# Men, ever fake an orgasm?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [March 25, 2012, 8:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788 "2012-03-25T20:33:18Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![MyFootsZZZ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/myfootszzz/32/12580_2.png) [@MyFootsZZZ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MyFootsZZZ)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2012, 8:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/1 "2012-03-25T20:33:18Z")

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I have.

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**Author:** ![jjimm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba8739/32.png) [@jjimm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jjimm)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2012, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/2 "2012-03-25T20:37:22Z")

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Yes.

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**Author:** ![MyFootsZZZ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/myfootszzz/32/12580_2.png) [@MyFootsZZZ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MyFootsZZZ)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2012, 8:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/3 "2012-03-25T20:38:35Z")

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Is it more common than I think it is?

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**Author:** ![BMalion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e274bd/32.png) [@BMalion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BMalion)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2012, 8:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/4 "2012-03-25T20:48:12Z")

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Yes, I have.

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**Author:** ![billfish678](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7bcc69/32.png) [@billfish678](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/billfish678)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2012, 8:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/5 "2012-03-25T20:49:47Z")

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Yep, but not very often. And normally I call in a stunt double but sometimes he isnt around.

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**Author:** ![Idle\_Thoughts](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/838e76/32.png) [@Idle\_Thoughts](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Idle_Thoughts)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2012, 8:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/6 "2012-03-25T20:57:45Z")

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Aye.

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**Author:** ![Tristan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tristan/32/18058_2.png) [@Tristan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tristan)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2012, 9:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/7 "2012-03-25T21:07:05Z")

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AS a much younger chap, I was engaged in relations with a lady, when much to my surprise and unhappiness, things came to a rather abrupt climax on my part.

Rather than accept the shame, I got very focused on what I was doing. After about 15 more minutes of the ol’ in-n-out I faked an o, in order to put an end to the farce. The young lady appeared to have bought it, I think.

Very embarassing at the time though…

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**Author:** ![TriPolar](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tripolar/32/3008_2.png) [@TriPolar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TriPolar)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2012, 10:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/8 "2012-03-25T22:52:43Z")

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Yes. It’s much more difficult when you’re getting a blowjob.

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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2012, 11:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/9 "2012-03-25T23:37:11Z")

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Moved MPSIMS --\> IMHO.

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**Author:** ![chowching](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f14d63/32.png) [@chowching](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chowching)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2012, 12:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/10 "2012-03-26T00:32:14Z")

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how can you fake an orgasm?

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**Author:** ![Mr.Accident](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f05b48/32.png) [@Mr.Accident](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr.Accident)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2012, 12:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/11 "2012-03-26T00:33:00Z")

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Yup. When my girlfriend and I first started having sex, I had extreme difficulty having an orgasm, so I began to fake them, since she didn’t want to stop until I had one. 45+ minutes of sex sounds fun, but it does get tiresome.

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**Author:** ![Alan\_Smithee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/2acd7d/32.png) [@Alan\_Smithee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alan_Smithee)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2012, 12:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/12 "2012-03-26T00:34:32Z")

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Yes.

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**Author:** ![Mosier](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ea924/32.png) [@Mosier](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mosier)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2012, 12:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/13 "2012-03-26T00:56:30Z")

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> [@chowching](#):
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> how can you fake an orgasm?

Go “unnhhhhhhhh!” and wiggle a bit.

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**Author:** ![crookedteeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b4bc9f/32.png) [@crookedteeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/crookedteeth)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2012, 1:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/14 "2012-03-26T01:03:35Z")

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I’m hoping my boyfriend never fakes them. We don’t use condoms though, so I think I would notice if there wasn’t sticky stuff in my vag.

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**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2012, 1:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/15 "2012-03-26T01:05:16Z")

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Yes.

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**Author:** ![pravnik](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/8edcca/32.png) [@pravnik](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pravnik)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2012, 1:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/16 "2012-03-26T01:18:09Z")

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No, never. No need, really.

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**Author:** ![The\_Second\_Stone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bbe5ce/32.png) [@The\_Second\_Stone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Second_Stone)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2012, 1:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/17 "2012-03-26T01:55:01Z")

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I always wondered what those little packets of mayonnaise were for.

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**Author:** ![Yorikke](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/yorikke/32/4335_2.png) [@Yorikke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yorikke)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2012, 1:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/18 "2012-03-26T01:56:26Z")

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Huh. Never. Surprised how many have.

Joe

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**Author:** ![TonySinclair](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/49beb7/32.png) [@TonySinclair](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TonySinclair)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2012, 2:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/19 "2012-03-26T02:02:36Z")

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Why on earth would I do that?

Oh, wait, do you mean with a partner?

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**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2012, 2:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-ever-fake-an-orgasm/616788/20 "2012-03-26T02:04:58Z")

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How is it possible? With a condom, I suppose, but otherwise?

And my answer is no. What’s the point? The only time I have trouble with said outcome is if I’ve had too much to drink. At which point I’ll announce “sorry, but I’ve had too much to drink.”

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