# Ladies: Have you ever gotten a hug with something extra? **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [May 29, 2002, 7:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-have-you-ever-gotten-a-hug-with-something-extra/111418 "2002-05-29T19:03:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![LilCutie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/848f3c/32.png) [@LilCutie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LilCutie)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2002, 4:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-have-you-ever-gotten-a-hug-with-something-extra/111418/21 "2002-05-30T16:00:43Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by jinwicked \* > \*\*No. Non-boyfriend persons do not hug or touch me. \*\* I’m with you on that one. Other than family that is… 🙂 Jenny\* ---
**Author:** ![Tir\_Tinuviel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bc79bd/32.png) [@Tir\_Tinuviel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tir_Tinuviel)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2002, 4:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-have-you-ever-gotten-a-hug-with-something-extra/111418/22 "2002-05-30T16:15:17Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Devilman Palmer \* > \*\* some guy walks by and says to his friend: “Jesus! Look at the size of that guy’s hardon!” \*\* Surely this is a compliment? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![butter\_pie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/aca169/32.png) [@butter\_pie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/butter_pie)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2002, 5:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-have-you-ever-gotten-a-hug-with-something-extra/111418/23 "2002-05-30T17:46:48Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by TwistofFate \* > \*\* > > Why not? \*\* Because I don’t like strangers and casual acquaintances touching me. ---
**Author:** ![World\_Eater](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/f04885/32.png) [@World\_Eater](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/World_Eater)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2002, 6:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-have-you-ever-gotten-a-hug-with-something-extra/111418/24 "2002-05-30T18:12:40Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Devilman Palmer \* > \*\*Just so you know, guys don’t do that stuff on purpose. It’s not like we say, “hey, why don’t I give her a poke with Mr. Happy so she knows how much I _really_ like her!” > > I know it’s a cliche, but the penis really does have a mind of its own. > > That reminds me of a time I was in high school hugging my girlfriend in the hallway, and just as I was saying goodbye to her to go to class, some guy walks by and says to his friend: “Jesus! Look at the size of that guy’s hardon!” So I look down, and sure enough, the front of my pants was jutting out like the prow of a ship. How embarrassing! > > That was the last time I ever wore sweatpants to school! :eek: \*\* Nothing more to add, cept I’m still laughing. And yes a pox on sweatpants! ---
**Author:** ![Beadalin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3be4f8/32.png) [@Beadalin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beadalin)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2002, 6:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-have-you-ever-gotten-a-hug-with-something-extra/111418/25 "2002-05-30T18:19:43Z")
Man, I totally responded to this thread and my post ain’t here. Stupid Board! Harumph. Anyway, like I was saying, I thought **hillbilly queen** wasn’t talking about inadvertant hard-ons so much as the intentional/drunked grope-or-grind. I’ve received a couple of both. The worst was when I was a bridesmaid at a wedding. One of the groomsmen (whom I had only met at the rehearsal, and couldn’t recall his name) hugged me and kept me trapped while he ran his hand down my back to squeeze my butt. In full view of his girlfriend. And the rest of the room. ---
**Author:** ![Zoff](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/6de8d8/32.png) [@Zoff](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zoff)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2002, 6:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-have-you-ever-gotten-a-hug-with-something-extra/111418/26 "2002-05-30T18:30:20Z")
A guy who lived in my dorm in college had the hots for a girl. She gave him the speech about not liking him that way, and when they did the post-talk hug he actually ejaculated. Must have been a hell of a hug. The reason I know this happened is because he went around telling people about it. He was quickly nicknamed “Squirt”. I can’t imagine why he would think it was a good idea to tell others about his little mishap. ---
**Author:** ![Jester](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jester/32/8223_2.png) [@Jester](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jester)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2002, 6:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-have-you-ever-gotten-a-hug-with-something-extra/111418/27 "2002-05-30T18:31:22Z")
My mommy said that when two parents want a baby and love each other very much, they have a “special hug.” Is that what you mean? ---
**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2002, 9:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-have-you-ever-gotten-a-hug-with-something-extra/111418/28 "2002-05-30T21:14:09Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by jinwicked \* > \*\*Because I don’t like strangers and casual acquaintances touching me. \*\* You mean, no guys besides your SOs have been more than casual acquaintances? 😕 ---
**Author:** ![butter\_pie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/aca169/32.png) [@butter\_pie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/butter_pie)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2002, 9:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-have-you-ever-gotten-a-hug-with-something-extra/111418/29 "2002-05-30T21:28:56Z")
You mean other than my co-workers? I have only two people that could accurately called friends or anything more than casual acquaintances, and I see them all of a few hours _maybe_ once every two months. I shake hands with strangers often but it doesn’t go past that. I don’t like people touching me that aren’t my SO. ---
**Author:** ![Gorgon\_Heap](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/f475e1/32.png) [@Gorgon\_Heap](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gorgon_Heap)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2002, 9:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-have-you-ever-gotten-a-hug-with-something-extra/111418/30 "2002-05-30T21:31:09Z")
This is getting not at all dissimilar to the “Personal Space” thread in IMHO. It seems **Jin** is not in the minority about being touched, etc. Especially in the US. ---
**Author:** ![Dragonblink](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b9bd4f/32.png) [@Dragonblink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dragonblink)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2002, 11:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-have-you-ever-gotten-a-hug-with-something-extra/111418/31 "2002-05-30T23:11:04Z")
Only once have I gotten a hug with change … and the young man was gayer than pink ink. As if I didn’t have enough gender confusion in my life. 😃 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-have-you-ever-gotten-a-hug-with-something-extra/111418.md?page=1)