I live in San Francisco. I don’t drive (although I do have a license) and have never owned a car. I never have to worry about car payments, insurance, parking, repairs, or tickets. The price of gas is meaningless to me.
There are three different transit systems within a 10-minute walk from my house, and they will take me anywhere I want to go. There are at least 50 movie screens that I can access within 45 minutes, including two massive AMC theater complexes, a Century theater complex, three Landmark theater complexes showing independent and art films, and a bunch of other theaters showing a range of old and new films.
I can walk 20 minutes to Safeway, which I do every weekend, or walk about 15 minutes to another Safeway from work, or stop on my way home on public transit
at yet another Safeway (I have visited all three in the past two days). Whole Foods is about a 10-minute walk up the hill. I do have to shop more frequently, because I have to be able to carry my groceries, but I can always stop at a corner store or one of the 18 Walgreens I pass every day if I need to pick something up.
If I need to buy furniture or something really heavy, I can either take it home in a taxi or have it delivered. The last thing I took home in a taxi was my microwave, around 2007.
I love this way of life, and can’t imagine doing anything differently. I’m uncomfortable in cars (I get carsick after about 15 minutes), and very aware of how dangerous they are. The last person who used to offer to drive me home from work texted while she drove, so now I just politely refuse her offers.
Of course this limits the places where I can live, and my job opportunities, etc. But there is something about getting around on your own two feet, and interacting with the bricklayers and the plasterers, that appeals to me. I was just reading Rebecca Solnit’s book Wanderlust, about the history of walking, in which she talks about how isolating private cars can be, not only in keeping us separate from nature and the landscape, but also from each other.
I don’t advocate that everyone give up their cars and use public transportation, and I recognize that different locations call for different approaches. But I hope that there will always be places for people like me who prefer the communal approach and the pavement beneath my feet to the privacy of my own vehicle.