Let’s see, I have quite a few updates since I last posted.
I read The Witch House of Persimmon Point by Suzanne Palmieri. It’s my fourth book that I’ve read by her. The author made me think about the distinction between being a writer and being a story-teller. Palmieri writes beautifully, but her books suffer from going off in too many directions: too many characters, too many mysteries, resolutions that feel incomplete and implausible. I enjoyed this book, but the only book by Palmieri where I really finished it and thought “Damn, that was a really good book” was The Witch of Belladonna Bay.
I read Life After Darkness: Finding Healing and Happiness After the Cleveland Kidnappings by Michelle Knight. (She’s changed her name to Lilian Rose Lee, but her byline still says Michelle Knight.) This was a tremendous book. This woman has gone through more shit in her life than anyone I know: Her childhood was filled with rape and abuse, but no authority figures believed her when she asked for help. She eventually became homeless to escape the abuse, and man did I cry when I read about how she felt safer on the streets because at least she knew she wouldn’t be abused that night. What kind of horrible home life do you have to have to be safer on the streets???
Anyways, then of course she was chained and held captive in a psycho’s basement for eleven years, and even there, the permanent physical damage she has as a result makes her experience sound even worse than other victims of kidnapping. Permanent nerve damage in her jaw, her ear, her eyes, her back; an inability to have children because of all the violence Ariel Castro inflicted on her to force her to miscarry five babies. And then to come out of all that, be near death (she came out with a viral infection that nearly killed her), and not even have a support system to go home to?? Her story of how she found the strength to keep moving forward is incredibly inspiring and fascinating.
Speaking of inspiring, I also recently finished my audio book re-read of Life Without Limits by Nick Vujicic, a Christian Evangelist born without limbs. I still love this book to pieces. I listened to it in about 20-minute chunks to and from work. The big disadvantage of listening on audio book is that I couldn’t stop to highlight passages or copy them down. The big advantage was that I could get an inspirational pick-me-up on my way to and from work that did a wonderful job of realigning my focus and reminding me of how I want to live my life.
I read All the Missing Girls, about two women in a small town who go missing, ten years apart. I enjoyed the book, it reminded me of Gillian Flynn’s work (though I like Gillian Flynn better). It was written from Day 15 down to Day 1 (i.e., backwards), and I do think the book suffered for that. It would have been easier to get into the groove and follow along if the author hadn’t tried that gimmick. Still worth reading in my opinion, though.
And finally, I read Smoke Gets in Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory by Caitlin Doughty. It’s a memoir written by a young woman who works in the funeral industry, but the memoir is much more rich in historical facts than most memoirs I’ve read. She talks a lot about cultural traditions in handling death, both currently and throughout human history, and also talks about what she currently dislikes about American cultural attitudes towards death. I almost cheered aloud towards the end of the book, when she espoused a viewpoint that I have been arguing for myself: that the cultural obsession with keeping people alive as long as possible, even when their bodies are actively shutting down, is a poor attitude to have. I volunteer as an EMT, and we are taught to encourage these sorts of people to go to the hospital, and I hate those calls. When a person is clearly going to die soon, and they’d rather stay at home in peace than go to the hospital to prolong their lives a few more months, I hate standing around for the better part of an hour while my crew members try to change the person’s mind.