# Male Dopers on stimulation during orgasm (TMI) **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [October 11, 2004, 11:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606 "2004-10-11T11:01:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 19\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Bear\_Nenno](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bear_nenno/32/3358_2.png) [@Bear\_Nenno](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bear_Nenno)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 12:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/21 "2004-10-12T00:33:13Z")
This is called “Follow Through”! And it is very important. I can’t stand when a girl just stops completely at the first hint of an orgasm. Follow through is important ladies. Keep going until he’s finished ejaculating, then slowly wind down. ---
**Author:** ![Keapon\_Laffin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e274bd/32.png) [@Keapon\_Laffin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Keapon_Laffin)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 1:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/22 "2004-10-12T01:04:39Z")
For me, it has to stop one or two seconds after. It gets too sensitive. :o ---
**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 1:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/23 "2004-10-12T01:25:28Z")
> [@Priceguy](#): > > None of you have the problem I describe, that of needing stimulation during orgasm? I’m all on my own on that one? I know what you’re talking about. If the stimulation stops at the beginning of my orgasm, I get a sort of misfire: I ejaculate, and my energy level and arousal drops off like I’d orgasmed normally, but I don’t get any of the pleasurable sensation. It’s all build up and build up and then… nothing. I’m just sweaty and tired, with nothing to show for it. ---
**Author:** ![Sinshine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f04885/32.png) [@Sinshine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sinshine)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 4:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/24 "2004-10-12T04:13:22Z")
> [@Meatros](#): > > Seriously? > > I’ve never asked any females about this, but is this typical? > > I always sort of assumed women didn’t feel that sort of thing, but I have no idea why I would think that. The vaginal walls are capable of transmitting information, just as the skin on the back of your legs or arms might be. One of the reasons why we women are encouraged to do our Kegel exercises is to gain muscle control; another is to increase sensitivity. TMI warning, but the pulsing sensation of a man’s orgasm is generally enough sensation in just the right place to trigger a final orgasm for me. I strongly suspect that I am not alone in this. Hence the popularity of the so-called “G” spot. 😃😃😃 ---
**Author:** ![aruvqan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aruvqan/32/2891_2.png) [@aruvqan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aruvqan)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 4:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/25 "2004-10-12T04:45:16Z")
> [@Meatros](#): > > Seriously? > > I’ve never asked any females about this, but is this typical? > > I always sort of assumed women didn’t feel that sort of thing, but I have no idea why I would think that. Hm, in general yes I can feel mrAru. Another odd one is just before climax it does feel that the penis is getting both larger and harder, _noticably_ larger, though in oral it doesnt feel the same, it will throb for a few minutes after, but just before release it doesnt seem to get bigger, though it does feel harder. [most of the guys I have performed ora; on like to be held gently in the mouth until they are finished, and it is best for them if they can ‘control’ any movements, some prefer geentle movements for a minute or so after release, some prefer just to be held in the mouth, only one guy didnt want to be touched in any way from just before release until the next morning…though i almost tend to think he just liked getting faces or other body parts messy/bukkake as he always pulled out no matter what and refused to use a rubber. ---
**Author:** ![Silver\_Fire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a88e4f/32.png) [@Silver\_Fire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silver_Fire)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 4:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/26 "2004-10-12T04:51:09Z")
> [@Meatros](#): > > Seriously? > > I’ve never asked any females about this, but is this typical? > > I always sort of assumed women didn’t feel that sort of thing, but I have no idea why I would think that. Yes, and me too. It’s… well, I like it. 😃 Question for the boys: Doesn’t overstimulation typically lead to urination? Or was that just one terrible, fortunately isolated incident in my life? :o ---
**Author:** ![Silver\_Fire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a88e4f/32.png) [@Silver\_Fire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silver_Fire)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 4:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/27 "2004-10-12T04:52:23Z")
> [@Silver Fire](#): > > :o Perhaps I should’ve taken more time to consider my smiley useage… :waits 60 seconds: ---
**Author:** ![Keapon\_Laffin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e274bd/32.png) [@Keapon\_Laffin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Keapon_Laffin)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 5:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/28 "2004-10-12T05:31:57Z")
> [@Silver Fire](#): > > Question for the boys: Doesn’t overstimulation typically lead to urination? Or was that just one terrible, fortunately isolated incident in my life? :o Never been over stimulated to that point, but I don’t think so. Usually, if I know I getting some, I’ll take a leak first. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Dunderman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecb155/32.png) [@Dunderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dunderman)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 5:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/29 "2004-10-12T05:32:29Z")
> [@Silver Fire](#): > > Doesn’t overstimulation typically lead to urination? Or was that just one terrible, fortunately isolated incident in my life? :o It’s never happened to me, and I’ve never heard of it before. ---
**Author:** ![Silver\_Fire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a88e4f/32.png) [@Silver\_Fire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silver_Fire)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 5:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/30 "2004-10-12T05:51:53Z")
> [@Keapon Laffin](#): > > Usually, if I know I getting some, I’ll take a leak first. What can I say? I’m spontaneous. Well, this particular guy hadn’t been drinking at the time, nor does (did) he have any serious, or even non-serious, medical conditions to either of our knowledge. Maybe I’ll call him and ask if it’s happened since. Very weird, a more than a little gross, I can tell you that right now. ---
**Author:** ![moggyAU](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a6a055/32.png) [@moggyAU](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/moggyAU)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 7:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/31 "2004-10-12T07:40:13Z")
> [@Priceguy](#): > > None of you have the problem I describe, that of needing stimulation during orgasm? I’m all on my own on that one? Your orgasms last a few minutes??? 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Bear\_Nenno](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bear_nenno/32/3358_2.png) [@Bear\_Nenno](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bear_Nenno)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 10:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/32 "2004-10-12T10:40:44Z")
> [@Silver Fire](#): > > What can I say? I’m spontaneous. > > Well, this particular guy hadn’t been drinking at the time, nor does (did) he have any serious, or even non-serious, medical conditions to either of our knowledge. Maybe I’ll call him and ask if it’s happened since. Very weird, a more than a little gross, I can tell you that right now. This is not unheard of. “Over stimulation” is a misleading term, though. This isn’t overstimulation as in “continuing to touch or stroke after orgasm”, it’s more like “direct rubbing of the glans and only the glans”. And with lots of friction, like with only a dry finger. Not a mouth or something lubed. _That_ kind of overstimulation can force the nerves in the bladder/urethral sphincter (the urinary control valve) to respond and empty the bladder. ---
**Author:** ![Bear\_Nenno](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bear_nenno/32/3358_2.png) [@Bear\_Nenno](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bear_Nenno)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 10:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/33 "2004-10-12T10:42:14Z")
The same effect can also occur in females. ---
**Author:** ![Larry\_Mudd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f14d63/32.png) [@Larry\_Mudd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Larry_Mudd)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 10:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/34 "2004-10-12T10:50:19Z")
> [@Silver Fire](#): > > Question for the boys: Doesn’t overstimulation typically lead to urination? Or was that just one terrible, fortunately isolated incident in my life? :o I’m not sure which gender you have peeing here. One time, a girl’s pillow talk included mention of an article she’d read about how “peeing during the act was the highest compliment a woman could give a man, because it meant she’d totally lost control.” You have no idea how much that casual comment messed with my head afterward. “Oh my god, she’s not gonna…” She didn’t. Who knows…? Maybe it was because the anxiety always threw me off. 😃 And **Priceguy** , I’m with you on the easing up slowly thing. I guess I assumed everyone was that way. ---
**Author:** ![Larry\_Mudd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f14d63/32.png) [@Larry\_Mudd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Larry_Mudd)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 10:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/35 "2004-10-12T10:51:39Z")
Huh? Missed some posts there. Must be time to sleep. Sorry. ---
**Author:** ![irishgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8edcca/32.png) [@irishgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/irishgirl)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 3:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/36 "2004-10-12T15:49:00Z")
Feeling irishfella come is often what makes me come too. Not just “tip me over the edge”, I’m talking more of a “dragging me kicking and screaming up the mountian and then throwing me over”. It doesn’t feel anywhere near as intense when condoms are involved, which is why they haven’t been a part of our sex life for a long time (but we’re being safe and responsible in other ways, so don’t worry). I keep playing until I’m told to stop. No complaints, but he’s often not up to talking for several minutes, which probably means I’m doing it ok. ---
**Author:** ![Mockingbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c68b51/32.png) [@Mockingbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 4:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/37 "2004-10-12T16:01:41Z")
> [@Silver Fire](#): > > Yes, and me too. It’s… well, I like it. 😃 > > Question for the boys: Doesn’t overstimulation typically lead to urination? Or was that just one terrible, fortunately isolated incident in my life? :o From my experience, I’d say that was an isolated incident. ---
**Author:** ![smartini](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/22d042/32.png) [@smartini](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/smartini)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2004, 7:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/38 "2004-10-12T19:05:33Z")
> [@Larry Mudd](#): > > I’m not sure which gender you have peeing here. > > One time, a girl’s pillow talk included mention of an article she’d read about how “peeing during the act was the highest compliment a woman could give a man, because it meant she’d totally lost control.” You have no idea how much that casual comment messed with my head afterward. “Oh my god, she’s not gonna…” She didn’t. Who knows…? Maybe it was because the anxiety always threw me off. 😃 > > And **Priceguy** , I’m with you on the easing up slowly thing. I guess I assumed everyone was that way. She may have been mistaking peeing with hitting her G-spot which does create a loss of control feeling similar to the need to pee. A lot of women stop there because they misinterpret their body response. So, your friend was half right…it is a compliment of sorts but it is not peeing. Maybe that can decrease your anxiety. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Dunderman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecb155/32.png) [@Dunderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dunderman)\ **Post date:** [October 13, 2004, 11:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606/39 "2004-10-13T11:01:30Z")
Well, it appears that, while I’m not strange in a “tapdances upside down in molasses” way, I am strange in an “often puts jacket on back to front” way. I wonder if there are any studies done on this? [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-dopers-on-stimulation-during-orgasm-tmi/268606.md?page=1)