# Lines You Live By

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [April 26, 2005, 2:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113 "2005-04-26T02:02:41Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Tracy\_Lord](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@Tracy\_Lord](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tracy_Lord)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 3:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/101 "2005-04-28T03:01:51Z")

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> [@wolf\_meister](#):
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> **Ol’Gaffer** \*  
> “Wherever you go, there you are.” \*
> 
> Buckaroo Banzai ???
> 
> Wow I thought it might have been Bertrand Russell or Jean Paul Sartre. 😃

I’m _fairly_ certain that it started its life as a Buddhist proverb. _Fairly_ certain.

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**Author:** ![Rick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/9f8e36/32.png) [@Rick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rick)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 3:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/102 "2005-04-28T03:59:52Z")

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Ladies and gentlemen, I present my sig

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**Author:** ![NotWithoutRage](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/22d042/32.png) [@NotWithoutRage](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NotWithoutRage)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 4:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/103 "2005-04-28T04:41:28Z")

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“I really believe that to love, and be loved, is the most important fulfillment for human beings.” - my mentor and friend.

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**Author:** ![Dinaroozie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Dinaroozie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dinaroozie)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 4:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/104 "2005-04-28T04:55:59Z")

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Hrm… I’m not sure if this would quite fit what the thread requested, but this seems strangely appropriate. It was determined by a panel of judges to be the most effective possible pickup line (in Japan, at least):

“In a year’s time, let’s be laughing together.”

Incidentally, this thread has made me very happy - particularly the one from Erasmus about buying books.

~ Isaac

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**Author:** ![Low\_Key\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ed655f/32.png) [@Low\_Key\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Low_Key_1)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 7:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/105 "2005-04-28T07:25:25Z")

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“Everything is easy.”

A friend and I came up with this as a line to live by a few years back. Works well for me. I like yours as well **Rick**.

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**Author:** ![MerryMagdalen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@MerryMagdalen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MerryMagdalen)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 10:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/106 "2005-04-28T10:35:06Z")

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“Hate is just Love with its back turned.” - Terry Pratchett

“Life is pain, Your Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.”  
“Who says life is fair? Where is that written?”  
(Both from The Princess Bride)

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**Author:** ![Re\_PT](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/a698b9/32.png) [@Re\_PT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Re_PT)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 2:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/107 "2005-04-28T14:51:25Z")

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Films can be rented, time with friends can’t\* - Me

PT  
[sub]\*unless you’re friendly with certain types of profession[/sub]

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**Author:** ![Morgyn](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/morgyn/32/3041_2.png) [@Morgyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgyn)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 3:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/108 "2005-04-28T15:38:01Z")

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> [@Mr. Excellent](#):
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> > [@Morgyn](#):
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> > When I get a little money I buy books and if any is left I buy food and  
> > clothes. - Erasmus
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> Wow - this really, genuinely describes my financial habits perfectly. That’s a bad thing, isn’t it. 🙂

Well, I don’t think so. But it describes my personal financial habits, too, so I may be a bit biased.

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**Author:** ![Miss\_Kaye](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/977dab/32.png) [@Miss\_Kaye](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miss_Kaye)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 7:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/109 "2005-04-28T19:37:25Z")

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The only difference between being in a rut and being in a grave is depth.

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**Author:** ![Miss\_Kaye](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/977dab/32.png) [@Miss\_Kaye](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miss_Kaye)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 7:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/110 "2005-04-28T19:39:16Z")

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Oh, and I’m new here… so hello all 🙂 Perhaps I should have introduced myself before just jumping in?

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**Author:** ![Stranger\_On\_A\_Train](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/13edae/32.png) [@Stranger\_On\_A\_Train](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stranger_On_A_Train)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 7:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/111 "2005-04-28T19:53:16Z")

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> [@Miss Kaye](#):
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> Oh, and I’m new here… so hello all 🙂 Perhaps I should have introduced myself before just jumping in?

Naw, just burst into the saloon with both guns blazing until you’ve run both wheels dry.

And welcome, by the way. Nice quote.

Stranger

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**Author:** ![bouv](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bc8723/32.png) [@bouv](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bouv)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 8:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/112 "2005-04-28T20:44:11Z")

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Just thought of another one:

“You know, I used to think it was awful that life was so unfair. Then I thought, wouldn’t it be much worse if life were fair, and all the terrible things that happen to us come because we actually deserve them? So, now I take great comfort in the general hostility and unfairness of the universe.”  
-Marcus COle, _babylon 5_

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**Author:** ![Mint\_Julep](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/bc79bd/32.png) [@Mint\_Julep](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mint_Julep)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 9:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/113 "2005-04-28T21:23:05Z")

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“Every rose has it’s thorn…”  
-Poison

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**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 9:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/114 "2005-04-28T21:38:47Z")

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You can’t have everything. Where would you put it?

- Steven Wright

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**Author:** ![tygerbryght](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a9a28c/32.png) [@tygerbryght](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tygerbryght)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 9:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/115 "2005-04-28T21:48:12Z")

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> [@Morgyn](#):
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> > [@Mr. Excellent](#):
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> > > [@Morgyn](#):
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> > > When I get a little money I buy books and if any is left I buy food and  
> > > clothes. - Erasmus
> > 
> > Wow - this really, genuinely describes my financial habits perfectly. That’s a bad thing, isn’t it.
> 
> Well, I don’t think so. But it describes my personal financial habits, too, so I may be a bit biased.

It’s the default sig in my email program, and I’m afraid it’s all too true. The #1 alternate I use is:

“Too many books? There is no such thing as too many books, but too few bookshelves can be a problem.”  
Mary Loomer Oliver

I also sometimes use:

“I would be most content if my children grew up to be the kind of people who think decorating consists mostly of building enough bookshelves.”  
Anna Quindlen

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**Author:** ![kevja](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/aeb1de/32.png) [@kevja](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kevja)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 10:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/116 "2005-04-28T22:46:50Z")

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You must be the change you wish to see in the world.

-Mahatma Gandhi.

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**Author:** ![Triskadecamus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b19c9b/32.png) [@Triskadecamus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Triskadecamus)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 11:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/117 "2005-04-28T23:10:13Z")

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“And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.” ~ 1 Corinthians 13:13 ~

Thanks, kefja for including my other favorite guide to living.

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**Author:** ![Triskadecamus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b19c9b/32.png) [@Triskadecamus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Triskadecamus)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2005, 11:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/118 "2005-04-28T23:12:57Z")

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Life is to complicated for one liners.

So:

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage.” ~ Lao-Tzu ~

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**Author:** ![TimeWinder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bcef8e/32.png) [@TimeWinder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TimeWinder)\
**Post date:** [April 29, 2005, 12:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/119 "2005-04-29T00:26:21Z")

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“Any problem that can be solved by spending money isn’t a problem, it’s an expense. Spend it and get on with your life.” - paraphrased from Harvey Mackay.

He meant it as business advice, but it’s generally served me well. Substitute “time,” “effort,” or “temporary discomfort” for “money” where appropriate.

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**Author:** ![TimeWinder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bcef8e/32.png) [@TimeWinder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TimeWinder)\
**Post date:** [April 29, 2005, 12:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/lines-you-live-by/301113/120 "2005-04-29T00:30:23Z")

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> [@Lakai](#):
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> No amount of belief would make something a fact.
> 
> – No idea who.

A more modern variation: “The number of people who believe something does not affect it’s truth or falsehood.” And I still don’t know who, Google doesn’t match the exact quote.

This is actually one I wish others would live by, which sounds like a good idea for a separate thread.

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