# Keep your God Damn hands off her ya FUCK! (not for the weak of heart) **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [July 11, 2003, 12:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694 "2003-07-11T12:54:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 19\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Ice\_Wolf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/dfb087/32.png) [@Ice\_Wolf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ice_Wolf)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2003, 1:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/21 "2003-07-11T13:56:42Z")
Just because a news item is not on-line, does not necessarily mean it didn’t happen. The OP referred to “watching the local news”. ---
**Author:** ![Aries28](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e36b37/32.png) [@Aries28](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aries28)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2003, 1:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/22 "2003-07-11T13:57:47Z")
I don’t need an online story link to know that this kind of sick behavior happens in our world on a daily basis. Too often. ---
**Author:** ![Spiff](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spiff/32/9852_2.png) [@Spiff](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spiff)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2003, 2:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/23 "2003-07-11T14:02:36Z")
Innocent until proven guilty. It’s in the U.S. Constitution. Look it up here: [http://www.law.cornell.edu/constitution/constitution.table.html](http://www.law.cornell.edu/constitution/constitution.table.html) Pay particular attention to Amendment V. Class dissmissed. ---
**Author:** ![tanookie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/48db29/32.png) [@tanookie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tanookie)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2003, 2:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/24 "2003-07-11T14:05:13Z")
Unfortunately, Philosphr… the kind of ‘man’ who would rape a 13 year old would be encouraged by her previous rape. I honestly hope there is a special place in hell for these people as I know a few personally who need to be there. ---
**Author:** ![Phlosphr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/c68b51/32.png) [@Phlosphr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Phlosphr)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2003, 2:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/25 "2003-07-11T14:05:27Z")
I admit some details were wrong. I heard first from a buddy who’s a cop. Happens to be the same guy helping me with a [project](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=196114) at home. The ages and gender are wrong but what links I could find concerning the story are [here](http://wcbs880.com/connnews/CT--LegislatorArreste-mn/resources_news_html) , [here](http://www.msnbc.com/local/wvit/A1657875.asp) , and [here](http://www.ctnow.com/news/local/ec/hc-davis0614.artjun14,0,6923907.story?coll=hc-headlines-ec) . Some of the details I got from my friend… WHO GIVES A FUCK ANYWAY **Desmostylus** , HE’S STILL A RAPIST! AND A LEGISLATOR TO BOOT! So what if the handed down story made the fish bigger, doesn’t mean the guy is an angel now does it? Your insensitivity is lame. ---
**Author:** ![bayonet1976](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/77aa72/32.png) [@bayonet1976](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bayonet1976)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2003, 2:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/26 "2003-07-11T14:06:07Z")
The only link I found that seems related to the OP is [this](http://www.newbritainherald.com/site/news.cfm?newsid=9602109&BRD=1641&PAG=461&dept_id=10110&rfi=6) , skimpy on details, and it does not match the OP on a number of points. > [@](#): > > NEW BRITAIN – A 42-year-old man was arrested on sexual assault charges Wednesday after allegedly violating a 15-year-old city girl on numerous occasions. ---
**Author:** ![Ferret\_Herder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e47774/32.png) [@Ferret\_Herder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ferret_Herder)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2003, 2:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/27 "2003-07-11T14:06:30Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Desmostylus \* > This is the Pit. You’re concerned that I called you a dickhead? Get over it. I’m just concerned that not posting a link makes it perfectly fine to use insults. Just because one is allowed to slam other people in the Pit doesn’t mean it’s required, or even appropriate for minor “offenses.” ---
**Author:** ![Desmostylus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/c57346/32.png) [@Desmostylus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Desmostylus)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2003, 2:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/28 "2003-07-11T14:21:08Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Phlosphr \* > \*\*I admit some details were wrong. I heard first from a buddy who’s a cop. Happens to be the same guy helping me with a [project](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=196114) at home. > > The ages and gender are wrong but what links I could find concerning the story are [here](http://wcbs880.com/connnews/CT--LegislatorArreste-mn/resources_news_html) , [here](http://www.msnbc.com/local/wvit/A1657875.asp) , and [here](http://www.ctnow.com/news/local/ec/hc-davis0614.artjun14,0,6923907.story?coll=hc-headlines-ec) . > Some of the details I got from my friend… > > WHO GIVES A FUCK ANYWAY **Desmostylus** , HE’S STILL A RAPIST! AND A LEGISLATOR TO BOOT! > So what if the handed down story made the fish bigger, doesn’t mean the guy is an angel now does it? > Your insensitivity is lame. \*\* OK. So you heard from a friend. Then you lied about seeing it on the news. Then you posted links to a completely unrelated rape case. And you’re still concerned that I called you a dickhead. You are a _lying piece of shit_. ---
**Author:** ![Phlosphr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/c68b51/32.png) [@Phlosphr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Phlosphr)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2003, 2:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/29 "2003-07-11T14:36:57Z")
That news story aired this morning. I heard about it from my friend before I saw it on the news. So what if he exaggerated when he told me? What is to you? Did someone wake up (or not get to bed yet) on the wrong side of the sensitivity meter? Regardless of how you see it, I posted the links you asked for, and calling me names only adds to your inability to be sensitive to a very real issue. Obviously, you rather cite my missgivings rather than show even the least bit of emotion for the child who was raped. In my book that makes most of what you say completely meaningless and without merit. you want a bigger shovel? ---
**Author:** ![Bricker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/977dab/32.png) [@Bricker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bricker)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2003, 2:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/30 "2003-07-11T14:58:06Z")
OK. The OP says: > [@](#): > > news: 44 year old man caught by daughter raping 13 year old blind foster child. Man beat his daughter and was arrested after neighbors heard her screams… > > Thats not the worse part. 13 year old foster child was only their a week, she came from a home where THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO HER NOT A YEAR AGO!!! And the father knew it!!! The reality is that a 52-year old man was arrested after an eleven-year old (sighted) boy told his new foster family that his previous foster parent had sexually abused him. While the allegations of sexual abuse of a child are nothing if not horrifying, I hardly think the disaprity between the OP and the real facts of the case can be brushed aside with a “So what?” commentary. That kind of exaggeration is irresponsible, and, paradoxically, any actually hurt, because the horrors of the phony story were so exaggertated that there is a temptation to react to the _real_ story with a relived, “Oh, is that all?” If the allegations against Mr. Davis are true, I certainly hope he faces a long prison stay. But the OP does not deserve praise for his reckless disregard for the truth. - Rick ---
**Author:** ![Desmostylus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/c57346/32.png) [@Desmostylus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Desmostylus)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2003, 2:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/31 "2003-07-11T14:58:46Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Phlosphr \* > \*\*That news story aired this morning. I heard about it from my friend before I saw it on the news. So what if he exaggerated when he told me? What is to you? Did someone wake up (or not get to bed yet) on the wrong side of the sensitivity meter? > > Regardless of how you see it, I posted the links you asked for, and calling me names only adds to your inability to be sensitive to a very real issue. Obviously, you rather cite my missgivings rather than show even the least bit of emotion for the child who was raped. In my book that makes most of what you say completely meaningless and without merit. > > you want a bigger shovel? \*\* OK, rape is bad. I’m not going to try and defend which ever rapist you finally target. Your OP was still a _complete and utter fabrication._ ---
**Author:** ![Phlosphr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/c68b51/32.png) [@Phlosphr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Phlosphr)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2003, 3:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/32 "2003-07-11T15:14:10Z")
> [@](#): > > While the allegations of sexual abuse of a child are nothing if not horrifying, I hardly think the disaprity between the OP and the real facts of the case can be brushed aside with a “So what?” commentary. True. I lament that the original post should have been researched a lot more than it originally was. Two guys talking about a blind girl getting raped (when in actuality a sighted boy) I did not have any reason to think we was exaggerating, I did wonder how he knew so much since he was on vacation helping me and not at work (policeman). Trickle down effect in this situation landed on me. I appologise. Sometimes my temper for ignorant people loses a couple inches from it’s fuse and I too get confused. ---
**Author:** ![World\_Eater](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/f04885/32.png) [@World\_Eater](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/World_Eater)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2003, 3:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/33 "2003-07-11T15:22:57Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Desmostylus \* > \*\*OK, rape is bad. I’m not going to try and defend which ever rapist you finally target. Your OP was still a _complete and utter fabrication._ \*\* He got heated about something horrible that he heard. He heard wrong, let it go. ---
**Author:** ![bubba\_jr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e95f7d/32.png) [@bubba\_jr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bubba_jr)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2003, 3:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/34 "2003-07-12T03:13:51Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Aries28 \* > \*\*I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again…I hope there is a special pit in hell for people who hurt children. > > If someone ever hurt one of my children like this I would kill them and enjoy every single fucking second of it. \*\* John Grisham’s(sp?) first or second book. Somebody help me out. A very good read on the same subject. ---
**Author:** ![kambuckta](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/53a042/32.png) [@kambuckta](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kambuckta)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2003, 3:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/35 "2003-07-12T03:26:16Z")
“A Time to Kill” perhaps? ---
**Author:** ![bubba\_jr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e95f7d/32.png) [@bubba\_jr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bubba_jr)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2003, 3:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/36 "2003-07-12T03:31:15Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by kambuckta \* > \*\*“A Time to Kill” perhaps? \*\* Thank you, thats the one. I’d kill the bastard too. ---
**Author:** ![iampunha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/74df32/32.png) [@iampunha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iampunha)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2003, 3:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/37 "2003-07-12T03:36:18Z")
Anyone else rather confused as to what is actually happening here? ---
**Author:** ![JDeMobray](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/85e7bf/32.png) [@JDeMobray](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JDeMobray)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2003, 3:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/38 "2003-07-12T03:49:41Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by iampunha \* > \*\*Anyone else rather confused as to what is actually happening here? \*\* Just board drama. I wouldn’t worry; it’s been hot. ---
**Author:** ![GusNSpot](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gusnspot/32/436_2.png) [@GusNSpot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GusNSpot)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2003, 8:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694/39 "2003-07-12T08:25:15Z")
When I was 16, I had a thousand lines I would never cross. Now there is only one and I have bent the shit out of it. What happens is that the police will tell you that if anything happens to the suspect, God will not be a good enough alibi. Talk to us who have had children murdered and raped and learn what people really do and go through. Then make your brags and write them in your blood. We’ll gladly keep them on file. What one will and won’t do can only be known in retrospect. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/keep-your-god-damn-hands-off-her-ya-fuck-not-for-the-weak-of-heart/187694.md?page=1)