# manhattan & Gaudere sitting on a tree. . .
**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356
**Category:** The BBQ Pit
**Created:** [October 14, 2003, 12:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356 "2003-10-14T12:44:12Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author:  [@sailor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sailor)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 12:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/1 "2003-10-14T12:44:12Z")
Those of us who have been around here for a while know that once in a while **manhattan** blows a gasket, loses all trace of rationality and goes all bombastic and ballistic. Nothing new there and not much we can do about it but wait to see if and when he grows up to be a mature and rational adult who can control his fits of anger and frustration.
In [this thread](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=216804) about the lies about Cuba uttered by President Bush **manhattan** had no arguments to counter mine so the best he could do was to say to me
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> **You are a pro-child-prostitution liar.**
Well, no need to argue further because if that is not an admission of defeat I don’t know what is. I do not think anyone reading that thread has any doubts about whose arguments are more compelling and manhattan’s insults reflect on him, not on me. It is not a new tactic of those who irrationally believe what this administration is saying or doing, to smear those who question it. They label you a supporter of terrorists or, as in this case, of being pro child prostitution. To me it shows how desperate they are.
I do not wish to add to the animosity present in this board which is already too much so I am not going to roast manhattan over the coals for this. I think everybody, including manhattan himself, knows how despicable and shameful it is and we can leave it there.
**Gaudere** admonishes him:
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> Take it to the Pit or take it down a notch, Manny.
WTF? Accusing someone in GD of being **pro child prostitution** deserves no more than a passing comment to “Take it to the Pit or take it down a notch”? I thought there were limits even in the Pit and I think this kind of post in GD would have received a serious warning had it come from any other poster. Or have I missed a bunch of similar posts in GD which did not receive a warning?
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### Author:  [@Early\_Out](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Early_Out)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 1:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/2 "2003-10-14T13:12:49Z")
When **manhattan** was a mod himself, anyone making a remark like that in GQ (which he mod’ed) would probably have been banned, or at least would have been told, in no uncertain terms, and publically, that he was in sudden-death overtime, one step away from being booted out.
When I reported that post, I was afraid that it would get only a wrist-slap. Looks like I was right.
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### Author:  [@Desmostylus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Desmostylus)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 1:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/3 "2003-10-14T13:15:43Z")
Um, **manhattan** _got_ his warning.
The next one might be a final warning.
Until then, what did you expect?
And BTW, I’m entirely on your side, **sailor**.
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### Author:  [@Aries28](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aries28)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 1:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/4 "2003-10-14T13:21:20Z")
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> \*Originally posted by sailor \*
> \*\*I do not wish to add to the animosity present in this board which is already too much so I am not going to roast manhattan over the coals for this. \*\*
Then why the pit thread?
I don’t mean to be snarky…just wondering if you don’t want to add to the animosity then why stir the shit?
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### Author:  [@pencilpusher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pencilpusher)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 1:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/5 "2003-10-14T13:21:33Z")
And this is new how?
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### Author:  [@London\_Calling](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/London_Calling)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 1:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/6 "2003-10-14T13:33:42Z")
Manny, please don’t let Gaudere down. You know it’s a tough enough job as it is.
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### Author:  [@robertliguori](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/robertliguori)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 1:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/7 "2003-10-14T13:37:46Z")
Money-making idea #5837: Mod porn!
Anyway, this is a message board, not a government. There are no rules but what the Mods enforce.
Also, note that the rules here are along the lines of least necessary effect. Some people refuse to heed warnings, so they get banned. I doubt that severe threats are necessary in this case.
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### Author:  [@Beagle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beagle)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 1:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/8 "2003-10-14T13:49:56Z")
Why did you bring up a debate with a banned poster anyway? That’s how I remember this topic arising anyway. The administration seizes on the issue, and now there is _less_ credibility to the allegations? Maybe. If the kids are supposedly kept in aluminum tubes…
I don’t think one can look at the topic without wondering, “why?” If you are claiming personal knowledge about the prostitution situation in Cuba that’s an indictment as much as bolstering.
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> Again, I know Cuba. I have been there. I know how things work. Not only are nationals not allowed in the hotels but foreigners are not allowed in private homes. I have done some sneaking around and some hiding from the night patrols in the Cuban night shadows with my heart racing. I know what it takes to bribe the guards. I have friends there. I (tangentially) participated in helping someone escape from Cuba and he is now living in Spain.
First response you called **Manhattan** a liar several times. “That’s a lie.” Etc…
Your GD manners need serious work also.
Why bring up a “debate” when your mind is made up, your plan is to personally insult the first person who disagrees with you, and then claim personal knowledge about everything?
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### Author:  [@Derleth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Derleth)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 2:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/9 "2003-10-14T14:21:29Z")
**manhattan** , who is no longer the fucking hall monitor, does something questionable in GD.
Well, more than questionable. He accused someone else of being pro-child prostitution. Had someone done that in GQ on his watch, it would have been gravity bong all over again. The only question is why he thought he should be able to do it in GD.
**Gaudere** admonishes him. Lightly. No threats, no warnings, not even profanity. She is, apparently, _not_ the fucking hall monitor, simply the maiden schoolmarm. At least around **manhattan**.
How can such things be? Well, maybe **manhattan** is being shown consideration for his years of service. Years of surly service where he would never have tolerated in anyone else the behavior he just displayed, but service nonetheless. Maybe **G** and **m** are friends, at least on the Boards. Such ties of friendship never stayed **m** ’s hand. Possibly **G** is simply friendly that way. “A kind answer turneth away wrath, and a gentle non-warning giveth **m** a chance to clean up his act.” and all that. If so, **G** should know **m** ’s propensity towards strong language regardless of forum. She apparently does, and still didn’t feel the personal insult warranted a true Official Warning. Maybe she accepts that part of **m** and likes him anyway.
Hell, maybe the **G** really stands for **Gesus**. But I don’t think so.
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### Author:  [@sailor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sailor)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 2:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/10 "2003-10-14T14:39:18Z")
Beagle, I still say manhattan did not have any credible evidence to support his claims but if you want to discuss the merits of his and my arguments then the original thread is the place, not here. You are very welcome to go there and post. I am addressing your arguments there, not here.
The object of this thread is the fact that manhattan was given a slap on the wrist for something which would have merited a serious warning to any other poster and a banning to a poster who had been warned before, as manhattan has been.
OTOH, my calling an assertion a lie is perfectly acceptable. A lie is a lie whether repeated knowingly or unknowingly. I never called him a liar. He was the first one to use the word and my beef was not with being called a liar but with called pro-child-prostitution which is totally unacceptable in GD. If you are equating my behavior with manhattan’s you are seriously missing something.
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### Author:  [@TheLoadedDog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TheLoadedDog)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 3:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/11 "2003-10-14T15:02:52Z")
You’re fighting a losing battle, **sailor**. You’re right of course, but some folks seem to be untouchable - not just on the SDMB, but in all areas of life. And yes, they usually are the arseholes.
I never could abide bullies.
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### Author:  [@Liberal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Liberal)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 3:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/12 "2003-10-14T15:12:35Z")
Stop picking on Gaudere. Just stop it.
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### Author:  [@sailor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sailor)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 3:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/13 "2003-10-14T15:30:23Z")
I know full well the difficult job it is to moderate around here and you couldn’t pay me to do it nbut the Pit is the place to rant and much more so if it is about the administration of the board. It is not my intention to pick any battles here with anybody and I am not demanding any explanations from anybody nor trying to settle anything. I am just pointing out a fact. Each one can make of it what they will. That’s all.
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### Author:  [@Beagle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beagle)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 3:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/14 "2003-10-14T15:33:01Z")
I have no dog in this fight, but I will stand by my last paragraph as to how that whole thread went. I would not call “That’s a lie.” a serious argument or response in GD when your whole argument relies on personal bolstering, insults, attacking a banned poster, and assertions.
It is highly relevant how a GD thread goes when you start hurling invective in the pit as a supposed consequence. Your OP had nothing to offer but opinions, then you insulted the first person that dared question them.
Why would I argue in the GD thread when I have no personal knowledge about prostitution in Cuba?
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### Author:  [@tomndebb](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tomndebb)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 3:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/15 "2003-10-14T15:36:50Z")
Hmmmm, A sampling of **Gaudere** acting as Moderator over the last few weeks:
[bri1600bv, you can critique a poster’s arguments, logic or posts, but you cannot personally insult them in this forum.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&postid=4049895#post4049895)
[There’s a whole forum for name-calling and guess what? This one ain’t it.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&postid=4046211#post4046211)
[Blake, comments such as the above are NOT appropriate for this forum. If you absolutely must call people stupid, do it in the BBQ Pit.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&postid=4044858#post4044858)
[That’s quite enough namecalling, LonesomePolecat.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&postid=3996002#post3996002)
[We are NOT in the Pit, and everyone will refrain from namecalling in this thread, understood? Sheesh. Y’all know better.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&postid=3922690#post3922690)
[Wow, this is late. However, Arcana, direct personal insults are NOT allowed in GD.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&postid=3892346#post3892346)
There were a couple of other threads wher **Gaudere** went into more detail regarding the infraction, however, there was only one post in the time I surveyed where she actually threatened to take any action, and in that case it was the most recent of multiple interventions. I do not see where her words to **manhattan** were any “less” than directions she has given to several others.
I fail to see where **Gaudere** cut **manhattan** any slack, here. (Back when I had to be a boss, I would typically “suggest” things to senior employees where I might actully get in the face of peope with less seniority–not because I favored the senior members, but because the fact that I had to speak to them, at all, was generally more of a rebuke than actually reading them the riot act.)
I really hope this thread was prompted by too much coffee or too little sleep.
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### Author:  [@Squink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Squink)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 4:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/16 "2003-10-14T16:02:28Z")
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> I fail to see where Gaudere cut manhattan any slack, here.
Yes. Pitting her for a failure to wax apocalyptic, is like complaining that she’s not more **manny** -like. That doesn’t fit well when **manhattan’s** also over the coals.
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### Author:  [@astro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astro)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 4:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/17 "2003-10-14T16:28:37Z")
[J. Michael Divney - Tourism in Cuba - “It is an island large, beautiful and unfortunate…”](http://www.trincoll.edu/~jdivney/final.htm)
The link above is an interesting and reasonably extensive historical overview of Cuban Tourism. It does seem to suggest that because the Tourism industry is one of the THE major cash cows for the Cuban government, that the tourism industry operates with a fairly high level of governmental oversight and approval.
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> The Special Period
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> With the loss of Soviet aid and subsidies, the Cuban economy looked increasingly to tourism as a solution to its economic problems, and to save the revolution. A sense of desperation in Cuba, as a result of its economic isolation, led to a “special period of peace” as designated by Fidel Castro. The Cuban economy was shrinking, and needed to cut back on its material consumption. International tourism became the focus of Cuba’s economic plan, and promotions harked back to the pre-revolutionary heyday of Cuba in the 1950’s to attract visitors. The idealistic hope to rid the island of the vice tourism and gambling brought was gone. The Cuban tourist agencies began promoting the image of sultry, scantily-clad Cuban women in its ads in Canada and Western European countries. Roberto De Armas of the Cuban Foreign Ministry commented in 1996 that “We have to put aside some of our 60’s and 70’s idealism,” and this was a sentiment the government and tourist authorities seem resigned to as well. In 1991, for example, Playboy featured a spread of topless Cuban women with the blessing of Intour, a government tourist company. The agency even located the models for Playboys, which were described in the article as “dark, sensuous women who at one moment can be proudly aloof, the next giddy as schoolgirls.” The Revolution of Castro sought to destroy this image of Cuba, but out of dire need, had to use it to attract tourists.
There _is_ a **tremendous** “sex tour” business that patronizes Cuba and the default (and often correct) assumption by many Cubans is that single white, unattached males are part of one of these tours.
[Cuba Guide misc -](http://www.geocities.com/TheTropics/Shores/5902/misc_us.htm)
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> Prostitution: Like everywhere else in Cuba, single foreign men will attract lots of Cuban girls. It’s rarely about friendship. Most Cubans simply assume that single male travelers are there as sex tourists, an idea confirmed by many European and Latin American tourists who do just that. Cubans can get in serious trouble if they are caught renting their rooms for prostitution. The police have recently cracked down on the practice, and often assume that any Cuban woman with a foreign man is a prostitute. Some foreigners have been fined $40 for walking down the street with a Cuban.
Whether this winking, tacit acknowledgement of what goes on in many hotels is morally and operationally tantamount to putting adolescent girls and boys in harms way, by setting up a system that greases the skids for them to wind up in the hotel rooms of sex tourists is a fair, but fairly complex question in a poor nation grasping for cash when, and where, it can find it.
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### Author:  [@sailor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sailor)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 4:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/18 "2003-10-14T16:30:52Z")
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> \*Originally posted by Beagle \*
> \*\*I have no dog in this fight, but I will stand by my last paragraph as to how that whole thread went. I would not call “That’s a lie.” a serious argument or response in GD when your whole argument relies on personal bolstering, insults, attacking a banned poster, and assertions.
Nope. **That’s** a lie. manhattan was the first one to insult with the word “liar”. I said some of his assertions were lies and I proceeded to explain why. Or do I have to agree with him? Again, you seem to miss the fact that this thread is not about the arguments presented but about a particular insult hurled by manhattan. Oh well, you seem to be the only one who doesn’t get it. nevr mind.
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> Why would I argue in the GD thread when I have no personal knowledge about prostitution in Cuba?
manhattan could apply that to himself just as well.
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### Author:  [@astro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astro)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 4:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/19 "2003-10-14T16:32:50Z")
Oops… that belonged in the original GD thread. Could a mod please delete it from here?
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### Author:  [@wring](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wring)
#### Post date: [October 14, 2003, 8:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/manhattan-gaudere-sitting-on-a-tree/207356/20 "2003-10-14T20:27:01Z")
**Sailor** question - why use the phrase ‘that’s a lie’ when you seem to be really trying to say “you’re wrong about that”. I see the terms ‘lie’, ‘liar’ tossed out here all the damn time, when I think the more accurate phrase is ‘you’re wrong/mistaken’.
and then it wouldn’t lead into the whole ‘is that a legitimate parry or is it a poster-insult?’ gig.
(on the actual topic of your OP, Iagree w/ **tomndeb** )
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