# Kids (or adults) who were given mother's maiden name?
**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kids-or-adults-who-were-given-mothers-maiden-name/621750
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion
**Created:** [May 13, 2012, 3:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kids-or-adults-who-were-given-mothers-maiden-name/621750 "2012-05-13T03:47:56Z")
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### Author:  [@RedBloom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RedBloom)
#### Post date: [May 15, 2012, 4:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kids-or-adults-who-were-given-mothers-maiden-name/621750/21 "2012-05-15T16:28:02Z")
My husband took his mom’s maiden name when he turned 18. His dad basically left him and his mom when he was 9, never paid child support, and was a jacka\*\*. He hyphenated it for awhile, then eventually dropped his dad’s last name for good. I’m not sure if it’s the name part or the dad-leaving-part, but it (he) seriously messed with his sense of self… even to this day.
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### Author:  [@Orca\_Eyes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Orca_Eyes)
#### Post date: [May 16, 2012, 10:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kids-or-adults-who-were-given-mothers-maiden-name/621750/22 "2012-05-16T22:29:24Z")
> [@ecoaster](#):
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> Do you know anyone who was given their mother’s maiden name? How uncommon is this? Any stories about stress or friction this caused?
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> We (my wife and I) are considering having our first child retain my wife’s maiden name which she has held onto. I’m not really attached to my last name and besides, the whole patrilineal name thing is pretty unfair.
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> I’m guessing my father may take issue with this though…
The only people I know who have their mum’s last name are people born to unmarried mothers (usually ones whose partners take off).
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### Author:  [@sisu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sisu)
#### Post date: [May 17, 2012, 12:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kids-or-adults-who-were-given-mothers-maiden-name/621750/23 "2012-05-17T00:29:16Z")
My dad and his brother got their mum’s surname as a middle name. It helped that it was an old English name that could be both surname and first name. Myself and my two brothers also suffered with this affliction. Really why give me a middle name “Onslow”?
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### Author:  [@AClockworkMelon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AClockworkMelon)
#### Post date: [May 17, 2012, 12:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kids-or-adults-who-were-given-mothers-maiden-name/621750/24 "2012-05-17T00:44:47Z")
I have my mom’s last name. Then again, my parents were never married so I’m probably not what you’re looking for. The only stress it caused me was due to the fact that my mother’s side of the family has a really bad last name. My father’s last name is very normal and I used to wish I’d had it. Now I kind of like my unusual last name because of a “fuck you, that’s why” kind of thing.
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### Author:  [@IvoryTowerDenizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IvoryTowerDenizen)
#### Post date: [May 17, 2012, 12:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kids-or-adults-who-were-given-mothers-maiden-name/621750/25 "2012-05-17T00:52:23Z")
My daughter has my MIL maiden name. It’s a beautiful French name.
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