# Kindergarten Sex **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [November 24, 2002, 4:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498 "2002-11-24T16:44:53Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Fornit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/c89c15/32.png) [@Fornit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fornit)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 6:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/21 "2002-11-25T06:36:14Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Duck Duck Goose \* > just that he had a dad who routinely left hard-core magazines around the house, perhaps it’s just a case of someone who leaves too many Ikea instruction manuals laying around? ‘insert tab A into slot B’ ---
**Author:** ![Theobroma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b5a626/32.png) [@Theobroma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Theobroma)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 6:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/22 "2002-11-25T06:40:17Z")
I’m with **DDG** , once again. I recall a little boy (around 5) who dared another boy (around 5) to kiss his peepee. Boy #2 did, got caught at it, and the parents of boy#1 freaked. I am still well acquainted with both boys, and they are both just fine. The parents explained “that’s why privates are called privates” and it didn’t happen again. Neither is abused, judging by excellent school behavior and good social skills on both sides, as well as knowing the parents. It really is sometimes just a part of growing up and figuring out what is and is not done. I used to run around in first grade trying to kiss all the boys. Good fun! Then I went right ahead and lost my virginity at 25. Very early childhood sex play does not necessarily mean preteen sluthood. ---
**Author:** ![Silentgoldfish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e36b37/32.png) [@Silentgoldfish](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silentgoldfish)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 6:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/23 "2002-11-25T06:50:33Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by threemae \* > \*\*Jesus, how about a little bit of fucking de-escalation here! > > Violence is not the answer for sexual realtionships! > > J-Kat, responding will do you nothing good, except maybe an assualt charge. > > SilentGoldfish: Kicking someone in the testicles for demanding oral sex? That seems a but harsh, but I guess it depends on how he “demanded”. \*\* She’s 15, dammit!!! Still, the fuller story is that they were making out, he yanked down his pants and said “suck my dick.” I heard directly from the source, too :). ---
**Author:** ![Eidolon909](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ce7236/32.png) [@Eidolon909](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eidolon909)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 7:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/24 "2002-11-25T07:24:47Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Silentgoldfish \* > \*\*She’s 15, dammit!!! > > Still, the fuller story is that they were making out, he yanked down his pants and said “suck my dick.” I heard directly from the source, too :). \*\* And? There are plenty of 14 and 15 year old girls who there who have guzzled plenty of cum. Its not strange or unusual. ---
**Author:** ![Eidolon909](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ce7236/32.png) [@Eidolon909](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eidolon909)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 8:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/25 "2002-11-25T08:11:46Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by jwhee \* > \*\*some little boy asked me in pre-school to put his thingy in my mouth. i must have been four. it was nap time. i said “ewww, you’ll pee in my mouth”, he insisted he wouldn’t, and that his big brother said it would feel good. i have no idea how old his big brother was. i wouldn’t do it at the time. i really thought he was gonna pee. \*\* When I was 12 I was over at a friend’s house playing Nintendo or Atari or some such. Some neighbourhood kids would routinely play in his garage, they were younger around 5-8 years old. They were allowed to play in there because it was safe and off the street or something. So one day, we leave the house and go into the garage and one boy the older one, has his “pee pee” in the mouth of the younger one. As we enter the younger gets this look of disgust on his face, stands up and spits out a mouthful of urine. So you were probably wise to refuse his offer. ---
**Author:** ![Flowerchild](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/858c86/32.png) [@Flowerchild](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flowerchild)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 2:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/26 "2002-11-26T02:39:01Z")
Now I feel almost sheltered. I recall my mom freaking out because I spent the night at the neighbor boy’s house and we shared a bed , ( mind you i was about 12 at the time) ---
**Author:** ![Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/8edcca/32.png) [@Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helen_s_Eidolon)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 2:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/27 "2002-11-26T02:44:34Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Eidolon909 \* > \*\*And? There are plenty of 14 and 15 year old girls who there who have guzzled plenty of cum. Its not strange or unusual. \*\* Just because **some** girls of that age do it, doesn’t mean all girls of that age should be **expected** to. ---
**Author:** ![apotheosis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ba8739/32.png) [@apotheosis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/apotheosis)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 2:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/28 "2002-11-26T02:49:51Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by LaurAnge \* > \*\*Just because **some** girls of that age do it, doesn’t mean all girls of that age should be **expected** to. \*\* Am I wrong for thinking that was a vaguely creepy comment to make about a 14- or 15-year-old girl anyway? The older I get, the harder it is to tell when I’m being too uptight. ---
**Author:** ![Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/8edcca/32.png) [@Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helen_s_Eidolon)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 2:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/29 "2002-11-26T02:55:10Z")
No, trust me. Not wrong at ALL. I wa severely creeped. ---
**Author:** ![DAVEW0071](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e19b73/32.png) [@DAVEW0071](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DAVEW0071)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 3:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/30 "2002-11-26T03:12:02Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by matt\_mcl \* > \*\*:eek: Yes we do!! \*\* BAHAHAHAHA!!! Very funny, matt. Especially with the :eek: ---
**Author:** ![Eidolon909](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ce7236/32.png) [@Eidolon909](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eidolon909)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 12:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/31 "2002-11-26T12:41:55Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by LaurAnge \* > \*\*Just because **some** girls of that age do it, doesn’t mean all girls of that age should be **expected** to. \*\* Never said they should be. I was merely responding to the intimation that it was acceptable to attack a boy’s testicles. Just because he requested oral sex from a 15 year old girl. ---
**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 4:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/32 "2002-11-26T16:57:26Z")
He didn’t **just** request oral sex from a 15 year old. Based on the description, he requested oral sex from a 15 year old he clearly hadn’t previously been that intimate with before, by pulling down his pants and essentially telling her to get to work. Yeah, I’d say that’s a good way to get a kick in the cojones. ---
**Author:** ![Blackeyes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f6c823/32.png) [@Blackeyes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Blackeyes)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 5:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/33 "2002-11-26T17:10:47Z")
**RTFirefly** ’s right. The creep deserved the swollen ones. Now my two cents: 5 year olds doing oral sex? Yeah yeah, experimenting is fine an all. I’ve heard kids play doctor, behind the swingset “I’ll show you mine- you show me yours” stuff. And I guess that’s fine. It shouldn’t be recommended though! A mild scolding is what’s needed, I feel. And I’m a leftie, too. But doing ORAL SEX?! That just ain’t right. :mad: ---
**Author:** ![Flowerchild](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/858c86/32.png) [@Flowerchild](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flowerchild)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 6:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/34 "2002-11-26T18:24:44Z")
When I was 15 all a boy did was pinch my ass and I kicked him in the nuts, god only knows what I would have done if he asked me to Suck it. ---
**Author:** ![Lucki\_Chaarms](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/9de0a6/32.png) [@Lucki\_Chaarms](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lucki_Chaarms)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 7:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/35 "2002-11-26T19:59:09Z")
So, **Flowerchild** , how _you_ doin? AAAH!! :: **Lucki** doubles over, gasping in pain and retching violently:: Yikes. BTW, I think that reaction was a bit harsh. If she had said no and he’d persisted in behaving that way to her obvious discomfort, THEN let 'em have it. LC ---
**Author:** ![Flowerchild](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/858c86/32.png) [@Flowerchild](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flowerchild)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 9:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/36 "2002-11-26T21:15:01Z")
I didnt really mean to be violent , it was just a reflex. Sorry to say that I’ve had a bad history with nut-kicking. I’ve kicked like 3 or 4 men in my time. But i swear that they all deserved it. 1. He pinched my ass (see above post) 2.He groped me. 2. He called me a whore 4.Another groper I think all of these were justified ---
**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 9:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/37 "2002-11-26T21:24:12Z")
Well, no, it’s not OKAY for them to do it. But it doesn’t mean they’re necessarily disturbed. However, **DDG** , I think I would have said something to the kid’s father about leaving his porn out. I don’t think young kids need to be seeing the hardcore stuff. Hell, some of it creeps ME out! ---
**Author:** ![MaxTheVool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@MaxTheVool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MaxTheVool)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 10:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/38 "2002-11-26T22:03:42Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Flowerchild \* > \*\*I didnt really mean to be violent , it was just a reflex. Sorry to say that I’ve had a bad history with nut-kicking. I’ve kicked like 3 or 4 men in my time. But i swear that they all deserved it. > … > > 1. He called me a whore > > … > > I think all of these were justified \*\* In this case, unless there’s more to this story than you’re telling us, I have to disagree… he insulted you verbally, you responded with physical violence. ---
**Author:** ![Flowerchild](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/858c86/32.png) [@Flowerchild](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flowerchild)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 10:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/39 "2002-11-26T22:04:39Z")
He clled me a whore because I wouldnt make out with him at a bar. ---
**Author:** ![Blackeyes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f6c823/32.png) [@Blackeyes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Blackeyes)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 10:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498/40 "2002-11-26T22:06:21Z")
Then call him an asshole and leave. Taking a shot at the pills was too much, IMHO. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kindergarten-sex/138498.md?page=3)