In the lottery example, the winner has already been determined - the OP is now calculating the chance that he was the winner - which is different than calculating if he will be the winner prior to the drawing. Now, if after the drawing had occurred he still knew nothing about the drawing, then the odds of his having won would be the same as the odds that he would win when calculated before the drawing. However, as he continues to gain more and more information, the odds that he won change based on what he knows. For example, when he finds out that “Either you or Bill won” - the odds that he *did win *are now 1 in 2 (assuming they each had 1 ticket).
For your coin example - yes, the odds of all three coming up heads are 1 in 8 before they are tossed. After they have already been tossed, the odds they did land all heads up is 1/8 if we can’t see them. If we can that 1 is heads up, the odds are now 1/4 that all are heads, if we can that 2 are heads up then there is a 50/50 that all 3 are heads up.