To RM and John W:
Guys I think you can’t agree because you are missing a point. The bulge is irrelevant and the rotation as well. John cannot disregard non-rotating moons, because when the Solar system started, pieces of dirt flew around in any way they pleased. The question is exactly how did it happen that they locked, so we have to start from a general situation, not a stable one.
RM makes one mistake when he says that in a non-rotating Moon, all points have the same path, ergo the same “force”. This is a confusion of notions. Force is a thing that exists only in a specific time moment. It does not add over time (when you add force, you are talking energy, and energy has much less information in it then force, which makes it unsuitable for deeper analysis). RM in fact says that all particles of a non-rotating orbiting Moon have the same total energy output/input after one revolution of Moon. This is true. However, their energy balance changes during the rotation, and not in the same way for all of them! At the time when some particles have “energy downs”, others have “energy ups”, which means we are talking certain time points, which means we are talking forces, and that is exactly where things start happening.
Look again at the picture of your non-rotating Moon, at a certain specific time. Consider pieces of the Moon on the extreme ends from the point of view of Earth: the furthermost and closest. Then consider a “cut” of Moon that connects them, sort of a tube. This tube moves around, so as whole it is stable (at least the point at its center). Sit for a moment at its center. The end that is further from the Earth is experiencing pull away from you, in the direction away from the Earth, and the end which is closest to the Earth experiences pull towards the Earth. This therefore tends to position the stick exactly so that it is pointing away (or towards) the Earth. Now imagine how this stick behaves as it moves around in a non-rotating Moon (or a Moon which rotates too slowly/too fast). It does not stay in the “pointing away” position, it rotates with respect to the Earth. For instance, in your non-rotating Moon, after a quarter of orbit, this stick is actually level with the Earth’s surface. This trend goes against the pull of forces, therefore we see that the stick has the tendency to stay in the radial position, in other words, your non-rotating Moon will have a tendency to start rotating. In the same way, a Moon that rotates too fast will have a tendency to slow down. This analysis works for the whole moon, because you can imagine it, at any given time, asa collection of radial (with respect to Earth) sticks and all fo them will have tendency to say locked.
I am aware that this explanation is lacking in some respects (momentum of a rotating mass etc), but I have a feeling that it at the same time illuminates the most crucial point. At least I think it clear up some misunderstanding and you ahve a chance to clear up on some other points as well. Or I am dead wrong, wouldn’t be the first time :-).
Have a nice non-rotating day, pH.