Since this has turned into a debate on hate-crime legislation, let me introduce my long-thought-out, well-researched position on the matter: I don’t know.
I’m not sure if hate crime legislation is necessary; I am equally appalled at someone getting beaten for supporting the wrong football team as I am at gay-bashing. I would be against hate-crime laws altogether, if it seemed that the justice system was working without them. From the OP:
No jail time, no fine, no supervision, even. I doubt his wrist hurt a half hour later.
It’s like an open invitation. Want to beat the crap out of some gay fellers? Well, sheesh, don’t let us catch you, or you may have to spend a couple of weekends helping out at the soup kitchen.
So, I don’t want hate-crime laws; I think they’re divisive and may have serious backlash consequences. But if this gets much worse, if the justice system fails to address this in any other way, they may become necessary.
To address other comments:
Gobear, I live my life, and I do it well; I show my lover that I care for him, even out in public. I just wish that when I did so, I didn’t have to watch my back. Both my lover and I would be tough to take on in a fight; I wish I didn’t have to be. I can ignore the fear that lurks around when we flirt in public, but the fear is still there. It should be; keeps me alert, and keeps me ready to defend myself. But it pisses me off that I have to be combat-ready every time I take my boyfriend out to the movies.
And I know that others have it worse than we do in America. That doesn’t mean we have to put up with things being as bad as they are.
Miller, check some of the other links I posted in the OP. If you have some data suggesting that the incidence of anti-gay crime in the US is dropping, I’d be grateful to see it. It would be a real relief. But the trend, from the information I’ve been able to find, indicates that things are, indeed, getting worse.
Esprix, I’m sorry. God, I’m so sorry. I can only imagine how much that must hurt.
iampunha, if people judged others by their actions alone, aside from any prejudices, you’d be universally acknowledge to be among the best of humankind. I’ve been reading your posts for over a year, and have developed a lot of respect for you. You deserve a lot better than the way you were treated. I’m sorry you had to go through that.
And andygirl, I knew it was your post. I know who you are here online, and your wonderful perspective, and your caring nature. But reading that post, that summation of all we’re up against, got me raging mad anyway. I wish that the only place I ever heard that sort of zealotry was in jest like that.
For everyone else who’s posted their support, thank you. I am really grateful that the world is made up of people like yourselves; tolerant, generous, and wise. Please, if you can, spread as much of that around as possible.