# Just a brief Fuck You to Der...

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [March 8, 2008, 5:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601 "2008-03-08T17:07:44Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Linty\_Fresh](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Linty\_Fresh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Linty_Fresh)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 1:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/41 "2008-03-09T01:13:54Z")

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[QUOTE=FriarTed]  
No! Let’s go on with this!

And one day, he’ll look adoringly at his wife and new baby and whisper “Thank You.” And then-

ROAD TO DAMASCUS, THE SCALES FALL OFF, HALLELUJAH!!!

😃  
[/QUOTE]

Bwuh? Scales?

_ **MORE** _ tentacle porn?? :eek: :eek:

😛

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**Author:** ![Leaper](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/4bbf92/32.png) [@Leaper](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaper)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 1:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/42 "2008-03-09T01:37:45Z")

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I wonder… Is it ever possible for a name-calling on GD to be an insult based SOLELY on poster context? If someone with **Der Trih’s** history and public opinions called someone a “theist” or a “Christian,” could that be considered a personal insult?

Just a wild thought that came to mind. I’m probably totally off base.

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**Author:** ![Omegaman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/e480ec/32.png) [@Omegaman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omegaman)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 2:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/43 "2008-03-09T02:07:05Z")

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**DT** needs a friend. I don’t mean that in a smartass way but he needs to see lifes perspective from a different set of eyes. If he lived here I’d hang with him. Or vice versa.

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**Author:** ![Hogwash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a88e57/32.png) [@Hogwash](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hogwash)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 2:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/44 "2008-03-09T02:27:58Z")

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Christ, is it Tuesday already?

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**Author:** ![mswas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e99b99/32.png) [@mswas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mswas)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 2:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/45 "2008-03-09T02:39:59Z")

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[QUOTE=Omegaman]  
**DT** needs a friend. I don’t mean that in a smartass way but he needs to see lifes perspective from a different set of eyes. If he lived here I’d hang with him. Or vice versa.  
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But would he hang out with you?

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**Author:** ![Hentor\_the\_Barbarian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/8edcca/32.png) [@Hentor\_the\_Barbarian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hentor_the_Barbarian)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 2:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/46 "2008-03-09T02:52:10Z")

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[QUOTE=Shodan]  
And now you are aware of it, and have responded exactly as **xtisme** (and everyone else) expected you would.

So it is not so much an “excuse” but a perfectly accurate recognition of how things work around here.

In other news, the Pope announced a news conference at which he will reveal his religious affiliation.

Regards,  
Shodan  
[/QUOTE]  
Boo hoo! Oh, we are so put upon. Oh, we are so mistreated. Let me report this post, and that post, and the other post. That’ll show them. If it doesn’t, I can still cry about how unfair it is!

Man up, you big puss.

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**Author:** ![Mr.Moto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9de0a6/32.png) [@Mr.Moto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr.Moto)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 3:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/47 "2008-03-09T03:25:51Z")

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[QUOTE=Hentor the Barbarian]  
Man up, you big puss.  
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Sorry. I was under the impression that keeping these boards civil was all of our responsibility.

I sure as hell don’t wait for my ox to be gored before I report a bad post.

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**Author:** ![elucidator](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8edcca/32.png) [@elucidator](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elucidator)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 3:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/48 "2008-03-09T03:34:01Z")

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Oh, sure, bring Gore into it! That’s how you guys are,which is why you never win any elections. Because you’re like that.

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**Author:** ![furt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/439d5e/32.png) [@furt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/furt)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 4:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/49 "2008-03-09T04:44:30Z")

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[QUOTE=Czarcasm]  
Ah, the old “I’d do such-and-such, but you’d only do this-n-that, so I’m not going to bother” excuse. We never get tired of hearing it.  
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Ah, the old “oh, yes, we’ll give deep consideration to everything you say, really we will” bullshit. You know damn well what you’d have done – nothing.

It would be nice if there were any mods left that had the sack to call jerks for what they are and start banning the assholes that degrade the discourse. Unfortunately, we’ve long since lost any sense of courage among the mods; whether it’s because of P2P, whether you’re afraid of getting pitted, or whether (most likely) it’s just easier to let things slide than put yourself out there by making judgement calls, I don’t know. But the fact is that you guys are trigger-shy about any jerkitude that doesn’t fall outside veeery specific criteria.  
If you guys don’t have the courage to take some hits for standing up to the assholes, quit.

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**Author:** ![elucidator](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8edcca/32.png) [@elucidator](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elucidator)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 4:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/50 "2008-03-09T04:52:38Z")

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Your quiet dignity and calm civility is a beacon to us all.

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**Author:** ![XT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/xt/32/456_2.png) [@XT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/XT)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 5:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/51 "2008-03-09T05:03:07Z")

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I actually think the Mods by and large do a hell of a (mostly thankless) job in general. If they came down on every snarky remark…well, we’d all end up getting banned most like. 😛

Czarcasm asked why I didn’t press the bad post button and I gave the answer…I didn’t do so because having done so in the past and not getting any response I assumed (correctly it turns out) that calling someone an apologist isn’t considered an insult. While I disagree with that assessment I agree that it’s not a serious transgression either…certainly not something I want to see even the likes of Der banned for.

As for Der Trihs it’s funny…if he stayed out of political and religious threads and just hung out in CS or the new Game Room he would probably be one of the more popular 'dopers on the board. He really ISN’T just a one dimensional idiot…except when it has to do with the US, Bush and religion (especially Christian/Catholic but not limited to those). C’est la vie I guess…

-XT

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**Author:** ![kaylasdad99](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kaylasdad99/32/3398_2.png) [@kaylasdad99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kaylasdad99)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 6:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/52 "2008-03-09T06:43:33Z")

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So put him on ignore, and click “view post” when he’s in a forum that you don’t expect him to spin you up…

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**Author:** ![Measure\_for\_Measure](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/measure_for_measure/32/557_2.png) [@Measure\_for\_Measure](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Measure_for_Measure)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 7:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/53 "2008-03-09T07:31:13Z")

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[QUOTE=xtisme]  
And feel free to shove all that ‘Iraqi war apologist’ stuff right up your ass, ehe? Sideways. Not only is it insulting and stupid but it’s inaccurate as well. Since it flies under the radar of the Mods (who don’t consider this kind of thing insulting I guess) you get away with it however. [Link](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?p=9556458#post9556458) to the rather tepid thread this came from if anyone really cares.

Fuck you asshole…oh, and up the voltage, ehe? Your meds are wearing off again.

(That’s all I really wanted to say…just couldn’t say it in GD as I would get spanked…

-XT  
[/QUOTE]  
I’m with you so far, xtisme – you want to extend a hearty fuck you to Der Trihs. Who can object to that?

> [@](#):
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> I’m objecting to what seems to me the constant use of the conservative label used to paint someone with a broad brush in GD. … If what I say is objectionable then attack my positions…don’t attempt to label me with insulting tags like ‘Iraqi War apologist’…ASK me what my position is if I’m unclear.

Ok, now I’m parting company. Der is a burbling teakettle and a pinhead besides. And it’s easy to respond to a low caliber characterization like “Apologist”.

If there’s a brief characterization of your position, you can simply state it in response. And, if your adversary is Der, toss him a few curve balls. It’s not exactly difficult to flummox the guy.  
Then again, I should acknowledge XT’s last post – he isn’t exactly gunning for Der’s expulsion.

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**Author:** ![Starving\_Artist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/aeb1de/32.png) [@Starving\_Artist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Starving_Artist)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 9:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/54 "2008-03-09T09:02:41Z")

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You know, as much as I detest **Der Trihs** , I do believe he believes what he says and is posting honestly from his point of view. I’d really hate to see this place start being moderated so as to ban people who are unpopular or who otherwise ‘degrade the discourse’ (no offense intended, **furt** ). That could be a big time slippery slope and might well lead to all sorts of bannings that would currently be considered unjustified.

I truly despise much of what **Der Trihs** says and what he appears to stand for. He’s a putz of the first order. But we all have to tolerate behavior we abhor in others in order to have a free society. If we start banning people just because they’re disliked or because they impede the flow of the conversation, this will become a pretty oppressive and uninteresting place.

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**Author:** ![Liberal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/848f3c/32.png) [@Liberal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Liberal)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 12:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/55 "2008-03-09T12:18:01Z")

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I don’t want him banned either. He often makes the best arguments for our side.

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**Author:** ![Dunderman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecb155/32.png) [@Dunderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dunderman)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 12:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/56 "2008-03-09T12:20:25Z")

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[QUOTE=Leaper]  
I wonder… Is it ever possible for a name-calling on GD to be an insult based SOLELY on poster context? If someone with **Der Trih’s** history and public opinions called someone a “theist” or a “Christian,” could that be considered a personal insult?  
[/QUOTE]  
And would it be considered an insult to call **Der Trihs** a theist or Christian?

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**Author:** ![Liberal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/848f3c/32.png) [@Liberal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Liberal)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 12:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/57 "2008-03-09T12:29:21Z")

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[QUOTE=Priceguy]  
And would it be considered an insult to call **Der Trihs** a theist or Christian?  
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I think so. I seem to recall that he was upset when I said that I think he believes in God but hates Him.

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**Author:** ![buns3000](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c89c15/32.png) [@buns3000](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/buns3000)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 12:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/58 "2008-03-09T12:35:43Z")

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[QUOTE=Liberal]  
I think so. I seem to recall that he was upset when I said that I think he believes in God but hates Him.  
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Trolling again, were you?

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**Author:** ![Liberal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/848f3c/32.png) [@Liberal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Liberal)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 12:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/59 "2008-03-09T12:53:31Z")

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[QUOTE=buns3000]  
Trolling again, were you?  
[/QUOTE]  
Hillary Clinton called. She wants her irrational batshit insanity back.

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**Author:** ![hawthorne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/c89c15/32.png) [@hawthorne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hawthorne)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2008, 1:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/just-a-brief-fuck-you-to-der/440601/60 "2008-03-09T13:22:49Z")

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[QUOTE=elucidator]  
Mostly Nerf snark.  
[/QUOTE]  
Is this your term? It’s nice and I get no web, groups or blog hits from google.

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