# Looking for a movie

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-a-movie/737297>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [November 11, 2015, 4:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-a-movie/737297 "2015-11-11T16:28:43Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 5\
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**Author:** ![silvermist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/cc9497/32.png) [@silvermist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silvermist)\
**Post date:** [November 11, 2015, 4:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-a-movie/737297/1 "2015-11-11T16:28:43Z")

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I’m trying to find a movie about a man who was terribly abused as a child and later married a submissive woman and had a daughter, who had always adored him until she got interested in boys. When the girl became an adolescent, he wouldn’t allow her to date and she got mad and called him a bastard and he shot her.

I can’t remember the stars or the name of the movie. I thought it was Tony Danza but can’t find it on IMDB.

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**Author:** ![The\_Other\_Waldo\_Pepper](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/the_other_waldo_pepper/32/12370_2.png) [@The\_Other\_Waldo\_Pepper](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Other_Waldo_Pepper)\
**Post date:** [November 11, 2015, 4:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-a-movie/737297/2 "2015-11-11T16:52:17Z")

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> [@silvermist](#):
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> I’m trying to find a movie about a man who was terribly abused as a child and later married a submissive woman and had a daughter, who had always adored him until she got interested in boys. When the girl became an adolescent, he wouldn’t allow her to date and she got mad and called him a bastard and he shot her.
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> I can’t remember the stars or the name of the movie. I thought it was Tony Danza but can’t find it on IMDB.

Might be SHE’S OUT OF CONTROL.

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**Author:** ![silvermist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/cc9497/32.png) [@silvermist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silvermist)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2015, 8:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-a-movie/737297/3 "2015-11-15T20:53:16Z")

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Found it! Deadly Whispers 1995 starred Tony Danza and Pamela Reed. Very good story about a real life situation with a person who had multiple personalities.

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**Author:** ![Rhiannon8404](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rhiannon8404/32/17929_2.png) [@Rhiannon8404](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rhiannon8404)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2015, 9:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-a-movie/737297/4 "2015-11-15T21:40:17Z")

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> [@silvermist](#):
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> Found it! Deadly Whispers 1995 starred Tony Danza and Pamela Reed. Very good story about a real life situation with a person who had multiple personalities.

Oh, I remember that movie. Was it made for TV? They filmed it in El Dorado, CA. I remember when they were filming the grass cutting scenes at a place not far from where I grew up.

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**Author:** ![silvermist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/cc9497/32.png) [@silvermist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silvermist)\
**Post date:** [November 16, 2015, 4:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-a-movie/737297/5 "2015-11-16T16:21:47Z")

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I saw it on tv a few years ago. Very interesting subject.