# Men: How many times have you worn a tux?

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion
**Created:** [June 10, 2014, 11:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514 "2014-06-10T23:49:23Z")
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### Author: ![Happy\_Lendervedder](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/happy_lendervedder/32/8488_2.png) [@Happy\_Lendervedder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Lendervedder)
#### Post date: [June 10, 2014, 11:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/1 "2014-06-10T23:49:23Z")

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Poll coming.

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### Author: ![Happy\_Lendervedder](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/happy_lendervedder/32/8488_2.png) [@Happy\_Lendervedder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Lendervedder)
#### Post date: [June 10, 2014, 11:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/2 "2014-06-10T23:51:46Z")

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Oh me? I’ve worn a tux on four occasions: Two black-tie banquets, and two weddings (one of which was mine).

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### Author: ![zoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zoid/32/336_2.png) [@zoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zoid)
#### Post date: [June 10, 2014, 11:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/3 "2014-06-10T23:53:31Z")

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I bought my own if that tells you anything.

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### Author: ![Procrustus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/procrustus/32/2994_2.png) [@Procrustus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Procrustus)
#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 12:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/4 "2014-06-11T00:04:10Z")

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two times, that I recall. My high school prom and my second marriage. Both were disasters.

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### Author: ![njtt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ecd19e/32.png) [@njtt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/njtt)
#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 12:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/5 "2014-06-11T00:09:32Z")

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Is this a matter of opinion?

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### Author: ![Colibri](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/colibri/32/1841_2.png) [@Colibri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Colibri)
#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 12:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/6 "2014-06-11T00:12:23Z")

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Three. My senior prom, another prom a girl asked me to, and my sister’s wedding (when I was a member of the wedding party).

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### Author: ![Happy\_Lendervedder](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/happy_lendervedder/32/8488_2.png) [@Happy\_Lendervedder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Lendervedder)
#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 12:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/7 "2014-06-11T00:19:06Z")

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> [@njtt](#):
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> Is this a matter of opinion?

It’s a poll, and this is the forum for polling.

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### Author: ![PaulParkhead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@PaulParkhead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PaulParkhead)
#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 12:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/8 "2014-06-11T00:23:43Z")

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Never. I can recall one occasion when I was supposed to wear one, turned up in a regular suit and wasn’t turned away.

That was a bit rude of me, violating the dress code and all. These days I’m not so young and stupid , and would simply decline the invitation altogether.

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### Author: ![Tim\_R.Mortiss](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tim_r.mortiss/32/142_2.png) [@Tim\_R.Mortiss](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tim_R.Mortiss)
#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 12:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/9 "2014-06-11T00:27:15Z")

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Buncha weddings, around 7 or 8. Other than that, never.

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#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 12:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/10 "2014-06-11T00:29:53Z")

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About seven or eight times, maybe.

One notable occasion: I was the best man at my friend’s wedding in Houston, then had to go right from the all-night part to the airport in the morning to go home. When I arrived in New York, I went to some art exhibit with my uncle, and I was still wearing the tux. My uncle joked, “If you’re here for the Million Man March, sorry, but you missed it…it was a month ago!”. (Indeed, that event had taken place about a month previously).

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### Author: ![Suburban\_Plankton](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/suburban_plankton/32/219_2.png) [@Suburban\_Plankton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Suburban_Plankton)
#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 12:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/11 "2014-06-11T00:41:58Z")

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Just once, to my wedding.

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### Author: ![Omar\_Little](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/omar_little/32/269_2.png) [@Omar\_Little](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omar_Little)
#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 12:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/12 "2014-06-11T00:57:13Z")

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I’m not sure. More than 25, but probably less than 50.

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### Author: ![Cunctator](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/43a26b/32.png) [@Cunctator](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cunctator)
#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 1:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/13 "2014-06-11T01:00:14Z")

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The standard performance dress (for men) in my choir is black tie/dinner suit. As a quick estimate, I’d have worn a dinner suit on approximately 800 occasions.

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### Author: ![AClockworkMelon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aclockworkmelon/32/10803_2.png) [@AClockworkMelon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AClockworkMelon)
#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 1:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/14 "2014-06-11T01:02:32Z")

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Never.

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#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 1:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/15 "2014-06-11T01:10:05Z")

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I own 8 suits of formal wear, dinner jackets, white tie & tails, kilts, victorean, top hat, 2 opera capes (count 'em two!) and I could tie a bow tie!

I loved dressing up.

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### Author: ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)
#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 1:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/16 "2014-06-11T01:19:34Z")

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Not once. But I don’t vote in public polls.

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My chorus gives at least 3 concerts a year, with 2-3 performances for each concert. We always wear tuxes for our December holiday concert, sometimes for the others. Also some other events throughout the year. I joined the chorus in 1995. That puts me over 50, although in haste I clicked on 21-50.

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### Author: ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)
#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 1:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/18 "2014-06-11T01:36:59Z")

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> [@panache45](#):
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> That puts me over 50, although in haste I clicked on 21-50.

That’s _part_ of why I don’t vote even in noncontroversial polls if they’re public. I too on occasion have clicked on a wrong choice. No need to have that hanging out there giving the wrong impression.

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#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 1:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/19 "2014-06-11T01:39:52Z")

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I wore one for a friend’s wedding. I wore a suit to my own wedding.

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### Author: ![brad\_d](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/50afbb/32.png) [@brad\_d](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/brad_d)
#### Post date: [June 11, 2014, 4:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-how-many-times-have-you-worn-a-tux/690514/20 "2014-06-11T04:14:56Z")

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I answered “21-50”, but on reflection I probably should have said “50+”.

I’ve been to a handful of proms and weddings, but I also play tuba in a number of amateur groups for which the typical performance attire is a tuxedo. I wear a tux more frequently than I do a suit.

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