# Masturbation **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [February 19, 2003, 1:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027 "2003-02-19T01:31:16Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![lillyflower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/49beb7/32.png) [@lillyflower](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lillyflower)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 1:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/1 "2003-02-19T01:31:16Z")
Does anyone have any tips for pleasuring yourself (female), I am not perverted, just curious to anything new ---
**Author:** ![C\_K\_Dexter\_Haven](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b2d939/32.png) [@C\_K\_Dexter\_Haven](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/C_K_Dexter_Haven)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 1:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/2 "2003-02-19T01:47:26Z")
**lillyflower,** welcome to the Straight Dope Message Boards. You might want to read the descriptions of the forums, this question does not belong in “General Questions.” I have accordingly moved it to a more appropriate forum. ---
**Author:** ![ultrafilter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/3d9bf3/32.png) [@ultrafilter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ultrafilter)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 1:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/3 "2003-02-19T01:48:54Z")
Hi **lilly**. Glad you could join us out here. There are webpages out there that detail these things, but you’ll have to search yourself, because I don’t feel like wading through thousands of pages of porn to find them, and they would probably be considered questionable enough that it would be against board policy to have links. Failing that, you could go to your local bookstore, or if you prefer the anonymous nature of online shopping, any of the various online sites. [This book](http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0385112459/qid=1045619374/sr=8-2/ref=sr_8_2/002-0523812-0776853?v=glance&s=books&n=507846) looks promising. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![jack\_ss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c77e96/32.png) [@jack\_ss](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jack_ss)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 1:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/4 "2003-02-19T01:56:39Z")
[Chef]Oh, that’s easy! You just gotta find the clitoris.[/Chef] As a man, I can’t offer any more advice than that. And personal experience has backed it up. ---
**Author:** ![fauxpas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e480ec/32.png) [@fauxpas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fauxpas)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 2:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/5 "2003-02-19T02:10:20Z")
You could try [www.solotouch.com](http://www.solotouch.com) it has Experiences and techniques for both women and men. There is no pornography at all. ---
**Author:** ![Improv\_Geek](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/b3f665/32.png) [@Improv\_Geek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Improv_Geek)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 2:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/6 "2003-02-19T02:46:54Z")
Also a site I got from a friend is [www.jackinworld.com](http://www.jackinworld.com) - there is no porn and it is aimed at the men but it has a female section (which I haven’t explored) ---
**Author:** ![ChaosGod](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ac91a4/32.png) [@ChaosGod](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ChaosGod)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 2:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/7 "2003-02-19T02:49:52Z")
lillyflower: Your inquiry got me thinking. If it was a man asking, it would be considered a bit strange. After all, most men cultivate this art to utmost perfection all by themselves since youth ( I’m talking for myself and for legions, so don’t look at me like that ) Why do women think they need “coaching”? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![mangeorge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d78d45/32.png) [@mangeorge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mangeorge)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 2:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/8 "2003-02-19T02:57:04Z")
Maybe **some** women more freely _admit_ they could use some coaching? Kissy-butt reply, huh? 😃 Peace, mangeorge ---
**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 3:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/9 "2003-02-19T03:48:01Z")
[www.elsaano.com](http://www.elsaano.com) For all your masturbation needs. (Well, not really, but we have sex forums) ---
**Author:** ![ultrafilter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/3d9bf3/32.png) [@ultrafilter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ultrafilter)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 4:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/10 "2003-02-19T04:12:45Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by ChaosGod \* > \*\*lillyflower: > Your inquiry got me thinking. > If it was a man asking, it would be considered a bit strange. After all, most men cultivate this art to utmost perfection all by themselves since youth ( I’m talking for myself and for legions, so don’t look at me like that ) > Why do women think they need “coaching”? > > 😃 \*\* Because the female sexual response is a helluvalot more complicated than the male. ---
**Author:** ![jackelope](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/a6a055/32.png) [@jackelope](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jackelope)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 5:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/11 "2003-02-19T05:16:45Z")
Wow, three posts, [three](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?threadid=164084) [sex](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?threadid=164095) [threads](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?threadid=164092). Might want to slow it down a mite, **lillyflower**. ---
**Author:** ![SC\_Wolf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eb9ed0/32.png) [@SC\_Wolf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SC_Wolf)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 7:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/12 "2003-02-19T19:45:29Z")
Hush, Don’t listen to the naysayers. This site is all about fighting ignorance, and if there’s one thing ignorance is fairly universal on, it’s sex. ---
**Author:** ![gvsantos](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a88e4f/32.png) [@gvsantos](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gvsantos)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/13 "2003-02-19T20:54:49Z")
I know someone who would highly recommend one of these. [Magic Wand](http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2911828312&category=19263) I can’t say who the “someone” is but I have seen this in action and it does seem to do more than the trick Enjoy 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Bippy\_the\_Beardless](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ac8455/32.png) [@Bippy\_the\_Beardless](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bippy_the_Beardless)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 9:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/14 "2003-02-19T21:05:48Z")
Well if you are near san francisco there is a store called good vibrations that caters more for women than men. I’m sure they have a web site, and they produce several books on female masturbation that I am told are very good. And everyone, male, female, or unsure can improve their Masturbation technique. Cheers, Bippy, the wanker ---
**Author:** ![clayton\_e](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c57346/32.png) [@clayton\_e](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/clayton_e)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 9:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/15 "2003-02-19T21:14:48Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Bippy the Beardless \* > \*\*Cheers, Bippy, the wanker \*\* Could you _please_ put that in your sig? ---
**Author:** ![Patty\_O\_Furniture](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/96bed5/32.png) [@Patty\_O\_Furniture](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Patty_O_Furniture)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 9:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/16 "2003-02-19T21:22:26Z")
I can’t believe somebody isn’t offering classes on this. ---
**Author:** ![Bippy\_the\_Beardless](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ac8455/32.png) [@Bippy\_the\_Beardless](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bippy_the_Beardless)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 10:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/17 "2003-02-19T22:05:28Z")
**clayton\_e** no, wanker is very rude in Britain out of context. Oh and I have a sig, if I remember to use it. As for the OP also good is to look up books on Kundalini which is a group of spiritual practices related to Tantric Hinduism. ---
**Author:** ![GloriaMundi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ee59a6/32.png) [@GloriaMundi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GloriaMundi)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 10:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/18 "2003-02-19T22:21:38Z")
> [@](#): > > _Originally posted by Attrayant_ > **I can’t believe somebody isn’t offering classes on this.** There is! [Betty Dodson](http://www.bettydodson.com/privategeneral.htm)😃 ---
**Author:** ![kimera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/f0a364/32.png) [@kimera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kimera)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2003, 10:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/19 "2003-02-19T22:28:41Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by ultrafilter \* > \*\*Because the female sexual response is a helluvalot more complicated than the male. \*\* Ohohoho. I beg to differ. :O ~~~~ :😊: ---
**Author:** ![Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/qadgop_the_mercotan/32/83_2.png) [@Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Qadgop_the_Mercotan)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2003, 2:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027/20 "2003-02-20T02:24:12Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Guinastasia \* > \*\*[www.elsaano.com](http://www.elsaano.com) > > For all your masturbation needs. (Well, not really, but we have sex forums) \*\* **Guin** , what an odd (but nice I’m sure) place. To whom do they cater? [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/masturbation/156027.md?page=2)