# Man arrested in connection with ignoring "bag checker" at Circuit City **URL:** \ **Category:** Great Debates\ **Created:** [September 3, 2007, 12:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863 "2007-09-03T00:50:07Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 31
**Author:** ![Saint\_Cad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/saint_cad/32/18907_2.png) [@Saint\_Cad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Saint_Cad)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 12:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/601 "2007-09-12T00:30:50Z")
[QUOTE=cosmosdan] I can understand all the folks who simply disagree with the point being made, but I can’t quite fathom it when you insist someone is making a point that they clearly tell you they’re not making. It makes me wonder what you point is, or if you even have one. [/QUOTE] Because (upon rereading the entire thread), he never explicitly states his reason for the asshole label except for [QUOTE=Post #251] What the fuck is the big deal about having a bag checked at the door. [/QUOTE] BUT SAINTCAD! THAT’S HIS FIRST POST. MAYBE HE GIVES HIS REASONS IN A LATER POST. #261 - No #265 - No eplanation. Just . . . > [@](#): > > Just open the fucking bag, douchebag. Sure there’s no law saying you have to, but if you don’t and want to call the cops, go ahead. And if you choose to do so you win the title of Douchebag. Earned by your own actions. #268 - Here we go. Bag checks work towards reducing shoplifting > [@](#): > > Well, what is a store supposed to do? Allow people to leave who don’t wish to comply? Hmm, what do you think actual shoplifters would then, do? Comply? The simple check at the door, which grates on me sometimes because I just put the receipt in my wallet and now have my hands full, makes the shopping experience more pleasant for all of us. The alternative is to have MASSIVE surveillance so near all attempts to shoplift are caught on film and viewed before you leave the store. Either that or just have have the whole store operate on the honor system: BUT DOES NOT DOING A FAVOR FOR A NAMELESS CORPORATION MAKE ME RUDE? LET ALONE AN ASSHOLE? According to Magellan? Yes. IS THIS OPTIONAL? Sure - as long as you don’t want shop at the store. [QUOTE=Post #272] How about this: if you want to leave without us offending you so horribly and peeking into your precious bag, go back to the register, return everything and then skip out the door as free and unencumbered as when you entered. [/QUOTE] So let’s continue with this theory that there is a social (but not legal) obligation to help a store reduce shoplifting - even at the cost of person freedom. He was asked to what degree the search should occur. More specifically, items in the pocket. [QUOTE=Post #289] Hmmm. Well, what if we had a hypothetical “bag” of sorts. And in it would be only those things that we just purchased from the store we are about to exit. Would it be okay to check the items in this hypothetical bag and not, say, the cell phone in your pocket (which is not in a box and has all your info on it), or your underwear or your tampon? Come to think of it, I propose we use this hypothetical method. I further propose that we call this hypothetical “bag” a “shopping bag”. [/QUOTE] Apparently the bag is fair game but the pocket is not. I think everyone agrees that searching a customer’s pockets is not reasonable, but whereas I (and others) maintain the position that searching ANY personal property without cause is unreasonable, Magellan maintains the (apparently) contradictory position that searching the bag is OK and should be mandatory (see above). DOESN’T MAGELLAN BELIEVE THAT PREVENTING SHOPLIFTING IS A COMPLELLING CORPORATE INTEREST IN JUSTIFYING BAG SEARCHES? Yes (post #290). I asked him why searching a bag is reasonable whereas a purse or pocket is not - even given the likelihood of stolen items being there and not the bag. His reply? [QUOTE=Post #524] 1. becuase [sic] it is clean, the normal course of events is that you pay for your stuff and they put it in one of their bags. 2. there is nothing persoanl in the bag they just gave you that might be embarrassing or be considered an invasion into your personal life. 3. as other posters in the industry have already posted, it is a common way stuff is stolen: cashier rings up some stuff but not all, places all in bag and co-worker or friend leave with more stuff than they paid for. 4. it is the minorest of inconveniences. I don’t thiink it’s ever taken more than 20 seconds. Most times about five. [/QUOTE] But this was in reply to my post #524 where I ask > [@](#): > > Lastly, suppose I bought a porn video (Beach Blanket Bango part 3 since parts 1 and 2 were so riveting) and used the self-checkout aisle. The checker at the door is a student of mine. Does that change anything about whether or not I should let him check my bag? Why or why not? Magellan’s reply? [QUOTE=Post #525] No. He is functioning in the capacity as a security person, not your student. You can always choose to go elsewhere or try to laugh your way through it. Your choice. [/QUOTE] So apparently I should trust that high-school students can separate their responsibility to maintain the secrecy of the search form their desire to spead information that humiliates/embarrasses a teacher. BUT WAIT SAINTCAD! Isn’t Magellan’s point #2 specific in that the contents of your bag are not embarrassing or personal? Yes. Then isn’t it contradictory that having embarrassing and/or personal items does not change the social obligation to have your bag checked? Yes. SAINTCAD, DOESN’T POINT #3 ALSO ALLOW FOR SEARCHES OF PURSES/POCKETS SINCE THEY ARE COMMON WAYS TO SHOPLIFT? Yes. WHAT ABOUT #3 ALLOWING A CAVITY SEARCH? Stick a TV in your butt and I’ll let you have it. ANY OTHER CONTRADICTIONS? In response to Here is what Mr Righi claims: “Sir, I need to examine your receipt.” Michael Righi responded by continuing to walk past him while saying, “No thank you.” “No Thank you” is a polite response to a rude and unnecessary request. Magellan responds with: [QUOTE=Post #317] Most of your post goes to whether they did the wise thing from a corporate standpoint. That’s another discussion entirely. The only thiing I can see here that I disagree with is the characterization of of the request as “rude an unnecessary”. While we can quible over the latter, the former doesn’t come near my definition of rude. [/QUOTE] SO ASKING TO SEARCH PRIVATE PROPERTY WITH THE WORD “NEED” IS NOT RUDE AND UNECCESARY BUT SAYING “NO, THANK YOU” MAKES YOU AN ASSHOLE? Congratulations. You now see the truth. ---
**Author:** ![Magiver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/4491bb/32.png) [@Magiver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Magiver)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 12:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/602 "2007-09-12T00:32:39Z")
[QUOTE=cosmosdan] Of course it’s up to\*\* magellan01\*\* but I can’t see why he should explain this post to you, . [/QUOTE] Because it’s a debate site. But when asked repeatedly to explain why a store’s wishes are superior to a customer’s wishes (thus making the customer an asshole for refusing) both you and magellan01 have gone to great effort to REPEATEDLY post that the question was answered. I’ve read through this thread twice. I don’t see where that question was answered. I’ve made an attempt to answer questions posed to me and will continue to do so. I didn’t call anyone lazy or stupid. I’ve gone to great effort to build a case that the customer’s wishes/policy are equal to the business’s wishes/policy. All the customer did was make a purchase. He was polite when he turned down the request. He was met by 2 employees who prevented him from leaving. The entire incident was driven by the store manager’s inability to understand right from wrong. He was the one being rude. He was the one who illegally detained a customer. He allowed his employee to do the same thing. ---
**Author:** ![Saint\_Cad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/saint_cad/32/18907_2.png) [@Saint\_Cad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Saint_Cad)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 1:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/603 "2007-09-12T01:12:51Z")
Completely new tack I agree that freedom of expression is an important personal liberty. But . . . I also have a compelling interest to keep my emotions as positive as possible. So Magellan, I need to have you agree with everything I’ve said in this thread. This will be a minor in convienence to you. I mean, typing “Saint Cad, everything you’ve said is correct” will take less than 20 seconds (5 seconds if you’re a fast typist). I know that this is voluntary, but think about it. If I allow you to refuse, then only people who agree with me would say that I was correct and people who disagree with me would not comply. What would be the point then of having the policy of having everyone agree with me if only SOME people did it? But what’s in it for you? Well, if I have a positive attitude, then it is possible (but not guarantied) that I will give you positive comments in the future. And I hate to bring this up, but it is rude for you to have disagreed with me originally and by doing so, you have created a confrontation. All you have to do is give in to my demand and agree with my now and this confrontation will be over. I would also remind you that your refusal to agree with me is upsetting the others in this thread like Magiver and Compuntual. I certainly hope that you do not make a federal case oout of this and get the Straight Dope mods involved to get me to stop badgering you to _slightly_ give up your rights. Of course for the reasons I’ve given, if you do not agree with everything I say, you and Mr. Righi will be tied for Asshole of the Year (wait 'til you see the trophy). ---
**Author:** ![Iknewit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/4491bb/32.png) [@Iknewit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Iknewit)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 1:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/604 "2007-09-12T01:40:18Z")
That has got to be the best logic I’ve seen applied here yet. Come on **magellan01** , just agree so everything works smoothly. No need to make a fuss over such a tiny thing. ---
**Author:** ![Magiver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/4491bb/32.png) [@Magiver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Magiver)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 1:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/605 "2007-09-12T01:46:20Z")
Besides the fact that a store’s wishes do not supplant a customer’s I would reiterate a point I made earlier. This is not an equal relationship. Stores exist to serve customers, customers do not exist to shop at stores. It is not a 50/50 relationship. There is a glut of retail stores in most product categories. Because of this stores must spend money to attract customers. In this respect, customers are more valuable to the stores than the stores are to the customer. Chasing down a paying customer and illegally detaining him is financial suicide. It puts a store in the position of having to pay a greater price for advertisement to overcome the fallout of negative press (which costs nothing). ---
**Author:** ![magellan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@magellan01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/magellan01)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 2:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/606 "2007-09-12T02:47:39Z")
[QUOTE=SaintCad] Because (upon rereading the entire thread), he never explicitly states his reason for the asshole label except for… [/QUOTE] I’ll tell you what, if you agree to pay me $1,000.00 I will provide you with cites where it my reasoning has been explained beyond, as you claim, Post 251. I’ll even go further and cite where I stated my reasoning, and additionally, more nuanced reasoning as to what would have been an appropriate way someone could fight against this “intrusion” and not be labeled an asshole. So, that’s the deal: $1,000. It only seem right that I get paid to point things out to you that you can’t see for yourself. Now, if you can see them are just posting stuff to stir shit up, that’s another story entirely. Either way, $1,000 can satisfy whatever itch you have. [QUOTE=SaintCad] So apparently I should trust that high-school students can separate their responsibility to maintain the secrecy of the search form their desire to spead information that humiliates/embarrasses a teacher. [/QUOTE] I just wanted to point out that when another poster pointed out that you would have the same problem buying your porn with your high school student manning the register, but, of course, you ignored such a problem and never responded. ---
**Author:** ![magellan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@magellan01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/magellan01)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 2:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/607 "2007-09-12T02:58:24Z")
[QUOTE=Iknewit] That has got to be the best logic I’ve seen applied here yet. Come on **magellan01** , just agree so everything works smoothly. No need to make a fuss over such a tiny thing. [/QUOTE] Well, you’ll forgive if I don’t take that as instructive. There are at least two problems that make the analogy offered Illogical. One is that Righi did not have to aver that he agreed with the policy. He could have just complied with it silently. He could have then refused to shop there again, written letters, protested out front, etc. A direct analogy here would be to request of me a silent acquiesence. The other more obvious one is that it is not alleged the Righi was ever singled out for special consideration: he was treated like every other customer. By making the request of me, and only me, the anaolgy falls on its face. Now, we can open the anaolgy to have everyone on SDMB state agreement with every other poster. But I think even you might be able to see how that might not work so well for a debate forum. So, you might want to look to people other than\*\* SaintCad\*\* for model examples of logic. Just a thought. ---
**Author:** ![Iknewit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/4491bb/32.png) [@Iknewit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Iknewit)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 3:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/608 "2007-09-12T03:07:55Z")
[QUOTE=magellan01] Well, you’ll forgive if I don’t take that as instructive. There are at least two problems that make the analogy offered Illogical. One is that Righi did not have to aver that he agreed with the policy. He could have just complied with it silently. He could have then refused to shop there again, written letters, protested out front, etc. A direct analogy here would be to request of me a silent acquiesence. The other more obvious one is that it is not alleged the Righi was ever singled out for special consideration: he was treated like every other customer. By making the request of me, and only me, the anaolgy falls on its face. Now, we can open the anaolgy to have everyone on SDMB state agreement with every other poster. But I think even you might be able to see how that might not work so well for a debate forum. So, you might want to look to people other than\*\* SaintCad\*\* for model examples of logic. Just a thought. [/QUOTE] Noted. ---
**Author:** ![Saint\_Cad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/saint_cad/32/18907_2.png) [@Saint\_Cad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Saint_Cad)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 4:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/609 "2007-09-12T04:40:46Z")
[QUOTE=magellan01] Well, you’ll forgive if I don’t take that as instructive. There are at least two problems that make the analogy offered Illogical. One is that Righi did not have to aver that he agreed with the policy. He could have just complied with it silently. He could have then refused to shop there again, written letters, protested out front, etc. A direct analogy here would be to request of me a silent acquiesence. [/QUOTE] Ummm . . . he didn’t agree with the policy and acted accordingly. If he had agreed with the policy, he would have complied. Secondly, I’m not asking you for you to AGREE with my policy, simply follow it and then go ahead and refuse to post in this thread again. Here, I’ll even write it for you with a protest: Although I do not agree with Saint Cad’s policy requiring this statement, everything he says in this thread is true. [QUOTE=magellan01] The other more obvious one is that it is not alleged the Righi was ever singled out for special consideration: he was treated like every other customer. By making the request of me, and only me, the anaolgy falls on its face. Now, we can open the anaolgy to have everyone on SDMB state agreement with every other poster. But I think even you might be able to see how that might not work so well for a debate forum. [/QUOTE] I am applying this policy to everyone in this thread. It just so happens that you are one of the few disagreeing so I am bringing it to your attention - just as Circuit City brought it to the attention of one of the few customers not complying with their policy. [QUOTE=magellan01] So, you might want to look to people other than\*\* SaintCad\*\* for model examples of logic. Just a thought. [/QUOTE] Two undergrad classes in symbolic logic One graduate class in mathematical logic So clearly I have no clue about logical examples. The problem is that NO analogy will ever satisfy you because it can never be made exactly as the original scenerio. ---
**Author:** ![magellan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@magellan01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/magellan01)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 6:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/610 "2007-09-12T06:13:37Z")
[QUOTE=SaintCad] I am applying this policy to everyone in this thread. It just so happens that you are one of the few disagreeing so I am bringing it to your attention - just as Circuit City brought it to the attention of one of the few customers not complying with their policy. [/QUOTE] Well, consider this yet another course in logic that you can then ignore in life: 1)In the Righi situation, he was the only one non-compliant. But he was not the only one they asked a particular behavior of. They treated everyone the same. There’s no litmus test. Here, you are offering a litmus test, i.e., disagreeing (with you), I assume. 2)You compound you’re mistake by acknowledging that there are others, “the few”, who so disagree, but you ask something of me and me alone. That is inconsistent with what the store did. There has been no charge that Righi was singled out for any reason. If I missed it, show it and we can revisit this item. 3)And for the icing on the cake, do you not see that what you ask of me is an extraordinary request, while what was asked of Righi was incidental? For me to comply with your request would undermine the very reason I participate on a debate board—that is to offer my opinion and hear others. Righi was at the store not to specifically make a point about his rights under the law, but to buy a game. He could have easily accomplished his principle objective and shrugged off something so incidental as a peek into his bag. As millions of people do every day. I’m not saying he was required to do so, only that the hurdle presented to him does not go to the heart of his actions, as your request of me does. [QUOTE=SaintCad] Two undergrad classes in symbolic logic One graduate class in mathematical logic So clearly I have no clue about logical examples. [/QUOTE] I don’t know how the first two statements lead to the third, but at least we’re finally in agreement. [QUOTE=SaintCad] The problem is that NO analogy will ever satisfy you because it can never be made exactly as the original scenerio. [/QUOTE] Actually, I’m rather fond of analogies. Apt ones can be illuminating. Inapt ones are worse than useless. Hopefully, you see now that the analogy you offered is riddled with problems. I don’t think we particularly _need_ analogies in this case, but if you would like to go down that road you simply must do better. But I won’t waste much more of my time. At this point I don’t know what you want. I have about sixty posts in this thread. You cited some, but ignored others that explain both my position and my rationale for it. I checked, it’s there. In more than one place. At this point it seems agreeing to disagree makes the most sense. ---
**Author:** ![Saint\_Cad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/saint_cad/32/18907_2.png) [@Saint\_Cad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Saint_Cad)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 6:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/611 "2007-09-12T06:23:04Z")
[QUOTE=magellan01] 3)And for the icing on the cake, do you not see that what you ask of me is an extraordinary request, while what was asked of Righi was incidental? For me to comply with your request would undermine the very reason I participate on a debate board—that is to offer my opinion and hear others. Righi was at the store not to specifically make a point about his rights under the law, but to buy a game. He could have easily accomplished his principle objective and shrugged off something so incidental as a peek into his bag. As millions of people do every day. I’m not saying he was required to do so, only that the hurdle presented to him does not go to the heart of his actions, as your request of me does. [/QUOTE] All I’m asking you to do is type a sentence. All you’re asking Righi to do is open a bag. Yet what I’m asking you to do is extraordinary while what you’re asking Righi to do is not. Despite how you deny or rationalize it, I have proven my point. ---
**Author:** ![Iknewit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/4491bb/32.png) [@Iknewit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Iknewit)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 6:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/612 "2007-09-12T06:26:30Z")
Come on ! Ask me ! Ask me ! make this fair. ---
**Author:** ![magellan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@magellan01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/magellan01)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 6:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/613 "2007-09-12T06:52:02Z")
[QUOTE=SaintCad] All I’m asking you to do is type a sentence. All you’re asking Righi to do is open a bag. Yet what I’m asking you to do is extraordinary while what you’re asking Righi to do is not. Despite how you deny or rationalize it, I have proven my point. [/QUOTE] You miss the meaning of the word “extraordinary” in this context. Why am I not surprised. And making the analogy more simplistic doesn’t make it any more apt. The fact that you do not realize this is also unsurprising at this point, even though the reasons have been spoon-fed to you. Yes, you have indeed proven something. But it is not the thing you think. ---
**Author:** ![Bearflag70](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/8e7dd6/32.png) [@Bearflag70](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bearflag70)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 8:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/614 "2007-09-12T08:25:33Z")
[QUOTE=magellan01] Yes, you have indeed proven something. But it is not the thing you think. [/QUOTE] Zing! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Bearflag70](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/8e7dd6/32.png) [@Bearflag70](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bearflag70)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 8:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/615 "2007-09-12T08:31:25Z")
[QUOTE=magellan01] Yes, I think he was unlawfully detained. If 8 big biker type dudes surround you but don’t touch you, you are being “held” against your will. BUt let’s not miss the forest for the trees here. I went back and read the OP’s link and don’t think anyone should miss certain information in the asshole’s—oops, sorry, the ASSHOLE’S—own account of the incident: (bolding mine) So, the asshole, knew there’d probably be a problem, as he seems to have researched this and was “very careful with his words” and knew the law. Yet he chose THAT DAY, a day with his family, his little sister’s birthday, with his three younger siblngs and dad in the car heading back to a birthday party to take his big, brave, stance against THE MAN. I take back what I said about this guy wearing an asshole T-shirt, or having it tatooed on. It should be CHISLED into his forehead. He wishes his little brother and sisters didn’t have to watch the whole mess? WOW, only if there possibly been some way for them to not have to have been exposed to that. Well I guess, NOTHING would have avoided that exposure, The tears, the ruined birthday. Nothing at all. Wait…except, maybe…taking five seconds out of your asshole life and OPENING THE FUCKING BAG! B-b-b-but, he didn’t have to open the bag…the law says…wha, wha, wha… Well, the law of not being an asshole says that if you want to make what you view is a principled stand over some issue the size of a broken paperclip, you do it so YOU are the only one that is inconvenienced. So, sis. Happy birthday! Sorry about ruining your day, but at least you got something to go with your Monkeybread—a monkey’s asshole for a brother. I can only imagine my fathers response when I got home after pulling a stunt like that. Hopefully, the education did take place. [/QUOTE] Is this it? Do I win the $1000? ---
**Author:** ![cosmosdan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a6a055/32.png) [@cosmosdan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cosmosdan)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 1:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/616 "2007-09-12T13:51:45Z")
[QUOTE=Magiver] Because it’s a debate site. But when asked repeatedly to explain why a store’s wishes are superior to a customer’s wishes (thus making the customer an asshole for refusing) both you and magellan01 have gone to great effort to REPEATEDLY post that the question was answered. I’ve read through this thread twice. I don’t see where that question was answered. I’ve made an attempt to answer questions posed to me and will continue to do so. I didn’t call anyone lazy or stupid. [/QUOTE] I agree that name calling is inappropriate as our neighborhood mod has pointed out. I don’t believe either\*\* magellan01\*\* or myself ever maintained that the stores wishes are superior to the customers, so we can’t be expected to explain or justify a position we don’t hold. Correct? That also explains why you’ve read the thread twice and failed to find the answer. The reason I made the above comment was because **catsix** was insisting **maggellan01** had made certain points by picking certain quotes and ignoring the ones that actually spelled out his reasoning. At some point you have to stop explaining yourself to someone who, for whatever reason, simply misses the point. Especially if that poster has misrepresented the point you’re trying to make. I’ve expressed my point starting on page two. > [@](#): > > Most customers are great but sometimes it’s had to take a customer who is blowing some minor issue out of proportion. > That’s what I think this guy was doing. page 4 > [@](#): > > All I’m suggesting is that we at least understand why the stores have these measures in place and instead of staging some bullshit protest to make our point simply communicate with management and home office. If you want to not shop there that’s your choice. If you’d rather show your receipt than drive to a less convenient location then show it and stop making a big issue out of a minor thing. > [@](#): > > I think he made his point when he asked them to cite the law that allowed them to search his bag and they couldn’t. He could have explained his objection to them. He could have shown them the bag at that point, gotten their names and called the home office to lodge a complaint. > [@](#): > > Also, there is no law saying people have to be courteous and considerate of others. It’s just a good idea in most cases. > In this case being considerate would be the customer making his point without going overboard and calling the police out of his self righteous indignation. 5 > [@](#): > > His point may be a valid one but I take exception to the way he chose to make it. > I’ve already said I think the employees were a little overzealous, but a confrontation takes more than one side to escalate. I think MR Assert My Rights was just as guilty of bad choices that escalated the situation. Evidently he refused to show his merchandise until the cop got there. That , IMHO, is just being a self righteous jerk and using 911 to be one. > [@](#): > > you might also note that he was in the car with the door closed and could have just pulled away but he stopped not to be polite, but to fuck with these employees trying to do their job , thinking he had some point to make. > This is also where I think the guy went to far to make his point. Tell the manager there is no law if that’s what you believe, show him your bag anyway to prove you’re not a shoplifter, get his name and inform him that you’ll be writing the district manager and home office to complain about their horrible policy. CC even has a 800 number for customer complaints and they do follow up. It was in choosing to make the next steps, still refuse to cooperate and call the cops to prove you’re right, that this guy went from "customer with a valid complaint, to jackass IMHO. There’s more but that should be enough. Everybody concerned made some bad calls. I’m not asserting that the store employees were correct. They weren’t. I don’t believe he should have been arrested. I’m saying that human interaction requires at least two or more participating parties and Mr. Righi had several solutions available and the fact that he purposely avoided a little human communication in order to be technically correct puts him in the “bit of a dick” camp\* to me\* Some don’t agree and that’s fine but I think both \*\*magellan01 \*\* have explained ourselves adequately. Years ago I was at a convienience store in the wee hours of the morning. Evidently I took too much time deciding what junk food to poison myself with and it made the older woman behind the counter nervous. An officer came up and asked me for ID. “Do I need an ID for shopping for snacks” I asked a little miffed Here’s a situation that could have escalated into something else but the officer was decent enough to explain that my lingering had made the lady nervous. I understood, and apologized showing him my ID and telling him where I lived. I didn’t see any point in making his job, my experience, or the cashiers any worse by being stubborn. The cashier apologized to me and I told her I understood , made my purchase and went home. A little understanding and human consideration by all three people involved had made the situation defuse. Righi could have contributed to that in this situation but chose not too, while his siblings were in the car crying. That doesn’t make the CC employees any less wrong. It just means he shares in the responsibility for how it all went down. > [@](#): > > I’ve gone to great effort to build a case that the customer’s wishes/policy are equal to the business’s wishes/policy. All the customer did was make a purchase. He was polite when he turned down the request. He was met by 2 employees who prevented him from leaving. The entire incident was driven by the store manager’s inability to understand right from wrong. He was the one being rude. He was the one who illegally detained a customer. He allowed his employee to do the same thing. Here’s where we disagree. I agree the manager was wrong. I don’t agree that the entire incident was driven by him. The responsibility in human interaction lies with all the parties involved and in this case I think Righi contributed to the escalation by the manner in which he very purposely chose to respond. ---
**Author:** ![catsix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e19b73/32.png) [@catsix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/catsix)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 4:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/617 "2007-09-12T16:34:22Z")
> [@](#): > > **magellan01** said: > One is that Righi did not have to aver that he agreed with the policy. He could have just complied with it silently. And since the bag-search is entirely voluntary, he can also exercise the valid option to say ‘No, thank you.’ When something is a policy that you must comply with, whether you agree to it or not, that policy is no longer voluntary but compulsory. > [@](#): > > **cosmosdan** said: > All I’m suggesting is that we at least understand why the stores have these measures in place and instead of staging some bullshit protest to make our point simply communicate with management and home office. If you want to not shop there that’s your choice. If you’d rather show your receipt than drive to a less convenient location then show it and stop making a big issue out of a minor thing. You fail to acknowledge that there is a third valid option with respect to a **voluntary** bag search. That option is to say ‘No, thank you’. > [@](#): > > Also, there is no law saying people have to be courteous and considerate of others. Courtesy also dictates that you don’t try to force people t ocomply with a voluntary search. > [@](#): > > Evidently he refused to show his merchandise until the cop got there. Because at no point whatsoever does searching his property ever become a matter of anything but his own choice. > [@](#): > > I don’t agree that the entire incident was driven by him. The only thing that I think Righi should’ve done differently was get in the car and let his father drive away. If he made a mistake, it was thinking he need to open the door and explain anything to the overzealous Circuit City employees who had no authority whatsoever to search or detain him. ---
**Author:** ![E-Sabbath](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/e19adc/32.png) [@E-Sabbath](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/E-Sabbath)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 4:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/618 "2007-09-12T16:47:42Z")
He could not let his father drive away: The manager was in front of the car blocking it. ---
**Author:** ![catsix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e19b73/32.png) [@catsix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/catsix)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 5:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/619 "2007-09-12T17:54:35Z")
My impression was that there was a point prior to the manager standing in front of the car, and prior to him opening the door to the other employee, that the father could’ve driven away, either by going forward or in reverse. ---
**Author:** ![magellan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@magellan01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/magellan01)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2007, 6:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863/620 "2007-09-12T18:06:19Z")
[QUOTE=catsix] My impression was that there was a point prior to the manager standing in front of the car, and prior to him opening the door to the other employee, that the father could’ve driven away, either by going forward or in reverse. [/QUOTE] Correct. [QUOTE=Asshole] As I walked through the double doors I heard Santura yelling for his manager behind me. My father and the family had the Buick pulled up waiting for me outside the doors to Circuit City. I opened the door and got into the back seat while Santura and his manager, whose name I have since learned is Joe Atha, came running up to the vehicle. I closed the door and as my father was just about to pull away the manager, Joe, yelled for us to stop. Of course I knew what this was about, but I played dumb and pretended that I didn’t know what the problem was. I wanted to give Joe the chance to explain what all the fuss was for. I reopened the door to talk with Joe and at this point Joe positioned his body between the open car door and myself. (I was still seated in the Buick.) Joe placed his left hand on the roof of the car and his right hand on the open car door. I asked Joe if there was a problem. The conversation went something like this: [/QUOTE] [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863.md?page=30) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/man-arrested-in-connection-with-ignoring-bag-checker-at-circuit-city/417863.md?page=32)