation, religion, philosophical things, etc. God simply asks us to trust in Him & believe. The Holy Spirit gives us that ability. Another spirit that may influence your mind is the spirit of death. This spirit will try and tell you things like, “Nobody loves you, you are not good enough, etc” and will try to encourage you to commit suicide. This is not true. God loves you, your friends & family also love you. The demon is only saying these lies to you because he wants to take you to hell. Do not listen to these thoughts, do not dwell on these thoughts, understand they are directly from demons that want to keep you in bondage.
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> I want you to understand, if you decide to accept Jesus & desire deliverance, it may be a difficult & lengthy battle. This is because currently many demons have permission to influence your mind. They take pride in the state you are in and want to keep you in bondage. But don’t let this discourage you from seeking God & deliverance from demonic oppression. Jesus is the victor & will give you victory if you only put your trust in Him.
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> When demons see you have accepted Jesus and desire deliverance, they may attempt to make your life even worse than it currently is. They don’t want to lose you. Don’t give up however, demons cannot resist the power of the Holy Spirit who will direct you & be with you on your path to deliverance. The good news is that in time & it won’t be too long, you will be totally free from demonic oppression. Bi-polar and any other mental condition will be gone for good & God will fill your life with love, joy, health & peace. God has a plan & purpose for your life. What Satan intended for your destruction, God will turn it into Good and I’m sure God will use you to help others that are going through similar things as yourself.
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> If you have any questions, please feel welcome to ask. However, remember you don’t need to understand everything, you do need to trust in God.
> 
> God Bless,  
> [sister’s boyfriend] & [sister]

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**Author:** ![Monty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/monty/32/47_2.png) [@Monty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Monty)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 10:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/25 "2016-08-09T10:10:26Z")

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Each and every post JC makes in the GD thread is more of a “down the rabbit hole/through the looking glass” bit of denying that he’s a truther when the posts actually show him to be one.

Hey, speaking of CTs, how about these?  
[ol][li]CTs, such as Pearl Harbor, 9/11, JFK assassination, etc., are just a cover for anti-Semitism. 9/11 especially pulls that out of a lot of the CTers. It’s rather sad.[/li][li]Many, if not all, of the CTs are a reaction that certain racial/ethnic/religious groups simply could not do something without the assistance of a particular majority (white, Anglo-Saxon, Protestant, of course). Take Pearl Harbor for example. The CTers simply cannot accept that the Japanese could have done that on their own, without the help of some white guy(s). The favorite choice for which particular white guy is FDR. I know someone who’s firmly convinced that FDR orchestrated the attack. The same person thoroughly despises the Japanese to this day, even little Japanese kids today, for attacking Pearl Harbor. When I asked him why he hates the Japanese for doing what the president ordered (mind you, I don’t believe that claptrap of course), he just looks at me like _I_ am the crazy one.[/li][li]Combination of 1 & 2: We’ll take 9/11 for this example. The CTers just cannot accept the simple fact that some Muslim Arabs managed to carry out a vicious attack on US soil. So the CTers pull out their hatred of Jews and blame _them_ for the attacks.[/ol][/li]  
These “theories” about the CTs at least have the benefit of having more evidence supporting them than any damn thing truthers have come up with.

Which reminds me: JohnClay, you’re a truther.

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**Author:** ![JohnClay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c37758/32.png) [@JohnClay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnClay)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 10:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/26 "2016-08-09T10:17:21Z")

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> [@Monty](#):
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> Each and every post JC makes in the GD thread is more of a “down the rabbit hole/through the looking glass” bit of denying that he’s a truther when the posts actually show him to be one…

[http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=19539909&postcount=210](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=19539909&postcount=210)  
“…would a dedicated truther say that no explosives were involved? Because I think that is a fact”

> [@](#):
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> Hey, speaking of CTs, how about these?..

No after learning about the JFK conspiracy theories on Penn and Teller’s Bullshit I don’t believe in the JFK CT. And I don’t think Jews were behind 9/11.

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> …Which reminds me: JohnClay, you’re a truther.

:dubious:

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**Author:** ![Smapti](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/smapti/32/17938_2.png) [@Smapti](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smapti)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 10:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/27 "2016-08-09T10:31:45Z")

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> [@JohnClay](#):
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> BTW here’s the letter:

Dude.

_What the hell are you doing here?_

Are we supposed to be sympathizing with you? Are we supposed to think your sister’s ex is right? Why are you even bringing any of this up?

I may not have my head entirely screwed on straight, and there are plenty of people on the Dope who’ll happily tell you that I’m a sociopath, a psycho, objectively evil, so on and so forth.

But I think I can say with authority that you need help which it is beyond the ability of this community to give you, and you had best seek it before you burn out in a way that hurts everyone around you including yourself.

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**Author:** ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 10:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/28 "2016-08-09T10:40:08Z")

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> [@JohnClay](#):
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> BTW my sisters and many of their friends think I’m not just mentally ill, I’m also demon possessed. While I was in the hospital one time, the former boyfriend of my sister wrote in a letter that I am possessed by an “intellectual” demon.

You have my sympathies. Such views not only don’t help people with mental illnesses to recover, but actually hinder recovery. I hope that, whatever your relationship with your sister and her friends, you do **not** believe that you are possessed by demons (which - and I want to stress this -\* is not a real thing that happens\*) and that you are receiving help from qualified and capable medical professionals.

And I also hope that by now you fully accept that the WTC was brought down by two very large airplanes full of fuel crashing into the towers at high speed, and subsequent collateral damage. There is no evidence to support the alternative theories.

(Whether you want to believe that the Bush administration either actively or passively caused the hijackings to happen is a different issue, of course. There’s little evidence for that either, but at least it doesn’t require ignoring basic physics to believe it.)

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**Author:** ![elbows](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b3f665/32.png) [@elbows](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elbows)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 11:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/29 "2016-08-09T11:38:24Z")

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Oh please!

This is a troll. A garden variety troll. Nothing original, nothing clever. Just the same old, same old, trolling for reactions.

And the dope never, EVER fails to deliver! Could a troll be more lame? Or more transparent? I don’t see how, to be honest! It’s not interesting or even amusing any more.

But when the troll says ‘dance nice for me’, dopers start up the music and choose partners!

Really, y’all are soooooo easy.

How do you not feel dirty every time you engage with this troll?

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**Author:** ![Loach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/loach/32/350_2.png) [@Loach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loach)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 11:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/30 "2016-08-09T11:50:11Z")

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> [@Kobal2](#):
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> I thought Kubrick had filmed the collapse on a sound stage in Nevada ? Now _I’m_ confused.

That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. Everyone knows Kubrick refused to leave England.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 11:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/31 "2016-08-09T11:55:47Z")

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> [@JohnClay](#):
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> If it wasn’t for my relationship that would have encouraged the suicidal thoughts I’ve had especially if you called me a creep as well.

Do you know where you can shove your little guilt trip? If you aren’t mentally healthy enough to be in the fucking BBQ Pit, then stay out of the fucking BBQ Pit.

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**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 11:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/32 "2016-08-09T11:57:10Z")

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> [@elbows](#):
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> Oh please!
> 
> This is a troll. A garden variety troll. Nothing original, nothing clever. Just the same old, same old, trolling for reactions.

Please. An intellectually possessed troll.

Just don’t call him a creep.

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**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 12:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/33 "2016-08-09T12:00:47Z")

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> [@elbows](#):
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> Oh please!
> 
> This is a troll. A garden variety troll. Nothing original, nothing clever. Just the same old, same old, trolling for reactions.
> 
> And the dope never, EVER fails to deliver! Could a troll be more lame? Or more transparent? I don’t see how, to be honest! It’s not interesting or even amusing any more.
> 
> But when the troll says ‘dance nice for me’, dopers start up the music and choose partners!
> 
> Really, y’all are soooooo easy.
> 
> How do you not feel dirty every time you engage with this troll?

No, he’s not. You’re just a very cynical person. You’re one of those people who wants to feel superior to everyone else because you “get” it.

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**Author:** ![elbows](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b3f665/32.png) [@elbows](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elbows)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 12:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/34 "2016-08-09T12:06:32Z")

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No. I’m not.

This is just a troll. Clearly. Repeatedly. On endlessly.

Feel superior? To this lame creature? Good Lord! Pretty sure trolls from decades past feel superior to this fool’s shameless song and dance routine.

Come on, you don’t have to be cynical or superior to see this troll for what he is! (Hint: You just need eyes!)

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**Author:** ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 12:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/35 "2016-08-09T12:08:04Z")

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> [@JohnClay](#):
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> especially if you called me a creep as well.

Can we call you a weirdo?

> [@Smapti](#):
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> Dude.
> 
> _What the hell are you doing here?_

Maybe he doesn’t belong here.

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**Author:** ![Duke\_of\_Rat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ad7895/32.png) [@Duke\_of\_Rat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Duke_of_Rat)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 12:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/36 "2016-08-09T12:25:19Z")

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> [@JohnClay](#):
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> the former boyfriend of my sister wrote in a letter that I am possessed by an “intellectual” demon.

I don’t think you need worry about that particular demon.

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**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 1:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/37 "2016-08-09T13:05:29Z")

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> [@Czarcasm](#):
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> Do you know where you can shove your little guilt trip? If you aren’t mentally healthy enough to be in the fucking BBQ Pit, then stay out of the fucking BBQ Pit.

And you guys could just stay out of JohnClay threads when you know he’s saying something stupid. I bailed halfway through the OP.

He’s being stupid, not malicious. There’s no real reason to attack him. Vent out your frustrations? Sure. But attack him? Nah.

Being in the Pit doesn’t make attacking the disadvantaged guy not seem like a shitty move. And, since he’s at a disadvantage, I’m perfectly fine with the guilt trip.

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 1:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/38 "2016-08-09T13:07:13Z")

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> [@JohnClay](#):
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> I have a lot of schizophrenic friends/inlaws/wife but I have schizo-affective disorder and I don’t think that is “schizophrenic” (as far as I can tell).

They are different diagnoses, but schizoaffective disorder is basically schizophrenia + bipolar so someone with schizoaffective disorder can be just as psychotically disturbed than someone with schizophrenia. My uncle was schizoaffective and he was way less grounded in reality than you appear to be.

I promise you, citing mental illness is not going to help in this case. Being suicidal well and truly sucks, what your relatives did to you well and truly sucks, but you can’t hold other people accountable for the choices you make, and that includes self-harm when someone says something shitty to you. Do you really want to live your whole life with other people walking on eggshells around you because they think anything they say or do might make you unstable? I’d be mortified to be condescended to in that way. That’s not a good frame of mind to be in.

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 1:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/39 "2016-08-09T13:10:48Z")

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> [@BigT](#):
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> Being in the Pit doesn’t make attacking the disadvantaged guy not seem like a shitty move. And, since he’s at a disadvantage, I’m perfectly fine with the guilt trip.

I’m enthusiastically in favor of people being held accountable for what they say regardless of what issues they may have. How else are we going to learn what is and isn’t appropriate, reasonable, or sound? It’s especially important for people who have difficulty picking up subtle social cues.

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**Author:** ![billfish678](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7bcc69/32.png) [@billfish678](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/billfish678)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2016, 1:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/johnclay-you-are-acting-like-an-idiot/762214/40 "2016-08-09T13:12:24Z")

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> [@BigT](#):
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> You’re one of those people who wants to feel superior to everyone else because you “get” it.

I LOLed on that one.

Oh the irony.

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