# Melania Trump is a piece of shit

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**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [June 22, 2018, 3:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555 "2018-06-22T03:24:47Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![kaylasdad99](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kaylasdad99/32/3398_2.png) [@kaylasdad99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kaylasdad99)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 2:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/61 "2018-06-22T14:13:17Z")

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> [@SaneBill](#):
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> **wintertime** ,
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> trump’s henchmen have no difficulty to prove that Melania is an illegal immigrant herself ( and that the marriage was illegal in the first place ). So she’ll be deported ( as are her parents ), and she’ll never again sees Barron.
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> Do you have ANY doubts this could happen if she leaves ?

Pretty sure that even were she to be stripped of her citizenship due to irregularities with her immigration status at the time she applied, her marriage license and marriage are legally valid, and she would retain certain rights as his spouse (even if in-country cohabitation wouldn’t be one of them).

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**Author:** ![ElvisL1ves](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/5daacb/32.png) [@ElvisL1ves](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ElvisL1ves)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 2:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/62 "2018-06-22T14:13:44Z")

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> [@JohnT](#):
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> As an ex-model, I would be surprised if she left her clothing choices to her staff.

Absolutely. Remember the pussy-bow dress? That was another message.

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**Author:** ![Monty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/monty/32/47_2.png) [@Monty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Monty)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 2:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/63 "2018-06-22T14:15:05Z")

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> [@SaneBill](#):
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> **wintertime** ,
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> trump’s henchmen have no difficulty to prove that Melania is an illegal immigrant herself ( and that the marriage was illegal in the first place ). So she’ll be deported ( as are her parents ), and she’ll never again sees Barron.
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> Do you have ANY doubts this could happen if she leaves ?

Being an undocumented alien does not invalidate the marriage.

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**Author:** ![fervour](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ce7236/32.png) [@fervour](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fervour)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 2:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/64 "2018-06-22T14:18:51Z")

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It’s my understanding that there’s about 2000 kids in concentration camps. They see 2 hours of daylight. Please tell me that you’ve called your senators and representative.

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**Author:** ![JohnT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnt/32/15048_2.png) [@JohnT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnT)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 2:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/65 "2018-06-22T14:21:41Z")

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I would also like to note that the First Lady went from being a college student in a collapsed ex-communist country to being in the company of American billionaires just 3 years later… all during the massive E European human trafficking crises of the 1990s which saw thousands of girls being sold. (Hell, this problem was the entire driver of season 2 of _The Wire_).

I just doubt that a 23yo ex-communist can so easily move around in heightened American society purely on innate grit and talent.

Whore? Not in the legal sense. But definitely in the “that’s what my grandmother would have called her” sense.

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**Author:** ![Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/left_hand_of_dorkness/32/7156_2.png) [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 2:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/66 "2018-06-22T14:24:00Z")

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> [@fervour](#):
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> Well it’s good to know you don’t want to put kids in concentration camps. Do something about it. Have you called your senators and representative?

Fuck yes I have, and I’ve donated money to secure legal representation for the folks locked up, and I’m actively involved in the run-up to November. But this isn’t about me, it’s about the Trumps, and the specific piece I’m commenting on here is you. Back off of the misogynistic slurs and it doesn’t have to be about you any more.

> [@fervour](#):
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> LHOD, you do realize the executive order doesn’t do anything for the 2000 kids incarcerated?

Fuck yes I do. The cool thing is that I can hold two thoughts in my head at once. Three, even:

1. Our government is slip’n’sliding into fascism.
2. Melania Trump is no help at all.
3. You’re being a shithead by using misogynistic slurs and then doubling down on them.

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**Author:** ![fervour](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ce7236/32.png) [@fervour](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fervour)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 2:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/67 "2018-06-22T14:26:56Z")

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> [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](#):
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> Fuck yes I have, and I’ve donated money, and I’m actively involved in the run-up to November. But this isn’t about me, it’s about you.
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> Fuck yes I do. The cool thing is that I can hold two thoughts in my head at once. Three, even:
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> 1. Our government is slip’n’sliding into fascism.
> 2. Melania Trump is no help at all.
> 3. You’re being a shithead by using misogynistic slurs and then doubling down on them.

Thank you. I appreciate your efforts. I’ll do what I can do too.

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**Author:** ![gytalf2000](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ac91a4/32.png) [@gytalf2000](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gytalf2000)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 2:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/68 "2018-06-22T14:28:57Z")

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> [@pohjonen](#):
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> I posted this elsewhere, but I’ll repeat it here: Between plagiarizing Michelle Obama’s speech, slapping his hands away in public and on camera, and now this, one almost has to wonder if she is sabotaging him and he’s too obtuse to see it.
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> I hope that is the case. The thought gives me a real warm fuzzy.

That’s funny – that thought (Melania sabotaging Trump) occurred to me, as well.

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**Author:** ![E-DUB](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/e-dub/32/403_2.png) [@E-DUB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/E-DUB)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 2:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/69 "2018-06-22T14:31:58Z")

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There are people, I’m sure, who would kill if ordered to by trump. There are people who would kill without being ordered to if they perceived that it would benefit trump. ALL presidents attract these kind of people. Think G. Gordon Liddy.

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**Author:** ![SaneBill](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e68b1a/32.png) [@SaneBill](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SaneBill)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 2:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/70 "2018-06-22T14:36:07Z")

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> [@wintertime](#):
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> But you have to admit that it’s hyperbole that she would NEVER see her son again. He would not even be allowed to leave the country and visit his mother after attaining full age?

Nope. He would be allowed, yes, but that’s still six ( ? ) years away and trump has ways to make Barron not to want to see her. He’s a manipulator, you see. And she knows it better than we do.

> [@Monty](#):
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> Being an undocumented alien does not invalidate the marriage.

I am aware of that, but can you say that it will stop them. If she will be [deported](https://www.change.org/p/deport-melania-trump-for-working-here-illegally) how long you think they stay married.

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**Author:** ![MandaJo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ac91a4/32.png) [@MandaJo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MandaJo)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 3:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/71 "2018-06-22T15:02:11Z")

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Here’s the deal. I have noting but contempt for Milo Yiannopoulos. I think he’s scum. His dedication to spreading misery and scorn baffles and disgusts me. But I’m never going to call him a faggot. I’m never going to use that word to express my scorn. Not because he deserves better, but because that was the word the people who killed Mathew Shepherd and thousands like him used to justify what they did. Not just as a weapon to hurt, but as a reason it was okay to do what they did. It’s not okay to kill people. It’s okay to stomp faggots, because they aren’t people.

“Whore” is the same. It’s a word used to justify assault, rape, and murder, and has been for centuries. Debating whether or not someone fits the “technical definition” of a whore is implicitly embracing the underlying connotation of the word: that there are women who aren’t really human and that violence against them is acceptable. THAT’S what a whore is.

If someone wants to call themselves a whore (or a faggot), or uses the words in a jocular sense, I don’t really care. But when you use them to express anger and contempt, you are siding with a long tradition of dehumanization that has directly justified horrific violence. I don’t see how any amount of political activism could somehow justify that.

And my current theory is that Melania Trump was throwing Trump’s words back in his face. I hope some day we know what the truth is.

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**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 3:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/72 "2018-06-22T15:09:20Z")

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> [@WOOKINPANUB](#):
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> I can’t think of any explanation that makes a lick of sense. No way is the message meant to be taken literally, yet I can’t figure out what it supposedly \*is \*trying to say. No way would anyone do something so blatantly hateful. Even if she really felt that way (and I don’t believe she does) she’s not \* that \* obtuse.

As I pointed out in the GD thread:

> [@Who is Melania Trump's graffiti jacket aimed at? "I really don't care. Do U"](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-is-melania-trumps-graffiti-jacket-aimed-at-i-really-dont-care-do-u/816545/42):
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> This is the same woman who wore snakeskin stiletto heels to visit flood-ravaged Texas in September.

She has a strong tendency to choose clothes based on how she looks in them, not now they look on her nor if they’re appropriate for the situation.

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**Author:** ![fervour](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ce7236/32.png) [@fervour](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fervour)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 3:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/73 "2018-06-22T15:09:44Z")

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> [@MandaJo](#):
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> Here’s the deal. I have noting but contempt for Milo Yiannopoulos. I think he’s scum. His dedication to spreading misery and scorn baffles and disgusts me. But I’m never going to call him a faggot. I’m never going to use that word to express my scorn. Not because he deserves better, but because that was the word the people who killed Mathew Shepherd and thousands like him used to justify what they did. Not just as a weapon to hurt, but as a reason it was okay to do what they did. It’s not okay to kill people. It’s okay to stomp faggots, because they aren’t people.
> 
> “Whore” is the same. It’s a word used to justify assault, rape, and murder, and has been for centuries. Debating whether or not someone fits the “technical definition” of a whore is implicitly embracing the underlying connotation of the word: that there are women who aren’t really human and that violence against them is acceptable. THAT’S what a whore is.
> 
> If someone wants to call themselves a whore (or a faggot), or uses the words in a jocular sense, I don’t really care. But when you use them to express anger and contempt, you are siding with a long tradition of dehumanization that has directly justified horrific violence. I don’t see how any amount of political activism could somehow justify that.
> 
> And my current theory is that Melania Trump was throwing Trump’s words back in his face. I hope some day we know what the truth is.

got you. Your bridge too far is whore and faggot. Actually imprisoning kids-----it’s like well, what are you gonna do? ETA: I hope you’ve called your senators and represenative.

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**Author:** ![MandaJo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ac91a4/32.png) [@MandaJo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MandaJo)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 3:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/74 "2018-06-22T15:11:29Z")

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> [@fervour](#):
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> got you. Your bridge too far is whore and faggot. Actually imprisoning kids-----it’s like well, what are you gonna do?

How the fuck does that follow? What have I said that has even vaguely defended the administration’s choices here?

Why do you you need to be able to call her a “whore” to properly take a stand against this atrocity?

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**Author:** ![xenophon41](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/xenophon41/32/253_2.png) [@xenophon41](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/xenophon41)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 3:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/75 "2018-06-22T15:11:52Z")

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You’re broken **fervour**. I don’t know if you’re fixable.

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**Author:** ![wintertime](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c68b51/32.png) [@wintertime](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wintertime)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 3:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/76 "2018-06-22T15:12:14Z")

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> [@SaneBill](#):
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> Nope. He would be allowed, yes, but that’s still six ( ? ) years away and trump has ways to make Barron not to want to see her. He’s a manipulator, you see. And she knows it better than we do.

Trump doesn’t have superpowers, and Barron is likely not a puppet but a normal boy with his own mind and own will; and he is about the age when this is really starting to show.

But this is beside the point anyway.

It is one of Melania’s continuous decisions to stay in her marriage. She could choose to reverse her earlier decision whenever she wants to.

We all make decisions that have consequences. Some of them are hard, some make us face repercussions for years to come, or an entire lifetime.

Sometimes we are surprised about those consequences, sometimes we know about them in advance - and we still choose to bear them because the choice is important enough for us.

Melania is not a lesser being than all of us who manage to live with that simple reality of being responsible for ourselves.

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**Author:** ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 3:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/77 "2018-06-22T15:12:27Z")

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> [@fervour](#):
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> got you. Your bridge too far is whore and faggot. Actually imprisoning kids-----it’s like well, what are you gonna do?

Yeah dude, I’m sure **Manda Jo** is completely apathetic to the plight of immigrant children. :rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 3:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/78 "2018-06-22T15:15:16Z")

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> [@fervour](#):
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> got you. Your bridge too far is whore and faggot. Actually imprisoning kids-----it’s like well, what are you gonna do? ETA: I hope you’ve called your senators and represenative.

To show that I care about kids I have to use the words “whore” and “faggot”?  
What if I use the words “insensitive and clueless asshole” instead, you insensitive and clueless asshole?

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**Author:** ![fervour](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ce7236/32.png) [@fervour](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fervour)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 3:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/79 "2018-06-22T15:17:48Z")

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> [@MandaJo](#):
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> How the fuck does that follow? What have I said that has even vaguely defended the administration’s choices here?
> 
> Why do you you need to be able to call her a “whore” to properly take a stand against this atrocity?

The immediate problem is kids being detained.

> [@Grrr](#):
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> Yeah dude, I’m sure **Manda Jo** is completely apathetic to the plight of immigrant children. :rolleyes:

One has to focus on the current problem.

> [@xenophon41](#):
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> You’re broken **fervour**. I don’t know if you’re fixable.

Yeah, tell me about it.

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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 3:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melania-trump-is-a-piece-of-shit/816555/80 "2018-06-22T15:19:29Z")

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A completely different angle…

Maybe Melania wasn’t sabotaging Trump, but Trump made her wear it to sabotage HER. Perhaps he has someone waiting in the wings and is working on building up a folder of ‘reasons’ to divorce her.

“She doesn’t care, we can’t have a FLOTUS that doesn’t care. I’m doing this for YOU, deplorables”

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