# Melodramatic, over-the-top songs.

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**Created:** [January 12, 2018, 8:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melodramatic-over-the-top-songs/806489 "2018-01-12T20:57:09Z")\
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What got me thinking about this type of song was finding out the song in that (not) parody perfume commercial is [Sia’s Chandelier.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2vjPBrBU-TM) In my opinion the Grandmother of this type of pop song is [Jennifer Holiday/Hudson And I’ Am Telling You,](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mIDimztxcq8) and epitome is [Whitney Houston’s I Will Always Love You.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3JWTaaS7LdU)

I feel Celine Dion should have a song here. I have a clear vision of her beating her chest with her fist and then dramatically flinging her arm skyward-- a standard move when singing this type of song, only I can’t think of the particular song this comes from. Also, I can’t, off the top of my head, think of any men who belong here.

Also, let it be known I love these types of songs. I sing them very loudly in the shower and really appreciate the vocal tour de force these ladies put on.

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Oh wait! I thought of a man over-the-top melodramatic song. [Harry Nilsson’s Without You.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-lvLYTC3nAo)

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**Post date:** [January 12, 2018, 9:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melodramatic-over-the-top-songs/806489/3 "2018-01-12T21:07:39Z")

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“Total Eclipse of the Heart” by Bonnie Tyler is certainly up there as one of the most bombastic songs ever written, not to mention performed – and accompanied by one of the most over-the-top videos of all time as well.

Sample lyric: “We’re living in a powder keg and giving off sparks.”

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> [@don draper](#):
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> “total eclipse of the heart” by bonnie tyler is certainly up there as one of the most bombastic songs ever written, not to mention performed – and accompanied by one of the most over-the-top videos of all time as well.
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> Sample lyric: “we’re living in a powder keg and giving off sparks.”

_ **i really ned you tonight!!!** _

ETA:Tried all caps forgetting we are not allowed to scream in such a fashion her on the SDMB.

Another edit to say-- wow, that filter takes away ALL the capital words!

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**Post date:** [January 12, 2018, 9:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melodramatic-over-the-top-songs/806489/5 "2018-01-12T21:16:58Z")

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Two great parodies by Flight of The Conchords:

[Sellotape](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fycGFGSeKpc)

[I’m Not Cryin’](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-pVT_mvvZLo)

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**Post date:** [January 12, 2018, 9:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melodramatic-over-the-top-songs/806489/6 "2018-01-12T21:24:34Z")

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What about Europe’s [_The Final Countdown_](https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=final+countdown&qpvt=final+countdown&view=detail&mid=91BCA63DB2CB6EFD667391BCA63DB2CB6EFD6673&FORM=VRDGAR)?

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**Post date:** [January 12, 2018, 9:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melodramatic-over-the-top-songs/806489/7 "2018-01-12T21:29:18Z")

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> [@Czarcasm](#):
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> What about Europe’s [_The Final Countdown_](https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=final+countdown&qpvt=final+countdown&view=detail&mid=91BCA63DB2CB6EFD667391BCA63DB2CB6EFD6673&FORM=VRDGAR)?

But there are no heartfelt tears or chest beating. No overarching personal drama. i think if we’re to get a group song on here it may be something by Journey. Or even better, Air Supply. How 'bout Out Of Nothing At All.

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**Post date:** [January 12, 2018, 9:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melodramatic-over-the-top-songs/806489/8 "2018-01-12T21:35:55Z")

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You’re all going to hate me for this…  
[_MacArthur Park._](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CPMpeNDIGdk)

To make up for it.  
[Literal Video Version](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fsgWUq0fdKk) of \*Total Eclipse Of The Heart \*

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**Post date:** [January 12, 2018, 9:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melodramatic-over-the-top-songs/806489/9 "2018-01-12T21:39:47Z")

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> [@Biggirl](#):
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> I feel Celine Dion should have a song here. I have a clear vision of her beating her chest with her fist and then dramatically flinging her arm skyward-- a standard move when singing this type of song, only I can’t think of the particular song this comes from. Also, I can’t, off the top of my head, think of any men who belong here.

That was _My Heart Will Go On,_ from _Titanic_. But not from the movie video. She later did a live video, with a young Asian girl violinist. Celine became incredibly weepy, and over invested in the performance.

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**Post date:** [January 12, 2018, 9:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melodramatic-over-the-top-songs/806489/10 "2018-01-12T21:43:09Z")

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Meatloaf: [I Would Do Anything for Love](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGalkLRdlOs) (But I Won’t Do That)

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We could pretty much list every song Jim Steinman’s done and call it day for this thread.

> [@Chefguy](#):
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> Two great parodies by Flight of The Conchords:
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> Sellotape
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> I’m Not Cryin’

Along the same lines, here’s “Weird Al” Yankovic’s “[Stop Forwarding That Crap to Me](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KCSA7kKNu2Y)”.

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> [@running\_coach](#):
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> You’re all going to hate me for this…  
> [_MacArthur Park._](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CPMpeNDIGdk)

This gets extra points for being so over-dramatic while making as little sense as possible. This song also proves how better women are at this type of thing.

> [@Arkcon](#):
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> That was _My Heart Will Go On,_ from _Titanic_. But not from the movie video. She later did a live video, with a young Asian girl violinist. Celine became incredibly weepy, and over invested in the performance.

I can’t think of this song without thinking of the SNL skit of the goth high schoolers with their dark song: _Near. . . Far. . ._. Does anyone else remember this skit. It may or may not have featured Buck Henry.

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**Post date:** [January 12, 2018, 10:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melodramatic-over-the-top-songs/806489/13 "2018-01-12T22:01:23Z")

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> [@Chefguy](#):
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> Two great parodies by Flight of The Conchords:
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> [Sellotape](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fycGFGSeKpc)
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> [I’m Not Cryin’](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-pVT_mvvZLo)

This also reminds me of an old, old SNL skit. This one with Dana Carvey Choppin’ Broccoli!

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**Post date:** [January 12, 2018, 10:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melodramatic-over-the-top-songs/806489/14 "2018-01-12T22:04:42Z")

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> [@Mithril](#):
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> Meatloaf: [I Would Do Anything for Love](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGalkLRdlOs) (But I Won’t Do That)

It pales in comparison to [“Paradise By The Dashboard Light”.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C11MzbEcHlw)

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**Post date:** [January 12, 2018, 10:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/melodramatic-over-the-top-songs/806489/15 "2018-01-12T22:28:14Z")

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> [@Biggirl](#):
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> i think if we’re to get a group song on here it may be something by Journey.

That would be [Separate Ways](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LatorN4P9aA).

For really over-the-top, you want heavy metal. Especially thrash, death metal, and black metal.  
I’m afraid I’m not familiar enough with it know any good examples. All I could think of was [Hall of the Mountain King](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mOKoLiOkWWQ) by Savatage.

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Oh, the menfolk can do melodrama. It’s a common theme among heavy rockers attempting to do ballads.

I present the lyrics of Papa Roach’s “Scars” which are a running gag in this household.

I tear my heart open  
I sew myself shut  
My weakness is  
That I care too much  
Our scars remind us that the past is real  
I tear my heart open  
Just to feel

YouTube link, for max angst appreciation:

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/eHbNU9WuVgw/maxresdefault.jpg "Papa Roach - Scars (Official Music Video)") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eHbNU9WuVgw)

So many 90s alternative songs apply here, including good ones. I always thought this one by Staind was both good, and ridiculous:

[![](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/mVQpfoqsY8Q/hqdefault.jpg?sqp=-oaymwEmCOADEOgC8quKqQMa8AEB-AH-BIAC4AOKAgwIABABGGUgTyhFMA8=&rs=AOn4CLAkd3bbWx6oZEtZTUX4EzQuhLdIhQ "Staind - Outside (Official Video)") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mVQpfoqsY8Q)

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I agree about Steinman, but you really have to look at his work as the show tunes they are (whether or not they actually go with a real show or musical). Take a look at popular songs from **Jesus Christ Superstar** , **Hair** , **Phantom** , **Les Miserables** , and so forth. They’re all pretty darn bombastic. It’s the nature of the beast.

_TEotH_ really does carry the blue ribbon, though.

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> [@Biggirl](#):
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> In my opinion the Grandmother of this type of pop song is [Jennifer Holiday/Hudson And I’ Am Telling You,](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mIDimztxcq8)…

Well, in all fairness, that song is from a musical (_Dreamgirls_), it’s not a pop song. So by nature it’s supposed to be somewhat dramatic, and brings the house down when it’s live on stage.

But yes, when I saw the thread title my first instinct was anything by Jim Steinman.

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Morris Albert’s _Feelings_ was way overplayed in the day, but it fits this category. I hope to never hear it again.

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A lot of 70s and 80s Styx would fall into this category, I think. Songs like “Lady,” “The Grand Illusion,” and “The Best of Times” seem to fit the requirement of “beating one’s chest with a fist and then dramatically flinging an arm skyward.”

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