[ETA: this is in response to ArchiveGuy’s post above.]
I agree that I keep harping on this, but that’s because people keep doing it. The point is, that if you really do believe some is being pretentious–that they’re pretending, naked-emperor-like, to hold an opinion that they do not, in fact, hold, there’s not a word you can use: the word “pretentious,” which is exactly the correct word for that usage, has been stripped of its meaning here because so many people use it to mean “elitist” or “esoteric,” when those also are perfectly good words.
So, when someone uses the word in a discussion here, because the *actual *definition, as defined by all the dictionaries cited above, means a willful misrepresentation of one’s opinion, I have to decide how to interpret it. It strikes me as FAR more condescending to simply assume that the poster is using it incorrectly, and doesn’t actually mean to communicate the word’s actual meaning, and for me to presume to “translate” it to mean esoteric or elitist. That strikes me as monstrously presumptuous and condescending; to presume to know what they *really *mean when they say something else.
Add to that, of course, the fact that that word has often been tossed in my direction, in which case of course I have every right to understand exactly what I’m being accused of: elitism, which, in discussions of art, is not always a bad word–it’s OK to have an opinion that one work of art is better than another, if that’s elitism–or dishonesty, which is *not *OK, because, contrarian as I may sometimes be in this forum, I always–always–start from the baseline of expressing an honest opinion.
So, yeah, if you’re going to use a word, in this forum and not the Pit, that has implications of dishonesty, I will continue to require clarification of its meaning when that meaning is relevant to the context. I’m sorry if this makes it a dead horse, but I’d rather ask for clarification than *presume *to read a different meaning into what someone has written here.