# Ladies: Do you like to be spanked? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 12, 2008, 6:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388 "2008-11-12T18:55:33Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Winston\_Smith](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e95f7d/32.png) [@Winston\_Smith](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Winston_Smith)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 6:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/1 "2008-11-12T18:55:33Z")
As prelude to or during sex? Is this common? Kinky? Is it a ‘daddy thing’? What does it do for you? ---
**Author:** ![Walpurgis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/7ea924/32.png) [@Walpurgis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Walpurgis)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 7:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/2 "2008-11-12T19:03:52Z")
I just have to ask, what on earth is a _daddy thing_? ---
**Author:** ![Winston\_Smith](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e95f7d/32.png) [@Winston\_Smith](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Winston_Smith)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 7:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/3 "2008-11-12T19:04:53Z")
> [@Walpurgis](#): > > I just have to ask, what on earth is a _daddy thing_? I don’t know. That’s why I’m asking. ---
**Author:** ![Sigmagirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c89c15/32.png) [@Sigmagirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sigmagirl)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 7:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/4 "2008-11-12T19:26:04Z")
Hell no. Do not strike me. You will be sorry. ---
**Author:** ![Chef\_Troy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Chef\_Troy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chef_Troy)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 7:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/5 "2008-11-12T19:45:10Z")
This is part of my repertoire with Mrs. Chef, but I’m neutral about it; I only do it because she seems to like it. I’ve never known for sure if she likes it or if she’s actually neutral about it too, and seeks it out because she thinks _I_ like it. Hmm. She and I should really have a discussion about this. **Edited to add:** I’m not talking about a full-fledged, over-the-lap spanking, but randomly timed and fairly gentle swats interspersed with caresses, usually while she’s occupied with doing something else to me. (ahem.) ---
**Author:** ![Caricci](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Caricci](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Caricci)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/6 "2008-11-12T20:01:22Z")
Yes, especially with a little scenario. In introducing this fetish to my husband I accidentally got him to like it to so now we have to take turns.:mad: It’s part of sex, of course. Prelude, generally speaking. My favorite scenario was when he claimed that the manager of our local small town grocery caught me shoplifting and allowed my husband to take care of it instead of involving the police. Now I blush everytime I see that guy in the store. ---
**Author:** ![TroubleAgain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e480ec/32.png) [@TroubleAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TroubleAgain)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/7 "2008-11-12T20:24:48Z")
No. We tried it, and it really didn’t do anything for either of us. ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/8 "2008-11-12T20:27:46Z")
> [@Caricci](#): > > My favorite scenario was when he claimed that the manager of our local small town grocery caught me shoplifting and allowed my husband to take care of it instead of involving the police. Now I blush everytime I see that guy in the store. I like the way he thinks. My GF’s latest thing is to say No to everything I ask. She then turns her cute little tush to me so that I can punish her for being a brat. ---
**Author:** ![scout1222](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/34f0e0/32.png) [@scout1222](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scout1222)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/9 "2008-11-12T20:30:14Z")
Yes. If it’s a “daddy thing” I SWEAR TO GOD I DON’T WANT TO KNOW ABOUT IT. In other words, consciously no, that’s not what it is. It’s a pain/pleasure thing, and it’s something that normally you wouldn’t do to someone - so it’s something “unusual” or “naughty” but not in a parent/child way. ---
**Author:** ![Caricci](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Caricci](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Caricci)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/10 "2008-11-12T20:37:20Z")
> [@tdn](#): > > I like the way he thinks. > > My GF’s latest thing is to say No to everything I ask. She then turns her cute little tush to me so that I can punish her for being a brat. You may feel free to use it. ---
**Author:** ![pbbth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f9ae1b/32.png) [@pbbth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pbbth)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/11 "2008-11-12T20:37:38Z")
No, I have no interest in that. An occasional light smack or squeeze just to be silly is fine, but when it comes down to sex there needs to be absolutely no hitting, whether that is on my bum or elsewhere. If he wanted me to smack him I could do it but I wouldn’t feel right about it. ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/12 "2008-11-12T20:41:33Z")
> [@Caricci](#): > > You may feel free to use it. Thanks, I just might. If we can work a schoolgirl/principal thing into it, then all the better. “I can give you a week of detention, or…” ---
**Author:** ![Caricci](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Caricci](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Caricci)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/13 "2008-11-12T20:47:46Z")
> [@tdn](#): > > Thanks, I just might. > > If we can work a schoolgirl/principal thing into it, then all the better. > > “I can give you a week of detention, or…” That would be fun too, but the thing about this was: it could happen. I’m far from a school girl, but I do go to Shaw’s Market. ---
**Author:** ![Palo\_Verde](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/65b543/32.png) [@Palo\_Verde](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Palo_Verde)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/14 "2008-11-12T20:50:20Z")
No. I can’t imagine liking this. ---
**Author:** ![KneadToKnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kneadtoknow/32/3999_2.png) [@KneadToKnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KneadToKnow)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/15 "2008-11-12T20:51:19Z")
“Daddy things” don’t have to be scary or undiscussable. They also don’t have to include spanking, though they do at my house sometimes. Not much but sometimes. I will not explain further unless asked. **Knead** A Daddy Dom EDIT: And you know, inevitably, this thread is going to wind up sequential with “What do 10 to 15 year old girls like?” right? ---
**Author:** ![Winston\_Smith](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e95f7d/32.png) [@Winston\_Smith](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Winston_Smith)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/16 "2008-11-12T20:53:47Z")
> [@KneadToKnow](#): > > “Daddy things” don’t have to be scary or undiscussable. They also don’t have to include spanking, though they do at my house sometimes. Not much but sometimes. > > I will not explain further unless asked. > > **Knead** > A Daddy Dom Who says it’s undiscussable? If it wasn’t discussable, we wouldn’t be discussing it. I’m interested in hearing what you have to say on this. Will you elaborate? There. I’ve asked. ---
**Author:** ![Caricci](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Caricci](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Caricci)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/17 "2008-11-12T20:55:40Z")
I would not be adverse to either one of us playing a parental role, but I would NOT be into extreme age play. ---
**Author:** ![Winston\_Smith](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e95f7d/32.png) [@Winston\_Smith](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Winston_Smith)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/18 "2008-11-12T20:55:53Z")
> [@KneadToKnow](#): > > “Daddy things” don’t have to be scary or undiscussable. They also don’t have to include spanking, though they do at my house sometimes. Not much but sometimes. > > I will not explain further unless asked. > > **Knead** > A Daddy Dom > EDIT: And you know, inevitably, this thread is going to wind up sequential with “What do 10 to 15 year old girls like?” right? I lead the league when it comes to sequential thread titles. ---
**Author:** ![KneadToKnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kneadtoknow/32/3999_2.png) [@KneadToKnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KneadToKnow)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/19 "2008-11-12T20:56:30Z")
> [@Winston\_Smith](#): > > Who says it’s undiscussable? If it wasn’t discussable, we wouldn’t be discussing it. That was in response to > [@](#): > > If it’s a “daddy thing” I SWEAR TO GOD I DON’T WANT TO KNOW ABOUT IT above. May I answer here or would you prefer that I start a separate thread, since that is, technically, a hijack? ---
**Author:** ![Caricci](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Caricci](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Caricci)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 8:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388/20 "2008-11-12T20:57:33Z")
I wanna hear about it. Use spoiler tags. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-do-you-like-to-be-spanked/472388.md?page=2)