# Men who stare... and act ashamed about it. **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [March 15, 2013, 4:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020 "2013-03-15T16:55:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 12
**Author:** ![MOIDALIZE](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e274bd/32.png) [@MOIDALIZE](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MOIDALIZE)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2013, 8:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/221 "2013-03-21T20:08:15Z")
> [@MeanOldLady](#): > > Here are my tits You seem just as unhappy with them as I am. And frightened. You’re as white as a ghost! ---
**Author:** ![The\_Surb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ce73a5/32.png) [@The\_Surb](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Surb)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2013, 11:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/222 "2013-03-21T23:05:19Z")
> [@MeanOldLady](#): > > Here are my tits > > [http://fap.to/images/full/41/194/1946050094.jpg](http://fap.to/images/full/41/194/1946050094.jpg) Those are nice, but can you do them in a gif? I like a little movement. ---
**Author:** ![BrainGlutton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/82dd89/32.png) [@BrainGlutton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BrainGlutton)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 12:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/223 "2013-03-22T00:43:36Z")
> [@hotflungwok](#): > > From personal experience, women who welcome that kind of constant attention are in the minority. Guy look away quickly cuz there can be consequences for getting caught staring. "Excuse me! My eyes are up **here!"** :mad: "So what?! Your brains are down **here!"** 😃 ---
**Author:** ![R3d\_Anonymous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/aeb1de/32.png) [@R3d\_Anonymous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/R3d_Anonymous)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 12:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/224 "2013-03-22T00:47:19Z")
I think the OP is stupid. Seriously, you want men to look at your cleavage and not act ashamed about it or look away? Do you realize that the chances of that are about equivalent of us establishing a world government within the next few years? Yeah, ain’t goin’ to happen…at least not in the real world, maybe fantasy land. You see, the problem here is, _you_ may not mind men looking at your cleavage, but it can be assumed that _most_ women would go and slap the guy if he didn’t make an effort to at least look away. I hate these kinds of threads - threads where women get pissed at every trivial goddamn thing that men do. So you should just be quiet and stop complaining, or get have, “Look at my cleavage,” written on your clothing, okay? :rolleyes: ---
**Author:** ![The\_Surb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ce73a5/32.png) [@The\_Surb](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Surb)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 12:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/225 "2013-03-22T00:57:46Z")
> [@Anonymous User](#): > > So you should just be quiet and stop complaining, or get have, “Look at my cleavage,” written on your clothing, okay? :rolleyes: You must not be following the thread very closely, she is not writing on her clothes! ---
**Author:** ![R3d\_Anonymous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/aeb1de/32.png) [@R3d\_Anonymous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/R3d_Anonymous)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 1:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/226 "2013-03-22T01:34:25Z")
> [@The\_Surb](#): > > You must not be following the thread very closely, she is not writing on her clothes! No, I did not read the thread, just the OP. I don’t have time to be reading five pages of this shit thread. Another point, it’s called self-respect and respect for others. By not looking away or acting ashamed you are basically showing that you lack self-respect and respect for her. I don’t think most women want men looking at their cleavage, but there are exceptions such as the OP. The problem is that men are probably not going to stop looking away because it seems as if women like the OP are a minority. And frankly, I think the OP is acting like a bit of an attention-seeker as she does say: > [@Donna\_Lange](#): > > […]I wear the top because I want to and I’m perfectly happy for the attention and I know the kind of attention it will get. So you like that kind of attention, huh? Have some self-respect. Alright, I am done posting in this shithole. Have a nice day (or night rather). ---
**Author:** ![lorene](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/65b543/32.png) [@lorene](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lorene)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 1:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/227 "2013-03-22T01:45:15Z")
> [@Anonymous User](#): > > And frankly, I think the OP is acting like a bit of an attention-seeker The devil you say! ::monocle falls out:: ---
**Author:** ![BrainGlutton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/82dd89/32.png) [@BrainGlutton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BrainGlutton)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 1:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/228 "2013-03-22T01:53:15Z")
> [@Donna\_Lange](#): > > **Men who stare… and act ashamed about it.** Of course I’m embarrassed! I just killed your goat! :o ---
**Author:** ![AClockworkMelon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aclockworkmelon/32/10803_2.png) [@AClockworkMelon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AClockworkMelon)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 2:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/229 "2013-03-22T02:03:37Z")
> [@Anonymous User](#): > > No, I did not read the thread, just the OP. I don’t have time to be reading five pages of this shit thread. > > Another point, it’s called self-respect and respect for others. By not looking away or acting ashamed you are basically showing that you lack self-respect and respect for her. > > I don’t think most women want men looking at their cleavage, but there are exceptions such as the OP. The problem is that men are probably not going to stop looking away because it seems as if women like the OP are a minority. > > And frankly, I think the OP is acting like a bit of an attention-seeker as she does say: > > So you like that kind of attention, huh? Have some self-respect. > > Alright, I am done posting in this shithole. Have a nice day (or night rather). Nobody likes you. ---
**Author:** ![AnalogSignal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/analogsignal/32/1085_2.png) [@AnalogSignal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AnalogSignal)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 3:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/230 "2013-03-22T03:26:35Z")
Meh. You folks are easily impressed. The internet is full of pictures of [great tits](http://www.stockphotopro.com/photo-thumbs-2/B6YHMH.jpg). There is no shortage of [bouncing tits](http://images1.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20090227175854/uncyclopedia/images/1/18/Bouncing_tits.gif) either. ---
**Author:** ![Fiona\_Greenlee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e68b1a/32.png) [@Fiona\_Greenlee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fiona_Greenlee)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 5:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/231 "2013-03-22T05:08:25Z")
> [@ladyfoxfyre](#): > > God, you sad, sad woman. Just stop. I’m waiting for the Lifetime movie called _Has Tits, Seeks Attention: The Donna Lange Story_ starring Tori Spelling. Featuring the tearful admission that Daddy just didn’t hug her enough or hugged her just a little too long. ---
**Author:** ![deltasigma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e5b9ba/32.png) [@deltasigma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/deltasigma)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 5:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/232 "2013-03-22T05:35:47Z")
This isn’t going to be an official train wreck until DL and the “twins” appear on Dr. Phil and they get into a shouting match about how Donna is exploiting them. What? Titties have feelings too you know. :mad: ---
**Author:** ![Sampsiceramos](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Sampsiceramos](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sampsiceramos)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/233 "2013-03-22T08:01:31Z")
I believe this little webcomic 'ere sums up the board’s rather ambivalent reaction at large to the thread _quite_ succinctly: [http://www.dead-philosophers.com/?p=633](http://www.dead-philosophers.com/?p=633) But then, I’m crazy, and more of an ass man. ---
**Author:** ![Cheshire\_Human](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/5f8ce5/32.png) [@Cheshire\_Human](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cheshire_Human)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/234 "2013-03-22T08:37:05Z")
> [@VinylTurnip](#): > > I just hope that if my wife ever looks up my username on Google Images, those aren’t the first two things that jump out at her. I can’t think of a convincing explanation. Uhh, dude? You’ve got bigger [problems](http://i.imgur.com/rGWjm.jpg) than _that!_ ---
**Author:** ![deltasigma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e5b9ba/32.png) [@deltasigma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/deltasigma)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/235 "2013-03-22T08:43:43Z")
> [@Sampsiceramos](#): > > I believe this little webcomic 'ere sums up the board’s rather ambivalent reaction at large to the thread _quite_ succinctly: > > [http://www.dead-philosophers.com/?p=633](http://www.dead-philosophers.com/?p=633) > > But then, I’m crazy, and more of an ass man. I don’t understand why (and I sort of wish I did), but that cracked me up. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Donna\_Lange](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Donna\_Lange](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Donna_Lange)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 12:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/236 "2013-03-22T12:03:02Z")
> [@Cheshire\_Human](#): > > Uhh, dude? You’ve got bigger [problems](http://i.imgur.com/rGWjm.jpg) than _that!_ Aww, its the first result too o.o Mine is second, lol [Google image search for Vinyl Turnip and Boobs](http://www.google.com/search?um=1&hl=en&safe=off&biw=991&bih=604&tbm=isch&sa=1&q=%22Vinyl+Turnip%22+%22Boobs%22&oq=%22Vinyl+Turnip%22+%22Boobs%22&gs_l=img.3...89325.91629.0.91841.8.8.0.0.0.0.99.450.8.8.0...0.0...1c.1.7.img.y3Y6foZM3DA) ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 12:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/237 "2013-03-22T12:28:01Z")
Forget the boobs, why the hell are anime screenshots coming in that search? That’s way more troubling… ---
**Author:** ![gallows\_fodder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/8c91f0/32.png) [@gallows\_fodder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gallows_fodder)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 1:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/238 "2013-03-22T13:04:49Z")
Girl, you need to get a bra that actually fits. Go to Nordstrom or a quality boutique and get a proper fitting (forget Victoria’s Secret; the salespeople aren’t trained well and the bras are poorly made), and your boobs and back will thank you. ---
**Author:** ![Meatros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b4bc9f/32.png) [@Meatros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Meatros)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 1:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/239 "2013-03-22T13:05:01Z")
> [@VinylTurnip](#): > > Forget the boobs, why the hell are anime screenshots coming in that search? That’s way more troubling… Or guys with massive amounts of synthol injected into their arms…? ---
**Author:** ![Donna\_Lange](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Donna\_Lange](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Donna_Lange)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 1:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/240 "2013-03-22T13:06:12Z")
My back is perfectly fine my dear and the bra fits like a dream. Its only so jiggle because I’m bending over and bouncing in place. @VT, the reason is due to Bronies it appears… [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020.md?page=11) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020.md?page=13)