# Looking for songs/music about depression & suicide.

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**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [December 10, 2015, 5:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049 "2015-12-10T05:34:39Z")\
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**Author:** ![Sputnikkk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Sputnikkk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sputnikkk)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2015, 11:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049/61 "2015-12-13T23:51:57Z")

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This is a song about depression. It is sung from the cats point of view So sad, so sweet, and so funny— can’t resist posting the lyrics.

The Weakerthans - Plea From A Cat Named Virtute \*(this is the cat singing to his owner to try to snap him out of his depression)\*

Why don’t you ever want to play?  
I’m tired of this piece of string  
You sleep as much as I do now  
And you don’t eat much of anything  
I don’t know who you’re talking to  
I made a search through every room  
But all I found was dust that moved  
In shadows of the afternoon

And listen, about those bitter songs you sing?  
They’re not helping anything  
They won’t make you strong

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**Author:** ![black\_rainbow](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/d26b3c/32.png) [@black\_rainbow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/black_rainbow)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2015, 11:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049/62 "2015-12-13T23:52:53Z")

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Today - smashing pumpkins

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**Author:** ![Idle\_Thoughts](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/838e76/32.png) [@Idle\_Thoughts](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Idle_Thoughts)\
**Post date:** [December 14, 2015, 6:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049/63 "2015-12-14T18:35:28Z")

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> [@Sputnikkk](#):
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> Otherside—Red Hot Chile Peppers
> 
> How long, how long will I slide?  
> Separate my side  
> I don’t, I don’t believe it’s bad  
> Slittin’ my throat, it’s all I ever
> 
> I heard your voice through a photograph  
> I thought it up, it brought up the past  
> Once you know you can never go back  
> I’ve got to take it on the otherside

Don’t quote entire song lyrics on here, please.

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**Author:** ![Scarecrow\_s\_Brain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecae2f/32.png) [@Scarecrow\_s\_Brain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scarecrow_s_Brain)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2015, 9:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049/64 "2015-12-15T21:02:57Z")

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“I Think I’m Going To Kill Myself” – Elton John. If you’re not sure you want to tap dance or kill yourself, maybe you can do both!

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/GkbhYmPH-58/hqdefault.jpg "Elton John - I Think I'm Going to Kill Myself (1972)") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GkbhYmPH-58)

sb

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**Author:** ![mbh](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a6a055/32.png) [@mbh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mbh)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2015, 9:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049/65 "2015-12-15T21:37:12Z")

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“Man of Constant Sorrow”. This version by Union Station.

  
“Paint It Black”, by the Rolling Stones.  

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/O4irXQhgMqg/maxresdefault.jpg "The Rolling Stones - Paint It, Black (Official Lyric Video)") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O4irXQhgMqg)

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**Author:** ![Banksiaman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/banksiaman/32/3334_2.png) [@Banksiaman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Banksiaman)\
**Post date:** [December 18, 2015, 9:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049/66 "2015-12-18T09:48:24Z")

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Roland S Howard - [Shivers](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e1ASWiDhYxg)

Better-known Nick Cave - Boy Next door [version](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQPQr1MCrKE)

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**Author:** ![Washoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/ecae2f/32.png) [@Washoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Washoe)\
**Post date:** [December 18, 2015, 8:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049/67 "2015-12-18T20:30:56Z")

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The Replacements—_The Ledge_. The FM stations refused to play it because of its subject matter.

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**Author:** ![control-z](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/eada6e/32.png) [@control-z](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/control-z)\
**Post date:** [December 18, 2015, 9:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049/68 "2015-12-18T21:00:35Z")

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[Nine Inch Nails - Hurt](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kPz21cDK7dg)

[Nine Inch Nails - Something I Can Never Have](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UEW8riKU_tE)

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**Author:** ![Cognoscant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/bbe5ce/32.png) [@Cognoscant](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cognoscant)\
**Post date:** [December 18, 2015, 10:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049/69 "2015-12-18T22:08:13Z")

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> [@Sputnikkk](#):
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> This is a song about depression. It is sung from the cats point of view So sad, so sweet, and so funny— can’t resist posting the lyrics.
> 
> The Weakerthans - Plea From A Cat Named Virtute \*(this is the cat singing to his owner to try to snap him out of his depression)\*
> 
> Why don’t you ever want to play?  
> I’m tired of this piece of string  
> You sleep as much as I do now  
> And you don’t eat much of anything  
> I don’t know who you’re talking to  
> I made a search through every room  
> But all I found was dust that moved  
> In shadows of the afternoon
> 
> And listen, about those bitter songs you sing?  
> They’re not helping anything  
> They won’t make you strong

One of my favorite bands. Unfortunately The Weakerthans broke up this year.

They wrote another song about Virttute. If you own a cat, have ever owned a cat, or know what a cat is do not listen to “Virtute Explains Her Disappearance,” unless you like sobbing uncontrollably. That’s not a song about depression, that’s a depressing song.

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**Author:** ![dinahmoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8797f3/32.png) [@dinahmoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dinahmoe)\
**Post date:** [December 19, 2015, 4:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049/70 "2015-12-19T04:49:44Z")

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[Amplifier](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IKEqGcES4Xw)by the dBs

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**Author:** ![NineToTheSky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b5a626/32.png) [@NineToTheSky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NineToTheSky)\
**Post date:** [December 19, 2015, 1:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049/71 "2015-12-19T13:36:20Z")

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There’s also the rather wonderful, and aptly named, [Suicide? by Barclay James Harvest](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ow61yHdTzt0), which may, or may not, be about suicide.

_I stepped out on the guard rail, saw the crowds slowly part  
Heard a voice shouting “Don’t jump, please for God’s sake let me move my car!”  
Felt a hand on my shoulder, heard a voice cry “Just in time!”  
Felt the quick push, felt the air rush  
Felt the sidewalk, fell in line_

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**Author:** ![EinsteinsHund](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/einsteinshund/32/8400_2.png) [@EinsteinsHund](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EinsteinsHund)\
**Post date:** [December 19, 2015, 2:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049/72 "2015-12-19T14:25:27Z")

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I was listening to Thelonious Monster’s _Beautiful Mess_ album and was reminded of this thread, so here’s [Body And Soul](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6HMY-24fmA).

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**Author:** ![GrumpyBunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/bc8723/32.png) [@GrumpyBunny](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrumpyBunny)\
**Post date:** [December 19, 2015, 2:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049/73 "2015-12-19T14:27:24Z")

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“Poor Poor Pitiful Me” by Warren Zevon.

> [@](#):
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> Well I lay my head on the railroad tracks  
> Waitin for the double E  
> But railroad don’t run no more  
> Poor poor pitiful me

The guy in the song is a screwup, and the song is strangely funny (as are a lot of Zevon’s songs).

> [@TCMF-2L](#):
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> … I would suggest Alone Again, Or either the original by Love or I rather like the version by UFO.

There’s also a [version](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nYVDN27CrOo)by the punk/goth band The Damned.

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**Author:** ![NineToTheSky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b5a626/32.png) [@NineToTheSky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NineToTheSky)\
**Post date:** [December 19, 2015, 3:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/looking-for-songs-music-about-depression-suicide/740049/74 "2015-12-19T15:01:10Z")

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If you look at the lyrics for [Alone Again Or](http://www.lyricsfreak.com/l/love/alone+again+or_20085449.html), I can’t see that they have anything to do with suicide.

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