Lightning fell really close to me today - anybody else had lightning striking too close for comfort?

Because it’s a fun fact, not because I’m trying to be pedantic: the lightning actually rose 10-15m away from you, not fell. A typical lightning strike is initiated by a flow of negative charge down from the cloud. As it approaches the ground (50-100 m), a positive streamer reaches up and meets the downward ladder, at which point a return stroke goes from ground to sky. This return stroke is what you see.