# Martha Stewart Reveals why she broke up with Anthony Hopkins

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**Created:** [January 21, 2022, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/martha-stewart-reveals-why-she-broke-up-with-anthony-hopkins/958177 "2022-01-21T15:46:25Z")\
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**Author:** ![CalMeacham](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/calmeacham/32/35_2.png) [@CalMeacham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CalMeacham)\
**Post date:** [January 21, 2022, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/martha-stewart-reveals-why-she-broke-up-with-anthony-hopkins/958177/1 "2022-01-21T15:46:25Z")

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I didn’t even know they were ever an item.

Do I have to go on? Surely you’ve all written the obvious punch line to this set-up. But here it is anyway:

“She would _never_ pair fava beans and chianti with human liver.”

It turns out that it’s not all that far off the mark

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> Appearing on “The Ellen Show” on Thursday, the 80-year-old lifestyle guru and TV personality said she had to break up with the Welsh Oscar-winner, 84, after recalling his chilling performance in the 1991 horror thriller “The Silence of the Lambs.”
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> During a game of “Two Truths and a Lie” called, “Where’s the Lie, Martha?” one of the clues read: “I dated Sir Anthony Hopkins but broke up with him because I couldn’t stop thinking of him as Hannibal Lecter.”

[https://www.cnn.com/2022/01/21/entertainment/martha-stewart-anthony-hopkins-hannibal-lecter-intl-scli-gbr/index.html](https://www.cnn.com/2022/01/21/entertainment/martha-stewart-anthony-hopkins-hannibal-lecter-intl-scli-gbr/index.html)

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**Author:** ![solost](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/solost/32/11776_2.png) [@solost](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/solost)\
**Post date:** [January 21, 2022, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/martha-stewart-reveals-why-she-broke-up-with-anthony-hopkins/958177/2 "2022-01-21T16:46:19Z")

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Huh, I had not known that either.

> “I dated Sir Anthony Hopkins but broke up with him because I couldn’t stop thinking of him as Hannibal Lecter.”

If that’s the real reason she broke up with him it’s a stupid one, but I imagine that’s just the public, ‘polite’ reason.

> [@CalMeacham](#):
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> “She would _never_ pair fava beans and chianti with human liver.”

Yeah, I’d pair human liver with a nice Pinot Noir, myself.

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**Post date:** [January 21, 2022, 4:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/martha-stewart-reveals-why-she-broke-up-with-anthony-hopkins/958177/3 "2022-01-21T16:58:29Z")

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Lost a lot of respect for Sir Tony here.

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**Post date:** [January 21, 2022, 7:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/martha-stewart-reveals-why-she-broke-up-with-anthony-hopkins/958177/4 "2022-01-21T19:18:57Z")

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What about sweet breads, and what wine with brains?

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**Post date:** [January 21, 2022, 8:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/martha-stewart-reveals-why-she-broke-up-with-anthony-hopkins/958177/5 "2022-01-21T20:39:41Z")

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I’d swear I knew this already and, yep, at least eight year old news:

> **[r/todayilearned - TIL Martha Stewart broke up with Anthony Hopkins after...](https://old.reddit.com/r/todayilearned/comments/1lo59t/til_martha_stewart_broke_up_with_anthony_hopkins/)**
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> 584 votes and 38 comments so far on Reddit

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**Post date:** [January 23, 2022, 12:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/martha-stewart-reveals-why-she-broke-up-with-anthony-hopkins/958177/6 "2022-01-23T12:56:09Z")

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Yeah, I heard about this in 2012 [Martha Stewart Plays Not My Job : NPR](https://www.npr.org/2012/11/10/164810263/martha-stewart-plays-not-my-job) - and Peter Sagal says he learned that fact from Wikipedia, which means it’s older news than that.

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**Post date:** [January 23, 2022, 1:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/martha-stewart-reveals-why-she-broke-up-with-anthony-hopkins/958177/7 "2022-01-23T13:54:03Z")

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I learned about them dating (and her reason for breaking it off) when I found out this and started reading up on him:

> **[Anthony Hopkins and his estranged daughter: Abandonment, addictions and his...](https://www.mercurynews.com/2018/05/24/anthony-hopkins-and-his-estranged-daughter-abandonment-addictions-and-his-aspergers-syndrome/)**
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> In recent years, Anthony Hopkins has revealed that his self-esteem and personal relationships were likely affected by never receiving a diagnosis for being on the higher end of the autism spectrum.

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> [@solost](#):
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> > [@CalMeacham](#):
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> > “She would _never_ pair fava beans and chianti with human liver.”
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> Yeah, I’d pair human liver with a nice Pinot Noir, myself.

It was dumbed down for the movie, but in the book Hannibal went for “a big Amarone” with fava beans and liver.

> **[Fava beans and liver? Try a big, fruity Amarone](https://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/fava-beans-and-liver-try-a-big-fruity-amarone/article759653/)**
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> The Globe and Mail offers the most authoritative news in Canada, featuring national and international news

I’ve seen so many greasy, fatty and cirrhotic livers that I’d need a bottle of vodka to wash down such a dish.

Maybe Anthony Hopkins couldn’t get past the idea that he was dating _Martha Stewart_. 😱

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**Author:** ![Hypno-Toad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b2d939/32.png) [@Hypno-Toad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hypno-Toad)\
**Post date:** [January 23, 2022, 2:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/martha-stewart-reveals-why-she-broke-up-with-anthony-hopkins/958177/9 "2022-01-23T14:12:58Z")

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Maybe she found him too taxing.

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**Post date:** [January 23, 2022, 2:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/martha-stewart-reveals-why-she-broke-up-with-anthony-hopkins/958177/10 "2022-01-23T14:28:40Z")

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I have no idea if that’s the real reason and I don’t know if I should be judgmental about it, but Sir Anthony’s performance in that movie was amazing and truly chilling. I don’t think there are many actors who could have pulled it off nearly as well.

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**Post date:** [January 23, 2022, 3:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/martha-stewart-reveals-why-she-broke-up-with-anthony-hopkins/958177/11 "2022-01-23T15:15:33Z")

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Am I the only one surprised to find out that she’s 80? I would’ve guessed 60-something.

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I just checked to make sure that Anthony Hopkins was recognized for his amazing performance in _Silence of the Lambs_, and indeed he was – won the Best Actor Oscar, while Jodie Foster also won an Oscar, and in fact the film won all “Big Five” Oscars.

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**Post date:** [January 23, 2022, 5:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/martha-stewart-reveals-why-she-broke-up-with-anthony-hopkins/958177/13 "2022-01-23T17:10:53Z")

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Gawd! I can’t even…
