Here’s a tip, dude. If you ask a woman out and she says she can’t go because she has to wash her hair, that means she’s not into you. It doesn’t mean anything else.
And I couldn’t help but notice that you immediately equated Michelle’s shower with workout clothes and lunch breaks. When I was younger, before I realized I was working with immature men that think the only reason women shower is so they can admire their own soapy boobs in the mirror, I was working doing manual labor outdoors, in 90 degree weather, in dirt.
You know, situations where “I can’t wait to get home and shower” might be the thing that’s very much foremost in your mind.
One of my biggest frustrations with being a beautiful women in a male dominated professional world was knowing that the professionalism was just a veneer and that most of the people you worked with were sexualizing you on some level.
My teacher and mentor, that after 15 years, grabbed me and kissed me in the office because he felt it was important that I know…….something. The new client, someone that was introduced to me by my boss, that asked me out during our first meeting and stormed out when I told him I had a boyfriend and proceeded to cut me dead every time he saw me for the next five years.
Another client that had become a friend to the extent that I once vacationed him and his wife and children, that made a pass at me after a twenty-year friendship.
And then guys wonder why we don’t “smile more.”