# Males: Faked an orgasm? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [July 22, 2002, 2:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219 "2002-07-22T14:02:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 18\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![The\_Mermaid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a183cd/32.png) [@The\_Mermaid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Mermaid)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2002, 1:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/41 "2002-07-24T01:52:07Z")
Oh Yeah? you didn’t smile when you said that. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![EasyPhil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/e47c2d/32.png) [@EasyPhil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EasyPhil)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2002, 7:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/42 "2002-07-24T07:07:21Z")
I’ve never faked one but have gotten plenty of grief for not having one, as a matter of fact the woman was a bit obsessed about the fact that I didn’t have one during oral sex or during intercourse. Needless, the relationship ended, which is a shame because the sex was quite good. ---
**Author:** ![Babar714](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/779978/32.png) [@Babar714](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Babar714)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2002, 7:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/43 "2002-07-24T07:25:57Z")
Sure, at parties. It’s a crowd killer. ---
**Author:** ![Seven](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Seven](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Seven)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2002, 7:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/44 "2002-07-24T07:33:57Z")
I have. But only the 2nd or third round of the night. Plus, if I’ve already released the army of Mini-me’s earlier, it’s easy to hide the faked part. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Walloon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/fbc32d/32.png) [@Walloon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Walloon)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2002, 8:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/45 "2002-07-24T08:05:25Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by blowero \* > \*\*I didn’t figure anyone is gonna be curious enough to go digging through the trash looking for evidence. \*\* Unfortunately, that happened to me. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![blowero](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/41988e/32.png) [@blowero](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/blowero)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2002, 9:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/46 "2002-07-24T09:29:51Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by The Mermaid \* > \*\* > > I was just quoting the man directly. His words, not mine. > > 😃 \*\* I hate to ask this of the mods, but if you’re not going to allow me to respond to The Mermaid’s insulting posts, could you at least get her to stop posting personal attacks? Her intent is obviously to try to insult me under the guise of “I’m just repeating what YOU said”, and, frankly, is rather childish. I understand your policy of discouraging rude and insulting posts, but it’s a little annoying when it’s only applied to me. Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![blowero](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/41988e/32.png) [@blowero](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/blowero)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2002, 9:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/47 "2002-07-24T09:38:54Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Walloon \* > \*\* > \*Originally posted by blowero > I didn’t figure anyone is gonna be curious enough to go digging through the trash looking for evidence. \* > Unfortunately, that happened to me. ☹ \*\* Yikes! So what did she say after finding the empty condom? ---
**Author:** ![Purd\_Werfect](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e47c2d/32.png) [@Purd\_Werfect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Purd_Werfect)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2002, 9:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/48 "2002-07-24T09:52:07Z")
Ya know, sometimes you just get tired and want to read a book or watch the Weather Channel or something. So there we were, going at it “doggy style” and my mind started to wander. I wanted to finish but couldn’t get inspired. She wanted me to finish. Finally, having had enough, I yelled “let’s be porn stars!”, pulled out, and spit all over her back. Feel free to use this ruse in your own love life. In a totally unrelated musing, I wonder if my HMO pays for therapy. ---
**Author:** ![tritone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8e7dd6/32.png) [@tritone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tritone)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2002, 10:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/49 "2002-07-24T10:51:43Z")
ROTFLMAO, **Purd Wurfect**. If a guy ever does this to me, I’ll know what to think 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Coldfire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a587f6/32.png) [@Coldfire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Coldfire)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2002, 12:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/50 "2002-07-24T12:00:49Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by blowero \* > \*\*I hate to ask this of the mods, but if you’re not going to allow me to respond to The Mermaid’s insulting posts, could you at least get her to stop posting personal attacks? Her intent is obviously to try to insult me under the guise of “I’m just repeating what YOU said”, and, frankly, is rather childish. I understand your policy of discouraging rude and insulting posts, but it’s a little annoying when it’s only applied to me. Thanks. \*\* I think you’re _both_ being childish. And I **know** you’re _both_ going to drop it now. ---
**Author:** ![The\_Mermaid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a183cd/32.png) [@The\_Mermaid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Mermaid)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2002, 12:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/51 "2002-07-25T00:24:50Z")
**Chekmate** I do apologize for the rather rude hijacking of your thread. I am sorry. It is an interesting and unusual topic that I don’t recall has been specifically addressed until now. People always think it’s the women who are faking it. I’m relieved to hear it is a universal phenomenon. ---
**Author:** ![Rilchiam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2bfe46/32.png) [@Rilchiam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rilchiam)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2002, 7:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/52 "2002-07-25T07:45:42Z")
Mr. Rilch says, “E equals MC squared, and a man cannot fake an orgasm.” ---
**Author:** ![Critical1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/3e96dc/32.png) [@Critical1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Critical1)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2002, 4:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/53 "2002-07-25T16:31:47Z")
I faked a few with my 14yr younger gf, I mean give me a break here she would have been to much when I was 18, nevermind 34. although I dont even get how your (female) partner could finnish early. The whole reason the 20yr old stuck around was for the ludicrous amount of orgasms I was giving her…weird ---
**Author:** ![UrbanChic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/9dc877/32.png) [@UrbanChic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/UrbanChic)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2002, 6:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/54 "2002-07-25T18:04:08Z")
Critical1, I, too, am puzzled by female partners ‘finishing early’. Maybe someone will come and along and explain. I gotta tell you, the first three time I read your post I thought you were saying you had two girlfriends, one that was 14 years old. ---
**Author:** ![Venoma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/c4cdca/32.png) [@Venoma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Venoma)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2002, 6:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/55 "2002-07-25T18:19:45Z")
heh, I had to do a double take on that… my ex told me that after prolonged intercourse he could go numb and be unable to finish. ---
**Author:** ![Pablito](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ed655f/32.png) [@Pablito](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pablito)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2002, 2:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/56 "2002-07-26T02:19:49Z")
I’ve faked quite a few, mostly these were times when I was taking SSRI’s, which can make it almost impossible to orgasm sometimes. I think it’s about as easy for men to fake as it is for women. I haven’t noticed any of my partners checking for ejaculate quantity or worried about a relative absence of semen. I think that’s more of a gay issue. Sometimes not much comes out, despite a powerful orgasm, so it’s not a dead giveaway. ---
**Author:** ![Badtz\_Maru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e36b37/32.png) [@Badtz\_Maru](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Badtz_Maru)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2002, 2:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/57 "2002-07-26T02:20:54Z")
My first time, actually. I was nervous (understandably) and intoxicated. A couple of hours in I realized she wasn’t enjoying it anymore and neither was I, so I just stopped. I didn’t do any fake grunts or anything, but I’m a quiet fuck anyway. ---
**Author:** ![Pink\_Pussycat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b4bc9f/32.png) [@Pink\_Pussycat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pink_Pussycat)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2002, 3:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219/58 "2002-07-26T03:39:26Z")
Oh, this is most distressing - I’m going to have to get my ex on the phone! Ok, at least I know the BJ times were safe…calm down… –pinks [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/males-faked-an-orgasm/120219.md?page=2)