# Kiss or Slap Girls
**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405
**Category:** The BBQ Pit
**Created:** [March 10, 2025, 8:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405 "2025-03-10T20:47:55Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author:  [@AWB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AWB)
#### Post date: [March 10, 2025, 8:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/1 "2025-03-10T20:47:56Z")
My Facebook feed is constantly getting short videos of young women (one in particular, but there are several) who ask guys on the street, “Kiss or Slap?” The guys usually say, “Slap,” then she presents her butt like a horny baboon and the guy slaps it. Is this just to pump up their egos, that guys want to feel them up as they slap their ass?
Another video they do is show some guy a picture of them with their naughty bits blurred. They say if they answer some question that they get to see the unblurred version. WTF?
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### Author:  [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)
#### Post date: [March 10, 2025, 8:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/2 "2025-03-10T20:53:12Z")
Ummmm…people are stupid?
Social media prank videos are real popular.
Quit watching them, eventually your feed will reflect that.
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### Author:  [@Joey\_P](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Joey_P)
#### Post date: [March 10, 2025, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/3 "2025-03-10T20:54:29Z")
> [@AWB](#):
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> Is this just to pump up their egos, that guys want to feel them up as they slap their ass?
It’s for clicks, period.
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### Author:  [@ThelmaLou](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ThelmaLou)
#### Post date: [March 10, 2025, 8:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/4 "2025-03-10T20:56:32Z")
Yet another reason why I’m glad I’m not on Facebook.
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### Author:  [@Happy\_Lendervedder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Lendervedder)
#### Post date: [March 10, 2025, 9:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/5 "2025-03-10T21:12:54Z")
Yep, completely staged, just to get you to watch. Once you do, you’ll see more. That’s why you’re constantly being fed them.
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### Author:  [@kambuckta](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kambuckta)
#### Post date: [March 10, 2025, 9:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/6 "2025-03-10T21:22:20Z")
You don’t even need to click. Just stopping on a FB post (even if you’re just going to the loo and not reading it) will ensure that you will be inundated with similar posts for days.
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### Author:  [@DocCathode](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DocCathode)
#### Post date: [March 10, 2025, 9:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/7 "2025-03-10T21:28:02Z")
I am curious, do you have your settings so that these videos play automatically or are you clicking on them? Facebook shows me stuff all the time. The videos do not play automatically. I have never clicked on any video that was not posted by a friend or on a page I already follow. Even then, I only click videos if there is a description or the content is obvious.
Oh, as others have said, these videos are staged. The normal response to “Kiss or slap?” is ‘Who are you and what are you talking about?’
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### Author:  [@Jophiel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jophiel)
#### Post date: [March 10, 2025, 9:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/8 "2025-03-10T21:59:25Z")
> [@AWB](#):
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> who ask guys on the street, “Kiss or Slap?” The guys usually say, “Slap,” then she presents her butt like a horny baboon and the guy slaps it.
It _better_ be staged because my first thought on reading “Ask a guy ‘kiss or slap?’” was that this was a fuck-marry-kill situation and that she was playing a dangerous game. I would not have guessed that “spank my butt” was the non-kiss option.
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### Author:  [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)
#### Post date: [March 10, 2025, 10:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/9 "2025-03-10T22:02:44Z")
It is staged, it is click bait, and that is the whole of it
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### Author:  [@CalMeacham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CalMeacham)
#### Post date: [March 10, 2025, 10:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/10 "2025-03-10T22:42:08Z")
I just googled “Kiss or Slap” and got something _completely_ different from what the OP describes. In fact, I don’t see anything like the OP’s description there.
> [@](#):
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> What is the kiss or slap?
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> So, the rules of the game are simple. **If the boy wins, he gets a kiss and if the girl wins, she gets to slap the guy**. But how does this happen? These two guys from YTV Network request women in Bangkok to play the ‘Rock-Paper-Scissors’ game and what happens next will leave you in splits
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> [Kiss Or Slap: What Happened In This Kissing Prank? - Times of India](https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/red-hot/kiss-or-slap-what-happened-in-this-kissing-prank/articleshow/45089192.cms)
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> [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q8GPa\_kGDYQ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q8GPa_kGDYQ)
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### Author:  [@Sylvanz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sylvanz)
#### Post date: [March 10, 2025, 10:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/11 "2025-03-10T22:49:44Z")
No wonder I see lots of kitten and dog vieos. I just can’t always pass up on the cute kitties.
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### Author:  [@Chisquirrel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chisquirrel)
#### Post date: [March 10, 2025, 11:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/12 "2025-03-10T23:16:39Z")
> [@AWB](#):
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> My Facebook feed is constantly getting short videos of young women (one in particular, but there are several) who ask guys on the street, “Kiss or Slap?” The guys usually say, “Slap,” then she presents her butt like a horny baboon and the guy slaps it. Is this just to pump up their egos, that guys want to feel them up as they slap their ass?
They’re showing up because you’re watching them.
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### Author:  [@Johanna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johanna)
#### Post date: [March 11, 2025, 12:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/13 "2025-03-11T00:44:56Z")
I’m glad my FB reels haven’t brought me anything like that.
I keep seeing a trend of women applying makeup while giving a seminar on any subject other than makeup. Why is that a thing?
Lately, I’m also seeing reels from _Geography Now,_ which is pretty good.
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### Author:  [@Happy\_Lendervedder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Lendervedder)
#### Post date: [March 11, 2025, 1:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/14 "2025-03-11T01:19:55Z")
I get a lot of Modern Family clips. I’m a sucker for Cam.
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### Author:  [@susan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/susan)
#### Post date: [March 11, 2025, 2:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/15 "2025-03-11T02:18:38Z")
I get almost nothing but people cracking open fossil nodules to see if there are ammonites inside, and people making candy. I work hard to retain that, cause that’s how I like it.
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### Author:  [@echoreply](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/echoreply)
#### Post date: [March 11, 2025, 3:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/16 "2025-03-11T03:24:10Z")
> [@Johanna](#):
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> I keep seeing a trend of women applying makeup while giving a seminar on any subject other than makeup. Why is that a thing?
I believe that is (or has its roots in) censorship evasion tactics. For example, a video that appears to be applying makeup, but is really a lecture that is critical of the Chinese Communist Party.
The long form videos I watch on YouTube are mostly about cars. For some reason the algorithm thinks that means I want to watch short videos staring scantily clad young women playing musical instruments.
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### Author:  [@TokyoBayer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TokyoBayer)
#### Post date: [March 11, 2025, 6:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/17 "2025-03-11T06:16:47Z")
> [@echoreply](#):
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> The long form videos I watch on YouTube are mostly about cars. For some reason the algorithm thinks that means I want to watch short videos staring scantily clad young women playing musical instruments.
I mostly watch YouTube videos about WWII, but they think I want to watch short videos about fails (people falling down and such, with a thumbnail of a scantily dressed young woman) or prison drama.
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### Author:  [@Smapti](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smapti)
#### Post date: [March 11, 2025, 6:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/18 "2025-03-11T06:59:55Z")
> [@echoreply](#):
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> I believe that is (or has its roots in) censorship evasion tactics. For example, a video that appears to be applying makeup, but is really a lecture that is critical of the Chinese Communist Party.
I assumed it was just there to keep your eyes busy while you’re listening to the audio, like how some Youtubers will play Minecraft footage while they read Reddit posts or talk about the price of graphics cards.
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### Author:  [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)
#### Post date: [March 11, 2025, 10:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/19 "2025-03-11T10:06:26Z")
I’ve posted this before, but
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### Author:  [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)
#### Post date: [March 11, 2025, 10:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kiss-or-slap-girls/1015405/20 "2025-03-11T10:29:45Z")
No they are not.
FB used to be my “safe” app that I could scroll at work and not have to worry about what pops up.
Not any more. It’s completely filled with half naked ladies.
Whoever the creators are that are behind this are using some sketchy tactics.
Like using well known actresses and then Photoshop big boobs on them. Which causes you to linger for like a second. Not because of the boobs but because you recognize the face and you’re trying to remember where that face is from.
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