# Ladies and gay men, do you enjoy the porn type facial? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [September 18, 2014, 7:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-and-gay-men-do-you-enjoy-the-porn-type-facial/698860 "2014-09-18T19:28:28Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Cara\_mel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/22d042/32.png) [@Cara\_mel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cara_mel)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2014, 12:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-and-gay-men-do-you-enjoy-the-porn-type-facial/698860/21 "2014-09-19T12:22:11Z")
If the trust is there, and the relationship is strong, you can do anything. It all sounds kind of hot to me. ---
**Author:** ![scootergirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e99b99/32.png) [@scootergirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scootergirl)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2014, 4:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-and-gay-men-do-you-enjoy-the-porn-type-facial/698860/22 "2014-09-19T16:08:42Z")
> [@Cara\_mel](#): > > If the trust is there, and the relationship is strong, you can do anything. It all sounds kind of hot to me. This is **exactly** how I feel. Trust is a key factor. There are plenty of things I am open to now that I wasn’t to in the past. I was also married to a prudish man for many years. My sex life was pretty bland. It took a while to finally be in a relationship with someone who’s open-minded and adventurous like me. What I find disappointing is that often being open to sexual “taboo-like” acts can be viewed as negatively. Women like to talk about their sex lives. I don’t share the things that turn me on with anyone. But I also don’t find the need to do so…well…except with you all, at times. :). OK…on that note, I’m off to work! ---
**Author:** ![HoneyBadgerDC](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/honeybadgerdc/32/1033_2.png) [@HoneyBadgerDC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HoneyBadgerDC)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2014, 4:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-and-gay-men-do-you-enjoy-the-porn-type-facial/698860/23 "2014-09-19T16:48:45Z")
Leading up to an orgasm the idea is often very appealing, I know from experience that 10 seconds after my orgasm I find it a bit repulsive so I tend to avoid it most of the time. ---
**Author:** ![corkboard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e9bcb4/32.png) [@corkboard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/corkboard)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2014, 5:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-and-gay-men-do-you-enjoy-the-porn-type-facial/698860/24 "2014-09-19T17:15:50Z")
Answering for my wife- it’s not her favorite thing, but she doesn’t mind it. We’ve done it but infrequently, more because I prefer to finish _in_ her somewhere as opposed to _on_ her. I had a girlfriend who absolutely loved it. I had one who absolutely hated it. I had one who loved it on her tits only. And I don’t think the topic ever came up with any others. ---
**Author:** ![Shadowfyre](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/shadowfyre/32/9972_2.png) [@Shadowfyre](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shadowfyre)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2014, 6:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-and-gay-men-do-you-enjoy-the-porn-type-facial/698860/25 "2014-09-19T18:37:13Z")
Personally, I can never seem to finish from a BJ unless certain conditions are met (too long to explain here) and in those cases, I’m literally not in a position to control where it all goes. That said, I’d rather not finish in my lover’s mouth or on her face, as I like to kiss a lot and the thought of kissing her when I could get that stuff in **my** mouth just grosses me out (which could possibly be a topic for another interesting poll). But in every case so far, I’ve always preferred to finish while fully inserted. There have been times when I slipped out at the last second due to us both violently climaxing at the same time, but those times I never felt as satisfied afterward. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-and-gay-men-do-you-enjoy-the-porn-type-facial/698860.md?page=1)