# Life would really suck for gay male couples in Star Trek

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**Created:** [April 22, 2015, 7:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/life-would-really-suck-for-gay-male-couples-in-star-trek/718309 "2015-04-22T19:38:48Z")\
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**Author:** ![The\_Tooth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/c67d28/32.png) [@The\_Tooth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Tooth)\
**Post date:** [April 23, 2015, 1:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/life-would-really-suck-for-gay-male-couples-in-star-trek/718309/21 "2015-04-23T01:04:09Z")

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A bit of a tangent, but I don’t see why Data wouldn’t be willing to switch sides. He’s not actually a male, he’s just male-shaped. The episode where Tasha nails him would have been more interesting if, afterward, Data had propositioned some random ship’s male to see what that’s like.

I would assume not every random Starfleet person we see walking around the Enterprise is straight. And what happens on Holodeck 3 stays on Holodeck 3.

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**Author:** ![Trinopus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2bfe46/32.png) [@Trinopus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Trinopus)\
**Post date:** [April 23, 2015, 3:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/life-would-really-suck-for-gay-male-couples-in-star-trek/718309/22 "2015-04-23T03:22:56Z")

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> [@Uosdwis\_R.Dewoh](#):
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> Not because they would be oppressed in any way or at least I assume so as we never actually see gay people in any of the shows. The future of Star Trek is so perfect that people really don’t have the problems we have now. . . . .
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> All this means is that Gay male couples will have almost no chances to adopt children. I don’t think artificial wombs have ever been mentioned in any of the shows . . .

Why wouldn’t there be surrogacy? As noted in the thread, lesbian couples could always find a sperm donor. Surely there would be a strong professional need for surrogate mothers, for exactly the same reason.

The medical advances of the era would make this much easier than it is in our world…and the legal/social advances that make the ST world so utopic would long since have eliminated any societal hurdles.

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**Author:** ![Roderick\_Femm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/roderick_femm/32/14875_2.png) [@Roderick\_Femm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Roderick_Femm)\
**Post date:** [April 23, 2015, 4:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/life-would-really-suck-for-gay-male-couples-in-star-trek/718309/23 "2015-04-23T04:30:38Z")

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> [@billfish678](#):
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> Its worse than that.
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> The replicators can not duplicate Village People costumes due to copyrights being extended to 1000 plus years and a legal issue regarding said copyright.
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> Also, don’t even think about trying to get a legal download of “Its Raining Men”.
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> You can dress like Tom Seleck and listen to some Bette Middler but that’s about it.

Nice assembly of lame tired stereotypes. Thanks. :dubious:

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**Author:** ![Washoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/ecae2f/32.png) [@Washoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Washoe)\
**Post date:** [April 23, 2015, 4:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/life-would-really-suck-for-gay-male-couples-in-star-trek/718309/24 "2015-04-23T04:34:07Z")

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> [@Drunky\_Smurf](#):
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> Also people still die in Star Trek and a lot of people probably had kids so there would still be orphans.

How many Quatloos or bars of gold-pressed latinum would you have to pay a gay couple to take that annoying Crusher kid?

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**Author:** ![Greg\_Charles](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/839c29/32.png) [@Greg\_Charles](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Greg_Charles)\
**Post date:** [April 23, 2015, 6:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/life-would-really-suck-for-gay-male-couples-in-star-trek/718309/25 "2015-04-23T06:23:12Z")

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If we assume there are gay couples that have never been mentioned, then why would we assume there weren’t artificial wombs just because _those_ have never been mentioned? Besides, if you need an orphan, just find a kid you like and send his parents some red shirts.

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**Author:** ![Tibby](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tibby/32/17030_2.png) [@Tibby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tibby)\
**Post date:** [April 23, 2015, 6:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/life-would-really-suck-for-gay-male-couples-in-star-trek/718309/26 "2015-04-23T06:38:47Z")

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Not so bad if they can get their hands on the Captains log.

Sorry, **billfish678** whispered that to me…:dubious:

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**Author:** ![Gothic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/839c29/32.png) [@Gothic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gothic)\
**Post date:** [April 23, 2015, 12:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/life-would-really-suck-for-gay-male-couples-in-star-trek/718309/27 "2015-04-23T12:08:48Z")

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> [@Drunky\_Smurf](#):
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> Also people still die in Star Trek and a lot of people probably had kids so there would still be orphans.
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> Picards brother falls off his tractor wrong, he dead, then the tractor runs over his wife, she dead, now Picards nephew is orphaned.
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> Also all those star ships getting exploded by the enemy of the week so someone’s gotta raise all those orphan kids.

I never understood why they killed off Picard’s brother and nephew in Generations to a house fire.

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**Author:** ![stpauler](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9d8465/32.png) [@stpauler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/stpauler)\
**Post date:** [April 23, 2015, 12:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/life-would-really-suck-for-gay-male-couples-in-star-trek/718309/28 "2015-04-23T12:23:08Z")

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Step one: Gay couple befriends a red shirt couple…

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**Author:** ![Ethilrist](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ethilrist/32/4604_2.png) [@Ethilrist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ethilrist)\
**Post date:** [April 23, 2015, 12:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/life-would-really-suck-for-gay-male-couples-in-star-trek/718309/29 "2015-04-23T12:38:10Z")

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Considering how many times the Federation fleet was wiped out by the Borg et al., I’d say there’s a pretty steady supply of orphaned children out there.

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