# Ladies - is getting DP'ed "the ultimate?" REALLY? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 29, 2008, 9:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974 "2008-11-29T21:04:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![black\_rabbit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f19dbf/32.png) [@black\_rabbit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/black_rabbit)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 11:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/21 "2008-11-29T23:26:39Z")
> [@Sleeps\_With\_Butterflies](#): > > It’s especially true if they’re precocious. You know, the whole Juno effect. Hey, and at least one of the guys doesn’t have to worry about knocking anybody up. It’s a win/win/win. ---
**Author:** ![Agonist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/439d5e/32.png) [@Agonist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Agonist)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 12:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/22 "2008-11-30T00:45:45Z")
I’ll speak up as another woman who has enjoyed DP - at least with one man and a dildo. In fact, that is the quickest way to an orgasm for me. Or used to be. I’ve been through a long dry spell, the last few years.☹ ---
**Author:** ![MC\_E](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c77e96/32.png) [@MC\_E](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MC_E)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 2:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/23 "2008-11-30T02:44:12Z")
Wow, I don’t care how much my wife begged, I don’t think I could take the chance of rubbing nutsacks with another dude. ---
**Author:** ![Litoris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/9f8e36/32.png) [@Litoris](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Litoris)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 2:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/24 "2008-11-30T02:51:29Z")
> [@Alice\_The\_Goon](#): > > Oh hell no. I’ve never even heard of it being something that women commonly want. > > You must hang out with some sick bitches. This is why you won’t get many women admitting to enjoying sex – when they do, they’re called “sick bitches.” Meanwhile, a man fantasising about 2 women at once is normal. Funny that. ---
**Author:** ![Alice\_The\_Goon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Alice\_The\_Goon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alice_The_Goon)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 2:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/25 "2008-11-30T02:58:50Z")
> [@Litoris](#): > > This is why you won’t get many women admitting to enjoying sex – when they do, they’re called “sick bitches.” Meanwhile, a man fantasising about 2 women at once is normal. Funny that. Yeah, I knew the lack of the “just kidding” smiley during editing would come back to bite me in the ass. Sorry to offend- I didn’t realize you had such delicate sensibilities. ---
**Author:** ![QuercusMax](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/8baadc/32.png) [@QuercusMax](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuercusMax)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 3:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/26 "2008-11-30T03:08:34Z")
When I opened this thread, the first thing I thought of when reading “DP’ed” was “Donkey Punched”. And I couldn’t figure out _how_ that could be so good for the woman. ---
**Author:** ![Moirai](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/96bed5/32.png) [@Moirai](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Moirai)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 3:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/27 "2008-11-30T03:49:25Z")
No frigging way. Not ever. I don’t even really like a finger in my ass, let alone a dick, especially while I am… um, otherwise “occupied…” 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 4:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/28 "2008-11-30T04:25:48Z")
Well, jeez! After _those_ reactions, who the heck’s gonna admit that they’d like to try it!! ---
**Author:** ![shallora](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f9ae1b/32.png) [@shallora](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shallora)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 4:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/29 "2008-11-30T04:38:45Z")
:dubious: ---
**Author:** ![The\_Weird\_One](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7bcc69/32.png) [@The\_Weird\_One](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Weird_One)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 4:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/30 "2008-11-30T04:46:38Z")
> [@Green\_Bean](#): > > Well, jeez! After _those_ reactions, who the heck’s gonna admit that they’d like to try it!! Me! I like having my boyfriend in one hole and a vibrator or butt plug in the other. And I have fantasies of having, umm, “a gentleman on either end,” as **RedWood** put it. Double penetration in the sense of having two guys in the same hole doesn’t do anything for me, though. ---
**Author:** ![GingerOfTheNorth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/cdc98d/32.png) [@GingerOfTheNorth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GingerOfTheNorth)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 5:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/31 "2008-11-30T05:00:15Z")
> [@Green\_Bean](#): > > Well, jeez! After _those_ reactions, who the heck’s gonna admit that they’d like to try it!! Not you, clearly. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 5:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/32 "2008-11-30T05:23:02Z")
This wouldn’t have anything to do with twins now would it? 😛 Actually, I’d never even thought to fantasize about this, so I guess that makes it a definite “no” for me. However, now that it’s been brought to my attention? Yup, still not something I’d necessarily be up for trying out given the chance. ---
**Author:** ![Moirai](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/96bed5/32.png) [@Moirai](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Moirai)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 6:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/33 "2008-11-30T06:13:36Z")
I’ve seen it done in porn, and it looks… _uncomfortable_. And a bit awkward- I’ve seen yoga masters who weren’t that limber. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Oslo\_Ostragoth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/a9a28c/32.png) [@Oslo\_Ostragoth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Oslo_Ostragoth)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 6:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/34 "2008-11-30T06:46:58Z")
> [@EJsGirl](#): > > I’ve seen it done in porn, and it looks… _uncomfortable_. And a bit awkward- I’ve seen yoga masters who weren’t that limber. 😉 [Deadwood]Limber-dicked cocksuckers![/Deadwood] Sorry. It had to be said, and maybe I’ll be the first. ---
**Author:** ![don\_t\_ask](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e68b1a/32.png) [@don\_t\_ask](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/don_t_ask)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 6:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/35 "2008-11-30T06:59:16Z")
According to [askmen.com](http://askmen.com) it is number 5 on the list of top ten Female Sex Fantasies. They say: Threesome with two men This top 10 female sex fantasy involves the woman being worshipped and adored by two gorgeous men. These men are typically heterosexual and, therefore, only interested in the woman – which translates into a whole lot of action for her. Her sex fantasy might be as innocent as being penetrated by one man while performing oral sex on the other or it might go further, drawing on more hardcore aspects such as double penetration and the like. This female sex fantasy is the ultimate taboo for many women, which makes it all the more fun to imagine. As a guy I prefer the sound of some of the others. ---
**Author:** ![Maastricht](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a88e57/32.png) [@Maastricht](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maastricht)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 7:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/36 "2008-11-30T07:05:46Z")
> [@Green\_Bean](#): > > Well, jeez! After _those_ reactions, who the heck’s gonna admit that they’d like to try it!! Well… :: fumbles:: I never tried it, but as fantasy fodder, yeah. ---
**Author:** ![Mesquite-oh](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a183cd/32.png) [@Mesquite-oh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mesquite-oh)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 7:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/37 "2008-11-30T07:23:43Z")
> [@shallora](#): > > I think this entire subject is a fantasy only in Freejooky’s mind :dubious: Threads that start with “Ladies” are usually, umm, interesting. ---
**Author:** ![Cyberhwk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7993a0/32.png) [@Cyberhwk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cyberhwk)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 7:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/38 "2008-11-30T07:54:18Z")
Roommate’s GF in college admitted to me one night she was into it. Had never actually done it with two guys before though. Lest you think I missed an opportunity, he was paranoid enough about our friendship without even going there. ---
**Author:** ![DirkGntly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d9b06d/32.png) [@DirkGntly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DirkGntly)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 3:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/39 "2008-11-30T15:07:40Z")
The educational portion of today’s program is brought to you by DirkGntly… It’s not UNcommon, but it’s not particularly common, either, from my experiences. Let me clarify: You have to identify which groups of women you are talking about. For a woman who is disinterested or finds anal sex painful, anal/vaginal DP is not going to be a fantasy component for her at all in most circumstances. Where the numbers start to go up dramatically (and VERY dramatically) is in swingers’ circles, where the women are typically VERY uninhibited, love anal sex, or both. I can speak authoritatively because I was part of the “swinger lifestyle” for the better part of 5 years sometime back. Also, speaking as a strictly hetero male…if you’re in a MFM threesome, and things are hot and heavy, and the gal indicates that she wants a DP, even a very hetero male will usually go for it. How detailed do we want to get here? There is lots of info about “rules of engagement” and such that I can shed light on, but that feels like a highjack… ---
**Author:** ![billfish678](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7bcc69/32.png) [@billfish678](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/billfish678)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2008, 3:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974/40 "2008-11-30T15:29:11Z")
> [@MC\_E](#): > > Wow, I don’t care how much my wife begged, I don’t think I could take the chance of rubbing nutsacks with another dude. Ziplock bags, rubber bands, duct tape, or even zip ties if you wanna go all 21st century…or patches of burlap to recreate that wild west feel… they all have uses other than advertised! sorry…couldnt help myself 🙂 btw…burlap chaffs [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-is-getting-dped-the-ultimate-really/474974.md?page=3)