# Legal status of polygamy in the US - justification on other than moral grounds?

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**Created:** [July 29, 2014, 8:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/legal-status-of-polygamy-in-the-us-justification-on-other-than-moral-grounds/694354 "2014-07-29T20:07:59Z")\
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**Post date:** [August 1, 2014, 3:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/legal-status-of-polygamy-in-the-us-justification-on-other-than-moral-grounds/694354/61 "2014-08-01T15:50:01Z")

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Polyandry exists, but is very rare; mostly found in the Himalaya, apparently.

> **[Polyandry](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyandry)**
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> Polyandry (/ˈpɒliˌændri, ˌpɒliˈæn-/; from Ancient Greek πολύ (polú) 'many', and ἀνήρ (anḗr) 'man') is a form of polygamy in which a woman takes two or more husbands at the same time. Polyandry is contrasted with polygyny, involving one male and two or more females. If a marriage involves a plural number of "husbands and wives" participants of each gender, then it can be called polygamy, group or conjoint marriage. In its broadest use, polyandry refers to sexual relations with multiple mal Of th...

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**Post date:** [August 1, 2014, 4:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/legal-status-of-polygamy-in-the-us-justification-on-other-than-moral-grounds/694354/62 "2014-08-01T16:03:13Z")

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That’s fascinating, and quite disturbing at the same time! I couldn’t imagine being married to the same woman as my brother! Makes more sense I guess for the women to have multiple husbands rather than the other way around though

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> [@bldysabba](#):
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> Where is the necessity of ensuring every man has a partner? If some women would rather be a rich man’s third wife than a poor man’s only, why should there be institutional barriers to their choice?

A guess: brain drain of educated men (women) who can’t find wives (husbands) if polygyny (polyandry) becomes widespread?

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**Post date:** [August 1, 2014, 4:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/legal-status-of-polygamy-in-the-us-justification-on-other-than-moral-grounds/694354/64 "2014-08-01T16:58:25Z")

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> [@thelurkinghorror](#):
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> A guess: brain drain of educated men (women) who can’t find wives (husbands) if polygyny (polyandry) becomes widespread?

If they’re educated, they’re more likely to be in the plus-spouse group than the minus-spouse group.

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2014, 11:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/legal-status-of-polygamy-in-the-us-justification-on-other-than-moral-grounds/694354/65 "2014-08-03T23:28:19Z")

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> [@Bryan\_Ekers](#):
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> I’ve suggested it before; don’t adapt marriage law to polygamy - adapt partnership law. The frameworks for adding and subtracting partners are already in place.

There’s now nothing to stop a bunch of like-minded people from entering into a “conjugal partnership”; business partnerships didn’t need special legislation to make them happen; the mechanisms for adding and substracting partners are set out not in legislation but in the partnership agreement, and I don’t see why a conjugal partnership couldn’t work the same way now.

The point of marriage law is not so much that it regulates relationships between the two spouses but that it regulates relationships between the spouses together and wider society. Existing partnership law has nothing to say about paternity, about inheritance, about next of kin rights, all areas that marriage law has a great deal to say about. I’m not saying that there is nothing in partnership law that couldn’t usefully be adapted to a polygamy law, but I suspect a fully-worked-out polygamy code would look a lot more like a family code with borrowings from partnership law than the other way around.

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**Post date:** [August 3, 2014, 11:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/legal-status-of-polygamy-in-the-us-justification-on-other-than-moral-grounds/694354/66 "2014-08-03T23:39:18Z")

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> [@thelurkinghorror](#):
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> Yeah a bit GD.
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> It’s illegal in most places except significantly Muslim countries, and even illegal/severely limited in some of those.
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> Tax code is not set up to accept it, and it’s not as simple as adding a new status.  
> Inequal (especially if polygamy is assumed = polygyny). Also, the very rich would benefit most as poorer people can’t support multiple wives.?

This true only to the extent that we still assume that women have aneed to be supported by men. I am aware of 3 different multimarriages, in reality only, not legally, where the group is together for the purpose of pooling their social security checks to live above the poverty line.

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**Post date:** [August 4, 2014, 12:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/legal-status-of-polygamy-in-the-us-justification-on-other-than-moral-grounds/694354/67 "2014-08-04T00:50:11Z")

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> [@DingoelGringo](#):
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> This true only to the extent that we still assume that women have aneed to be supported by men. I am aware of 3 different multimarriages, in reality only, not legally, where the group is together for the purpose of pooling their social security checks to live above the poverty line.

. . . and, depending on the local law and the particular circumstances, such a group might not _want_ to be married, legally speaking, since if they were their social secure payments might be reduced.

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