# Ladies: Would you pay for sex? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [August 13, 2001, 2:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980 "2001-08-13T02:25:48Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Anniz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/cc9497/32.png) [@Anniz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anniz)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2001, 8:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/41 "2001-08-15T20:46:06Z")
Nope, never. ---
**Author:** ![toshirodragon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e68b1a/32.png) [@toshirodragon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/toshirodragon)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2001, 9:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/42 "2001-08-15T21:05:23Z")
YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES !!! Gimme that address I’ll be right there! Hey I love my husband but I also love 15 DIFFERENT flavors of ice cream… so why not different varieties of male. Thats a lot of bites… My biggest fear has always been the “Mr. Goodbar” syndrome. I figure it would be just MY luck I’d pick the psycho killer and them oh well… so if it was a safe, clean enviroment then yeah I would in a heartbeat. Oh yeah, I have yet to meet a man who wouldnt be flattered to have women by the hoards want to have sex with him. ---
**Author:** ![Cosmopolitan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/94ad74/32.png) [@Cosmopolitan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cosmopolitan)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2001, 3:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/43 "2001-08-16T03:52:41Z")
It’s interesting…I wouldn’t pay for a male prostitute (or a female one, at that), but I _would_ have raunchy sex with someone whom I had met earlier that night…I know, it’s not safe, etc., but in a perfect world… That way, it wouldn’t be about the money for him (or THEM)🙂 I guess I can also think this way because I’m very sexually open, discussing with my ex-boyfriends what I wanted in bed. Also, I’ve been fortunate enough to have had exes who indulged my freaky-ass whims. Incidentally, the man with whom I end my dry spell is going to be _exhausted_. Any takers? 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Medea\_s\_Child](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8baadc/32.png) [@Medea\_s\_Child](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Medea_s_Child)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2001, 4:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/44 "2001-08-16T04:19:53Z")
I’ll just take the open, honet and wonderful SO who I can be open honest and intimate with, but will still play when the occassion calls for it. “Honey, why do you have hand cuffs in this box under the bed?” _pounce_ ---
**Author:** ![GuanoLad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guanolad/32/42_2.png) [@GuanoLad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuanoLad)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2001, 5:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/45 "2001-08-16T05:03:57Z")
See, the problem is, if women want to have sex with a new guy with no emotional attachment whatsoever, she just has to walk up to him and ask. Guy’s don’t normally have it that easy. So they have to resort to paying for it. Not that I have ever paid for it - I’m with a lot of the women here in that I want the emotional link and the true passion of someone who likes me. **GuanoLad relentlessly continues his passive pursuit of Cyndar…** ---
**Author:** ![GingerOfTheNorth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/cdc98d/32.png) [@GingerOfTheNorth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GingerOfTheNorth)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2001, 5:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/46 "2001-08-16T05:22:12Z")
**GuanoLad** , please explain that. I have heard that from _so_ many men, and I just don’t think it holds true. Some men may be horndogs, but not all. And this walking up and saying ‘hey wanna do me’ just isn’t gonna work. Maybe I’ll try it. I wouldn’t ever follow through with that sort of a thing, but I will try it next time I’m in a situation where it’s fitting. And before anyone says anything, no, I am _not_ a tease. ---
**Author:** ![iampunha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/74df32/32.png) [@iampunha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iampunha)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2001, 5:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/47 "2001-08-16T05:53:05Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by GuanoLad \* > See, the problem is, if women want to have sex with a new guy with no emotional attachment whatsoever, she just has to walk up to him and ask. Negative. In my case, anyway. I could never do that. ---
**Author:** ![GuanoLad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guanolad/32/42_2.png) [@GuanoLad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuanoLad)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2001, 6:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/48 "2001-08-16T06:24:43Z")
Well, okay, it was a generalisation. There will always be guys who’ll say ‘no’, for any number of reasons, and it won’t work for all women. But in my experience, women have it much easier in that department than guys. If I show an interest in a woman, they run away screaming. But if a woman shows any interest in me, I say “woohoo” and act on it. 🙂 I say this, it having only happened in my favour once. Maybe you shouldn’t listen to me, I’m not a good sample 😉 ---
**Author:** ![tiny\_ham](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a183cd/32.png) [@tiny\_ham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tiny_ham)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2001, 2:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/49 "2001-08-16T14:26:10Z")
Guano, the point of ME paying for sex anyway, would be that I’d be getting a guy who knew what the hell he was doing. Not that you don’t, mind you. But in college I once went home with a guy who was not only a bad kisser, but bad at everything else. It was a waste of my time. This is why I’d like to have sex with a rock star. I mean, they’ve GOT to know what they’re doing. And if I’m going to plan this to be the wild, stranger fantasy fuck of my life, it better damn well be with a guy who knows what he’s doing. Bad sex is like a mealy apple. jarbaby ---
**Author:** ![handy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b5a626/32.png) [@handy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/handy)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2001, 2:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/50 "2001-08-16T14:43:06Z")
I charge for sex. The charge is usually dinner & a paper from the doctor saying they don’t have STD’s. Thing is, if you are serviced by a professional, he services a lot of other women & who knows what STD’s he may have. ---
**Author:** ![tiny\_ham](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a183cd/32.png) [@tiny\_ham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tiny_ham)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2001, 2:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/51 "2001-08-16T14:47:56Z")
Right handy, because I’d do it without any protection or verification of that first :rolleyes: jarbaby ---
**Author:** ![toshirodragon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e68b1a/32.png) [@toshirodragon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/toshirodragon)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2001, 5:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/52 "2001-08-16T17:03:28Z")
Handy, it always helps to read the first thread. This is conditioned on the guarantee of safe and disease free like the Mustang Ranch in Nevada. I have had sex with several guys that promised to rock my world and left me thinking “Hell my vibrator would have been more fun!” So sex with a professional sounds great! I’d even tip him per orgasm! ---
**Author:** ![erislover](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/71e660/32.png) [@erislover](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/erislover)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2001, 2:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/53 "2001-08-18T02:21:21Z")
In, er, 10th grade or maybe 11th I was offered $40 for sex with a girl who I would otherwise not have sex with. I took it. We had sex. So, there’s at least a market of one out there! 😛 RE: 1 night stands-- I thought I would never do such a thing either, until someone offered. Now I shut up about it 😃 Fun! No obligations is, well, sometimes kinda nice. ---
**Author:** ![handy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b5a626/32.png) [@handy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/handy)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2001, 2:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/54 "2001-08-18T14:28:14Z")
“This is conditioned on the guarantee of safe and disease free like the Mustang Ranch in Nevada.” There isn’t any such thing. Sure, you can test for things but a lot of viruses don’t show up in tests for a few weeks but you can still get 'em. Perhaps a full body condom? ---
**Author:** ![ruadh](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/d2c977/32.png) [@ruadh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ruadh)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2001, 2:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/55 "2001-08-18T14:38:09Z")
handy, go away. Personally? I wouldn’t rule the possibility out. I hope I never get desperate enough to really consider it, though. ---
**Author:** ![Turbo\_Dog](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ce73a5/32.png) [@Turbo\_Dog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Turbo_Dog)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2001, 2:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/56 "2001-08-18T14:59:15Z")
I will gladly accept money for sex. In fact, I am currently holding a special offer for First Time Buyers. One dollar down delivers with a balance of One to Five dollars, depending on selected options, payable in 12 easy monthly installments. Not sold in stores! This offer available in limited areas and not valid with any other coupons. ---
**Author:** ![Una\_Persson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/una_persson/32/346_2.png) [@Una\_Persson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Una_Persson)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2001, 3:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/57 "2001-08-18T15:18:25Z")
Even in my lowest, most lonely and needing moments I never really thought of it. I don’t know why, execept that I just didn’t, and haven’t. It turns out that I’m pretty good - OK, pretty damn good - at sex - something I never knew before - and I wouldn’t mind a career of giving other women mind-scrambling orgasms every day. Safe, clean, and no chance of disease or pregnancy…hmm…tell you what. I’ll just refine my arts with **Fierra** for another 40 years, to make sure I’m doing it all right and don’t miss anything, and get back to you… ---
**Author:** ![Tequila\_Mockingbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/41988e/32.png) [@Tequila\_Mockingbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tequila_Mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2001, 3:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/58 "2001-08-18T15:50:38Z")
Never have, and right now, probably not. But that’s not to say that I ever wouldn’t. There just might be someone very exceptional that I have got to have that I could possibly fork over some dough for if required. But right now it’s still more fun to pick em up for free, or just pay TD 5 bucks to put on the chaps, pirate hat and eyepatch 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Spider\_Woman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/cdc98d/32.png) [@Spider\_Woman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spider_Woman)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2001, 3:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/59 "2001-08-18T15:53:54Z")
Not a chance. ---
**Author:** ![drachillix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/48db29/32.png) [@drachillix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drachillix)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2001, 5:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980/60 "2001-08-18T17:25:04Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by MissBHaven \* > \*\*How much do you charge? > > [sub] **I can’t believe nobody said that!** [/sub] \*\* [Channeling Deuce Bigalow] I’ve been getting $10 [/Channeling Deuce Bigalow] [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980.md?page=2) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ladies-would-you-pay-for-sex/75980.md?page=4)