# Men, check in if you've ever been groped unwillingly

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-check-in-if-youve-ever-been-groped-unwillingly/666874>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [August 22, 2013, 2:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-check-in-if-youve-ever-been-groped-unwillingly/666874 "2013-08-22T14:52:35Z")\
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**Author:** ![LouisB](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/dfb087/32.png) [@LouisB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LouisB)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2013, 6:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-check-in-if-youve-ever-been-groped-unwillingly/666874/101 "2013-08-31T18:40:16Z")

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> [@Max\_Torque](#):
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> Apparently about six of her friends bought her lapdances from the male strippers at the same time, so they formed a circle around her and did their thing, which totally overwhelmed her. She was only up there for 30-45 minutes before she came down to the “women strippers” part of the club, where she saw me getting the above-described lapdance and totally misread my expression. The conversation afterward was something like, “You were really enjoying that lapdance, huh!” “NO, she’s got hands like a lumberjack, I feel violated!” No more lapdances for either of us, and we left soon after.

I’m glad you didn’t take offense at the way I worded my question; I didn’t mean any snark but it sounds as if I did. I was teasing more than anything. Sounds like you and your bride are confident of each other—you will do well as a married couple.

I’m an old Red Raider myself.

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**Author:** ![Zebra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c0e974/32.png) [@Zebra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zebra)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2013, 8:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-check-in-if-youve-ever-been-groped-unwillingly/666874/102 "2013-08-31T20:10:20Z")

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When I was 19 I was in NYC for the first time in my life. Times Square, New Year’s Eve.

I got accidentally grouped (front) but the man of a couple that I was squeezing past. I looked at him puzzled and he laughed and he grouped me again on purpose. So I grouped him and his wife. I had to press on to join my friends but that experience is the closest I’ve ever come to Penthouse forums in my life.

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**Author:** ![Snowboarder\_Bo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/snowboarder_bo/32/229_2.png) [@Snowboarder\_Bo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snowboarder_Bo)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2013, 8:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-check-in-if-youve-ever-been-groped-unwillingly/666874/103 "2013-08-31T20:14:07Z")

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I was once groped unwillingly at a party in college by a gorgeous girl who’s name I didn’t even know. Lemme tell ya, she was so pissed off that I had grabbed her hand and forced it to my crotch that she dumped her beer on me!

:p:D

ETA: Just a joke, folks!

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**Author:** ![appleciders](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/85f322/32.png) [@appleciders](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/appleciders)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2013, 8:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-check-in-if-youve-ever-been-groped-unwillingly/666874/104 "2013-08-31T20:21:04Z")

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Yes, once or twice in college. I didn’t want it, but I had been flirting with her and she certainly wasn’t out of line to make a pass. She stopped when I asked.

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