# Male Names That Might Become Female Soon

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-names-that-might-become-female-soon/512491>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [October 3, 2009, 9:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-names-that-might-become-female-soon/512491 "2009-10-03T21:56:56Z")\
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**Author:** ![Gus\_Gusterson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/85f322/32.png) [@Gus\_Gusterson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gus_Gusterson)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2009, 2:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-names-that-might-become-female-soon/512491/41 "2009-10-05T14:38:16Z")

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I know a girl named Sean. Her sister is named Sidney.

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**Author:** ![NajaNivea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/22d042/32.png) [@NajaNivea](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NajaNivea)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2009, 2:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-names-that-might-become-female-soon/512491/42 "2009-10-05T14:39:18Z")

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Quick Wiki: looks like it’s [historically unisex](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Morgan_(given_name)), maybe making it one of only a very few names that have been used as unisex long-term?

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**Author:** ![Motorgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e36b37/32.png) [@Motorgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Motorgirl)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2009, 4:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-names-that-might-become-female-soon/512491/43 "2009-10-05T16:38:13Z")

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> [@MrDibble](#):
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> I wonder if there’s been a noticeable upswing in numbers post-_Gilmore Girls_?

Maybe.  
[http://www.babynamewizard.com/voyager#prefix=RORY&ms=false&sw=f&exact=false](http://www.babynamewizard.com/voyager#prefix=RORY&ms=false&sw=f&exact=false)

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**Author:** ![Chimera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Chimera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chimera)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2009, 4:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-names-that-might-become-female-soon/512491/44 "2009-10-05T16:56:29Z")

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Sure, but show me a girl named Otto. 😉

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**Author:** ![BlinkingDuck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/eada6e/32.png) [@BlinkingDuck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BlinkingDuck)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2009, 5:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-names-that-might-become-female-soon/512491/45 "2009-10-05T17:04:03Z")

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There are no stable unisex names. Once a name becomes unisex, it is doomed to become female over time. {though I’m sure there are always exceptions…I’m sure there is at least one boy named Sue out there 🙂 }

I don’t know why it is. Parents of baby girls continually encroach on boy names…and when they succeed parents of boys will tend to avoid those names from then on.

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**Author:** ![Susanann](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7ab992/32.png) [@Susanann](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Susanann)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2009, 11:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-names-that-might-become-female-soon/512491/46 "2009-10-05T23:30:41Z")

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> [@Johanna](#):
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> Does it _ever_ go the other way? Why does it go in only one direction?
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No.

It only goes one way…  
…because people think females, or anything “feminine”, is inferior. Thererfore, once a name becomes feminine/inferior, parents cannot give an “inferior” name to a male.

Not only names, but colors too. Pink, purple, most pastels, etc. are now feminine colors.

Riding horses used to be a “male” activity back up until the 1960’s. Today, horseback riding is now mostly a girls sport/activity.

(very similar to : … its ok/great for a girl to be/act/dress a tomboy, but its shameful for a boy to want to act/look feminine )

It may be subconscious, people may deny it, people might not want to admit it… but its there.

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**Author:** ![gurujulp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ba9def/32.png) [@gurujulp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gurujulp)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2009, 11:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-names-that-might-become-female-soon/512491/47 "2009-10-05T23:43:12Z")

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> [@eleanorigby](#):
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> Inspired by this thread:
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> [Names](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=534405)  
> I got to thinking about this last night when I couldn’t sleep. Here are some traditionally male names that I think may become female in the next few years. This is complete speculation and without any scientific basis whatsoever. Feel free to jump in.
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> Sean  
> Dean  
> Toby  
> Owen–it just sounds like it could pink somehow to me.  
> Rory  
> Clark  
> Justin (perhaps spelled Justyn)  
> Can anyone think of some others?  
> I meant to add in the other thread that I know a young female Madison, Devon, Dylan and Kendall.

I know females named Sean, Rory and Toby. I also have a cousin named Madison.

I live in a place with a plethora of odd names, and I am not sure what would or would not make the list. I am pretty sure I know some odd form of Justine like Justyn or something, but that was a long time ago.

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**Author:** ![CAT\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9dc877/32.png) [@CAT\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CAT_1)\
**Post date:** [October 6, 2009, 6:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-names-that-might-become-female-soon/512491/48 "2009-10-06T18:59:48Z")

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We know a girl named Aidan who is my son’s age(5).  
We also know half a dozen boys with that name as well.

I have heard of girls named Sean for years.  
Most were spelled Shawn, or Shaun, but some were spelled Sean.

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**Author:** ![Apollyon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/apollyon/32/4238_2.png) [@Apollyon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Apollyon)\
**Post date:** [October 7, 2009, 1:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-names-that-might-become-female-soon/512491/49 "2009-10-07T01:53:38Z")

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> [@BlinkingDuck](#):
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> Parents of baby girls continually encroach on boy names…and when they succeed parents of boys will tend to avoid those names from then on.

> [@Susanann](#):
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> …because people think females, or anything “feminine”, is inferior. Thererfore, once a name becomes feminine/inferior, parents cannot give an “inferior” name to a male.

Following the same logic then:

_People think males, or anything “masculine” is superior. Therefore a masculine name is superior, and parents of a girl will select unisex or somewhat masculine names for their child in an attempt to elevate her status._

No idea if it’s the true reason or not, but following from **Susanann** ’s assertion…

> [@](#):
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> Not only names, but colors too. Pink, purple, most pastels, etc. are now feminine colors.

Pink I’ll give you (formerly masculine as a shade of red), but Purple was claimed / taken / used by the suffragette movement, and may well have feminine associations because of that.

To the OP: Jody doesn’t surprise me was a name that’s gone feminine, and neither does Stacey. Toby seems a little odd (to me), but given the similarity of form – the “y” ending – it might have only been a matter of time.

Mary, Sally, Judy, Kathy, Jody, Stacey, Toby, Harry… 🙂

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**Post date:** [October 7, 2009, 12:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-names-that-might-become-female-soon/512491/50 "2009-10-07T12:45:01Z")

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> [@anu-la1979](#):
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> Elliot

Dr. Elliot Reed  
I knew a female Brian once (though it was spelled Briann, and not pronounced Bree-anne).

I had a customer bring in her baby the other day. The baby was named “Bradley” so I thought it was a boy. It’s not. It’s a girl named Bradley… and I’m an embarrassed bank teller.

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**Author:** ![amanset](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/8dc957/32.png) [@amanset](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/amanset)\
**Post date:** [October 7, 2009, 5:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/male-names-that-might-become-female-soon/512491/51 "2009-10-07T17:15:30Z")

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Is this just an American thing?

As a Brit so many of these just sound utterly wrong to me.

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