The folks (such as irishgirl) who are “blowing” this extremely common and rather ordinary act out of all proportion really need to take a deep breath and try to face reality as it is.
Most of us males – particularly those of us who’ve ever been to Boy Scout camp – are quite familiar with pre-adult homosexual or at least homoerotic experiences including all ages from 12 and on in some cases even to 18 or 19 year-olds. Ho, hum. It’s something that most men won’t talk about, but it’s actually quite ordinary and it simply isn’t a big deal. Like everyone else, I could have taken it or left it, but there’s no question that it hasn’t caused any problems or difficulties in my life.
Everyone knows that the marking of adulthood at 18 is quite arbitrary anyway; we fix it at that age just because the public moral standards of the United States are generally far behind other more enlightened Western societies and is still largely controlled by prudish old Baptist biddies, male and female alike.
Now, I’m certainly not suggesting that the fact that these two specific teens were DD is irrelevant! However…
(1) This debate is primarily about the disgracefully unfair laws being abused by Kansas in this case, and those laws aren’t specific to DD teens, and…
(2) DD teens – just like all teens – have perfectly valid sexual desires too!
One of my toddler-age nephews is autistic, so in hopes of helping his family better cope with his condition, I read some books on the subject. One of them, written by a very wise and experienced counselor/therapist/physician, bravely dealt squarely with the thorny issue of autistic teen sexuality. She told of the not infrequently pathologically extreme fear and anxiety parents and adult relatives feel when their autistic teenagers begin exploring their sexuality. The author gently tells such people to relax and get over what is actually far more their problem rather than their loved one’s problem. She seems actually rather justifiably cross with those who would deprive their teen of their normal adolescent sexual explorations, which from reading her book would most probably include a friendly blowjob between a nearly 15 year-old and a barely 18 year-old if there’s mutual consent with no deceit or abuse or deliberate advantage-taking involved. Mind you, I’m talking about two older teens (14+) within 3-4 years age of each other, and I’m certainly not willing to support such explorations with anyone in their 20’s or older! But the situation as described, I feel, should only be illegal – even with DD teens – if the level of their disabilities differed substantially. And if neither teen is DD or autistic, in such cases as I’ve described where there is explicit mutual consent, it shouldn’t be illegal at all (although I strongly believe that our institutions have an obligation to endeavor to limit the transmission of AIDS and other STDs, but that means in cases where one doesn’t choose abstinence, condoms should be provided).
As for the report that Limon was a so-called “repeat offender” in this case – and under the assumption that all such “offenses” were with teens 14 and up who explicitly consented – wiser people will read “three-time offender” as “normal teenage boy”.