# kissing

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kissing/722308>\
**Category:** Factual Questions\
**Created:** [June 12, 2015, 2:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kissing/722308 "2015-06-12T02:05:48Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 7\
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**Author:** ![myksweety](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9a140/32.png) [@myksweety](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/myksweety)\
**Post date:** [June 12, 2015, 2:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kissing/722308/1 "2015-06-12T02:05:48Z")

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:smack:I’m living w a black man. He never kisses me, just fuck. I miss the intimacy, the snuging, the caressing. He doesnt even touch my breasts. A black woman just informed me that black men only kiss if they’re really in love. He says he loves me. He’s 34 n has 6 kids (6-17) by 4 different women. I left my husband of 28 years bc I was so in love w this guy, been for years. He claims to b faithful. Has no job, n is an alcoholic. Just got outta rehab n jail. I’ve supported him n paid all the way. I am the only one who’s been there for him when noone else was. I’m 51, white, 5 grown kids by the same dad. My family disowned me bc im with a black man. Is this true…black men only kiss if they’re only really in love… It’s killing me inside.

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**Author:** ![zoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zoid/32/336_2.png) [@zoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zoid)\
**Post date:** [June 12, 2015, 2:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kissing/722308/2 "2015-06-12T02:40:34Z")

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Reported for forum change.

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**Author:** ![jimbuff314](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c57346/32.png) [@jimbuff314](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jimbuff314)\
**Post date:** [June 12, 2015, 2:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kissing/722308/3 "2015-06-12T02:41:39Z")

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I think any general, blanket statement about any group of people (“black men only _X_”) cannot be true. This is not to say that he does or doesn’t love you - I don’t know.

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**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\
**Post date:** [June 12, 2015, 2:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kissing/722308/4 "2015-06-12T02:46:27Z")

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> [@myksweety](#):
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> :smack:I’m living w a black man. He never kisses me, just fuck. I miss the intimacy, the snuging, the caressing. He doesnt even touch my breasts. A black woman just informed me that black men only kiss if they’re really in love. He says he loves me. **He’s 34 n has 6 kids (6-17) by 4 different women. I left my husband of 28 years bc I was so in love w this guy, been for years. He claims to b faithful. Has no job, n is an alcoholic. Just got outta rehab n jail. I’ve supported him n paid all the way.** I am the only one who’s been there for him when noone else was. I’m 51, white, 5 grown kids by the same dad.\*\* My family disowned me bc im with a black man.\*\* Is this true…black men only kiss if they’re only really in love… It’s killing me inside.

You really think it’s because he’s black?

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**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\
**Post date:** [June 12, 2015, 3:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kissing/722308/5 "2015-06-12T03:13:09Z")

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Google reveals our new friend is on a number of porn cam chat sites.(based on the username)

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**Author:** ![Colibri](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/colibri/32/1841_2.png) [@Colibri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Colibri)\
**Post date:** [June 12, 2015, 3:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kissing/722308/6 "2015-06-12T03:44:23Z")

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myksweety, our General Questions forum is for questions with factual answers. Since your question does not, I have closed it.

Please read the forum descriptions and our rules before posting again.

Colibri  
General Questions Moderator

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**Author:** ![Mijin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mijin/32/9369_2.png) [@Mijin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mijin)\
**Post date:** [June 12, 2015, 4:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/kissing/722308/7 "2015-06-12T04:07:49Z")

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> [@Colibri](#):
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> Since your question does not, I have closed it.

You have?
