# kissing

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kissing/186702>\
**Category:** Factual Questions\
**Created:** [July 7, 2003, 4:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kissing/186702 "2003-07-07T04:03:10Z")\
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**Author:** ![travebar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f9ae1b/32.png) [@travebar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/travebar)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2003, 4:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kissing/186702/1 "2003-07-07T04:03:10Z")

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OK…I kiss alot…I love kissing  
soooo…who invented kissing,if indeed,you can say it was invented…  
who gave the first kiss to whom.?

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**Author:** ![Wolfian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/7ea924/32.png) [@Wolfian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wolfian)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2003, 10:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kissing/186702/2 "2003-07-07T10:09:55Z")

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This is all half-remembered stuff pieced together from several psych classes and they are all theories, so take them with a grain of salt.

-There’s a theory that kissing started when mothers would chew food then give it to their toddlers like birds. This is a type of closeness shared with family and one could make a Freudian agrument.  
-Kissing puts two people together very closely. Scents and saliva (read pheromones) are exchanged. This requires love and increases feelings of trust.  
-Beyond all that, it just feels good. To quote Rodgers and Hammerstein:

Who can explain it?/  
Who can tell you why?/  
Foolish men question./  
Wise men never try.

Go forth and snog and welcome to the boards!

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**Author:** ![parlo\_americano](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b19c9b/32.png) [@parlo\_americano](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/parlo_americano)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2003, 10:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kissing/186702/3 "2003-07-07T10:29:52Z")

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Is kissing present in every culture? I remember hearing the Inuit rubbed noses because the women used their mouths as a tool to soften whale blubber.  
Umm I don’t know why I know that so let me know if that is false.
