# Ladies; Ever get a creepy PM from a fellow Doper? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [August 23, 2013, 10:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952 "2013-08-23T10:39:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 8
**Author:** ![Fubaya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/c2a13f/32.png) [@Fubaya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fubaya)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2013, 8:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/141 "2013-08-26T20:16:53Z")
You’ll probably get a PM offer to help knock the dust off that thang. ---
**Author:** ![bup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6bbea6/32.png) [@bup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bup)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2013, 8:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/142 "2013-08-26T20:50:18Z")
Maybe there’s cobwebs and spiders. Spiders are creepy! ---
**Author:** ![MeanOldLady](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/meanoldlady/32/10737_2.png) [@MeanOldLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MeanOldLady)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2013, 9:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/143 "2013-08-26T21:26:24Z")
> [@leftfield6](#): > > Let the record show that leftfield6 has never knowingly sent **DiosaBellissima** a PM of any nature. > > But I do drink sometimes…so who knows! 😛 I’d say over 90% of the creepy PMs I’ve sent have been under the influence. Alcohol really helps me maximize my creepiness. ---
**Author:** ![Helena330](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/helena330/32/531_2.png) [@Helena330](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helena330)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2013, 10:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/144 "2013-08-26T22:49:43Z")
No. ☹ I have received some gossipy “helpful” ones about board drama. :rolleyes: ---
**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2013, 11:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/145 "2013-08-26T23:19:31Z")
Well, my blatant play for attention yielded only one PM. And it wasn’t even creepy. > [@stui\_magpie](#): > > Guy here, I haven’t received any PM’s since joining up here, nor have I sent any of any kind, creepy or otherwise. > > However, I’m more than willing to make up for this transgress to any of the ladies who feel left out and wish to pm me their preferences. > > Just let me know if you you wish for: > > Mildly flirtatious? > Suggestive? > Erotic? > Hardcore? > Disturbed? > Sick and twisted? > > and or any combination of the above, and I’ll try my best to satisfy.🆒 I’d like to see “mildly flirtatious” combined with “sick and twisted.” And do post it in the thread! ---
**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2013, 11:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/146 "2013-08-26T23:32:30Z")
I just got a link to this: [http://i1.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/117/103/tumblr\_l8eexgsw341qa1id2o1\_500.jpg](http://i1.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/117/103/tumblr_l8eexgsw341qa1id2o1_500.jpg) I can’t stop laughing. ---
**Author:** ![Ruken](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/f475e1/32.png) [@Ruken](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ruken)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2013, 11:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/147 "2013-08-26T23:44:53Z")
> [@Green\_Bean](#): > > I just got a link to this: [http://i1.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/117/103/tumblr\_l8eexgsw341qa1id2o1\_500.jpg](http://i1.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/117/103/tumblr_l8eexgsw341qa1id2o1_500.jpg) > > I can’t stop laughing. Via PM? ---
**Author:** ![WhyNot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c77e96/32.png) [@WhyNot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhyNot)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2013, 11:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/148 "2013-08-26T23:54:47Z")
> [@Green\_Bean](#): > > I’d like to see “mildly flirtatious” combined with “sick and twisted.” > [@Green\_Bean](#): > > I just got a link to this: [http://i1.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/117/103/tumblr\_l8eexgsw341qa1id2o1\_500.jpg](http://i1.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/117/103/tumblr_l8eexgsw341qa1id2o1_500.jpg) Nailed it! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2013, 11:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/149 "2013-08-26T23:59:19Z")
> [@Ruken](#): > > Via PM? Yes. I didn’t want to “out” the person who sent it for sending me a creepy PM. 😛 He also told me he liked my phaseolus. ---
**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2013, 12:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/150 "2013-08-27T00:00:44Z")
What a pervert. ---
**Author:** ![stui\_magpie](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/stui_magpie/32/11010_2.png) [@stui\_magpie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/stui_magpie)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2013, 12:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/151 "2013-08-27T00:06:53Z")
> [@Green\_Bean](#): > > Well, my blatant play for attention yielded only one PM. And it wasn’t even creepy. > > I’d like to see “mildly flirtatious” combined with “sick and twisted.” And do post it in the thread! Ok. You’re making it hard for me, I’ll see what I can come up with. ---
**Author:** ![Fubaya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/c2a13f/32.png) [@Fubaya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fubaya)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2013, 12:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/152 "2013-08-27T00:13:26Z")
I have a feeling this is going to turn into the Great SDMB Orgy of 2013. Or should it be the Great SDMB Summer Orgy 2013? Or maybe the Great SDMB August '13 Orgy? I haven’t really been keeping up with the orgies around here lately. ---
**Author:** ![Robot\_Arm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/robot_arm/32/18280_2.png) [@Robot\_Arm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Robot_Arm)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2013, 12:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/153 "2013-08-27T00:30:32Z")
> [@Green\_Bean](#): > > I’d like to see “mildly flirtatious” combined with “sick and twisted.” And do post it in the thread! I need your help; I’m trying to build sex toys out of Legos. > [@Fubaya](#): > > I have a feeling this is going to turn into the Great SDMB Orgy of 2013. If it does, would someone send me a PM to let me know. ---
**Author:** ![Loach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/loach/32/350_2.png) [@Loach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loach)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2013, 12:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/154 "2013-08-27T00:56:33Z")
It never occurred to me to use the SDMB to get dates. I’m such an idiot. Of course my PMs will be sexy and not all creepy. ---
**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2013, 1:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/155 "2013-08-27T01:02:36Z")
> [@Loach](#): > > Of course my PMs will be sexy and not all creepy. Hate to be the one to tell you this, but “I have handcuffs and I know how to use them. P.S. What’s your license plate number?” is definitely creepy. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Loach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/loach/32/350_2.png) [@Loach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loach)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2013, 1:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/156 "2013-08-27T01:08:11Z")
> [@Green\_Bean](#): > > Hate to be the one to tell you this, but “I have handcuffs and I know how to use them. P.S. What’s your license plate number?” is definitely creepy. > > 😃 Oh please. I already know your license plate number. ---
**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2013, 1:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/157 "2013-08-27T01:11:01Z")
Aw, snap! ---
**Author:** ![stui\_magpie](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/stui_magpie/32/11010_2.png) [@stui\_magpie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/stui_magpie)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2013, 1:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/158 "2013-08-27T01:29:05Z")
> [@Green\_Bean](#): > > Well, my blatant play for attention yielded only one PM. And it wasn’t even creepy. > > I’d like to see “mildly flirtatious” combined with “sick and twisted.” And do post it in the thread! Ok, how’s this. Hey, I just found out there’s going to be a display market near your place this weekend where they have all sorts of handcrafted leather items for sale and displays of people showing how they do some of the leather work. It’s something i find fascinating and I was going to go there for a look. Would you like to catch up there for a coffee and chat? I’ve been a long time admirer of some of your posting here and it would be great to meet you in person. I’ve seen a couple of photos and you have such lovely skin. ---
**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2013, 1:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/159 "2013-08-27T01:35:17Z")
Well, at first, I was like “that’s creepy, but not really sick and twisted.” But then I re-read it a couple times… :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: Bravo! Well done! ---
**Author:** ![CrazyCatLady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dfb087/32.png) [@CrazyCatLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CrazyCatLady)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2013, 1:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952/160 "2013-08-27T01:40:11Z")
I once got a pm from a guy asking if I considered myself a member of the BDSM community, but it was the complete opposite of creepy. It was related to something I’d posted in a thread, he was very matter-of-fact and respectful about asking, and he damn near sprained something apologizing for potentially offending me when I said no. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952.md?page=7) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-ever-get-a-creepy-pm-from-a-fellow-doper/666952.md?page=9)